has anyone been bullied back into a relationship?

has anyone been bullied back into a relationship?

Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
I told my boyfriend of a year and a half that I dont want to be with him anymore. He pretty much bullied me back into the relationship so now I am stuck in a relationship I dont want to be in.

I live with him and I dont have family or friends in Hawaii to move in with.
06/30/2012
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hall5885 hall5885
Quote:
Originally posted by Scrawberry78
I told my boyfriend of a year and a half that I dont want to be with him anymore. He pretty much bullied me back into the relationship so now I am stuck in a relationship I dont want to be in.

I live with him and I dont have family or friends ...
I did once then one day I realized him bullying me back into the relationship was a form of abuse. While it may not be physical now, it can and most likely will lead to that. That's what happened to me. Please for your safety try to find a way out. Maybe look at local ads for a roommate to move into?
06/30/2012
Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by Scrawberry78
I told my boyfriend of a year and a half that I dont want to be with him anymore. He pretty much bullied me back into the relationship so now I am stuck in a relationship I dont want to be in.

I live with him and I dont have family or friends ...
I was repeatedly bullied back into a relationship that was on/off for 12 years. I finally had enough and left his sorry ass. I'm married now, and I hear from friends that the ex is regretting the BS he put me thru. I say he deserves the guilt!! You need to find a way to get out of there!
06/30/2012
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
Quote:
Originally posted by Scrawberry78
I told my boyfriend of a year and a half that I dont want to be with him anymore. He pretty much bullied me back into the relationship so now I am stuck in a relationship I dont want to be in.

I live with him and I dont have family or friends ...
That is not a good situation. If I were you, I would get in contact with a local women's services center and ask for help. They can assist you with finding alternative, affordable housing and work, or they can help you to take the necessary steps to relocate.
06/30/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Into staying in one, yes. But once it was a "break" on his part and I got to thinking, he did NOT get me back when he came crying back a week later like I knew he would. Cheaters, liars, thieves and abusers have no place in my life anymore! Don't you have family or friends where you moved from that you can call and get some help to leave? I would even use my credit card to put gas in my car or buy a plane ticket to get a friend out of an abusive relationship!
07/01/2012
js250 js250
Into staying--definitely. I have no advice, I have not left that part of a relationship behind--we are getting couples counseling. I no longer regret it as much as I did since we are both working on fixing the relationship.
07/01/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I have never been bullied though I was persuaded to get back together with my husband when we were dating. Thing is it's where I wanted to be and still is. If you feel threatened or bullied then PLEASE find a safe place to go and get help. That is no way to live.
07/01/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by js250
Into staying--definitely. I have no advice, I have not left that part of a relationship behind--we are getting couples counseling. I no longer regret it as much as I did since we are both working on fixing the relationship.
I'd say that is some amazing and sound advice Js250! The prevailing sentiment seems to be to get help...couple's counseling is help too. Wishing you both the best.
07/01/2012
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Scrawberry78
I told my boyfriend of a year and a half that I dont want to be with him anymore. He pretty much bullied me back into the relationship so now I am stuck in a relationship I dont want to be in.

I live with him and I dont have family or friends ...
O ya..I was with him forever and loved him to pieces and thats why I got pushed back with him,but he did alot of shitty things to me and regretted going back..until he got cancer and died..then I felt terrible for feeling that way and prayed for him back! Just know though...life is to short and you desreve happiness,if your in a relationship you dont wanna be in then dont be in it!I realize it might be hard because you dont have anyone but save up your money,start asking around and get even a room for rent for the mean time.Once that weight is lifted off your shoulders you will feel better,and also remember you left him once and survived you can do it again!
07/01/2012
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