Have you & your partner made a sex tape? Who has control over where it is stored? Any discussion about what happens to it if you break up?

He has all of our videos and access to the nudes of me. I trust him with them because even if we break up I know he wouldn't share them. He won't even do anything like that to get back at the ex who hurt him the very most and he still has issues because of what was done to him by her, years later! So, I feel comfortable knowing that he has them. He also knows that since I stay friends with most of my ex's and I don't do the whole "revenge blackmail" thing, he isn't worried knowing that I have some of them on my computer.

We don't have much in the way of videos, but there are some pictures, and (like Peggi's guy) my husband didn't use the plethora of pictures he had of his last ex to get back at her for the stuff she did to him, so I trust that even if we were ever to break up they wouldn't see the internet. I've never been much for the revenge blackmail either, so I wouldn't be posting stuff around.

We have videos and pictures. I destroyed a lot of our earlier videos because I was, um, under the influence of some...stuff on them and not a fan of evidence lol. The newer ones are digital. I don't really care all that much if he shows them to people if we break up because everyone we are friends with have seen me naked anyway so it wouldn't be anything new. My husband wouldn't be able to figure out how to get them on an Internet site and I trust that he wouldn't anyway as he hasn't done this to any of his exgirlfriends.

Still photos are much more common than 'sex tapes' in the relationships I've been in, and they've all been digital. I've never worried about anything ending up on the internet after a breakup---I wouldn't be giving pictures to a guy who was that unscrupulous. On top of that, I've never had a tumultuous breakup, nobody's ever wanted "revenge"... ugh. I shudder to think of being in that kind of situation. Never going to happen to me, I am attracted to level-headed and kind humans.

The only time I was scared was when one ex-boyfriend had his camera (with, yes, live 'sex-tape' type stuff) stolen. (His laptop was stolen at the same time, and that had plenty of pictures too, but it was password-protected and set with a remotely-brickable program.) He told me right away (even though that was somewhat recently after the breakup and we weren't really talking much), and we both crossed our fingers that the thief was more interested in the hardware than the data on it.

Two years later nobody's called me up to tell me they've seen me naked on the internet, so luckily even the thief had scruples (or was too stupid to figure out what to do with it). If the worst had happened, I'd be really sad that I couldn't run for president without being the subject of a "sex tape scandal." But, at least I know I can trust my former partners.

Never done it, but I keep pushing for it.

Breaking up is never, ever on the table. We just don't play that way. We have quite a few and about 500 pictures (mostly me). Thankfully, my husband isn't a douchebag and he would never do something so evil as to try to use them against me.

My husband and I have several locked up on my personal laptop.

We've never made a sex tape, and neither of us really has any desire to.

I kinda want to make one. Just to see what I look like. But I have a feeling, we're probably both pretty awkward looking in bed.