I had this very weird day. I think she's just overwhelmed with problems in school or family, she gets too little sleep for a weeek now.. She didn't want me to go down on her or to massage her, nothing and she went home after a few hours but tomorrow is our 21month anniversary. Some moments were pretty awkward but she didn't say anything. I hate it whem women don't talk, keep stuff for themselves then explode when it's too late. Seriosly if you have something inside you just tell it as soon as it hits you Maybe it's a bad habit, I don't know. Last time we had these awkward moments she had issues with her dad, he really doesn't like me sleeping there with her, and maybe it's escalated.. Do you think I should worry or it'll pass?
Have you ever felt like the other party is just about to break up?
04/30/2011
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I had the same feelings before me n my ex split, so i just ended it
04/30/2011
I'm a lot like that about keeping quiet. I did it bad today! I do it because I'm afraid if I spill my paranoid guts then it'll ruin his day or make me seem complain-y and paranoid. I just don't want to cause anyone to have a bad day or bad mood. That may be the same reason she bottles it up. The thing that gets it out of me is when he asks & is not in a stressful or frustrated mood & says that he really wants to hear what's wrong & help. Then, I'll spill it right away. I guess I just have to be sure first. You should try this with her and see if it helps. I have a lot of stress from my dad too & sometimes I get upset for a couple days at a time.
05/11/2011
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