We've slept in a different area after a fight before, we have separate homes. It just made me more stressed throughout the night and super upset the next morning especially if we had made plans to sleepover initially
Have you ever slept in a different area of your partner after a fight?
02/03/2013
He slept on the couch one night but that's it
02/04/2013
We only have one bed and I'm sure as not going to sleep on our sofa or recliner. If I was that upset I would go to a hotel and if I found myself there I would be thinking of other alternatives. Besides we rarely fight, each holding it in. We are just learning to communicate more openly. I wouldn't want to go back to holding it in.
02/04/2013
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not very often, but there have been one or two fights that we cant stand to see each other. in the morning though things are usually fine.
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LavenderSkies
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02/04/2013
Only once-he slept on the couch!
02/04/2013
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We are so darn odd. We never have fought about anything. Never had anything to fight about!!!
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LavenderSkies
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02/04/2013
Not the whole night, no. We've gone to separate spaces at the end of the night if we are *really* mad, but always end up in bed together.
02/04/2013
We don't live together, but even so, we don't fight. We communicate all the time where we don't get to the point of fighting since we work things out before it can ever get to that point.
02/04/2013
yes
02/04/2013
Always together.
02/04/2013
I've tried to and he has tried to but every time we try the other makes us come back to bed lol
02/04/2013
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Yes, of course.
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LavenderSkies
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02/04/2013
NO! This is actually a really important topic to me.
When I was growing up my parents always made it a rule that if we were arguing, we had to either fix it, or agree to disagree and talk again in the morning. We could never go to bed being angry with anyone else in the house. I think it may have stemmed from a fear of dying overnight and having the last words being angry ones (my dad lost his father when he was young and has always been conscious of this).
So of course, I took this into my relationship with my S.O. He didn't get my need to make up before bedtime at first, but he's understanding, so we always resolve issues before bed and snuggle
I know this may work for us because neither of us have a temper, nor the ability to stay mad for a very long time. I'm sure it wouldn't work for everyone though!
When I was growing up my parents always made it a rule that if we were arguing, we had to either fix it, or agree to disagree and talk again in the morning. We could never go to bed being angry with anyone else in the house. I think it may have stemmed from a fear of dying overnight and having the last words being angry ones (my dad lost his father when he was young and has always been conscious of this).
So of course, I took this into my relationship with my S.O. He didn't get my need to make up before bedtime at first, but he's understanding, so we always resolve issues before bed and snuggle
I know this may work for us because neither of us have a temper, nor the ability to stay mad for a very long time. I'm sure it wouldn't work for everyone though!
02/04/2013
yes, an ex wouldn't leave so i slept on the couch
02/04/2013
no, we have a policy never to go to bed angry
02/04/2013
Never!
02/05/2013
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