Your in a very long term relationship with someone you've been with for over 25 years. You have trust and understanding between you but now you want, no crave more sex. Self satisfaction is just not the same as physical contact with another human nor does your partner want to just stimulate you when they're not in the mood. Tell me honestly, how would you feel about your partner if they asked you this question? Would you still be able to trust them?
"Honey, how would you feel about an open relationship?"
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I would still trust them. They came to me before stepping out on our marriage and that shows me my spouse has a huge amount of faith and trust in me.
I would consider it, weigh the pros and cons and proceed in the best direction for our relationship. At 50+ years old, I think people should definitely be asking these questions and experience everything they're interested in trying - especially things they denied themselves for the sake of their marriage during their 20's, 30's and 40's. Life is short, you never know what's going to happen and after being for someone with 25 years I'm pretty willing to bet I'd want to step outside the comfort zone and make things as memorable as possible.
I would consider it, weigh the pros and cons and proceed in the best direction for our relationship. At 50+ years old, I think people should definitely be asking these questions and experience everything they're interested in trying - especially things they denied themselves for the sake of their marriage during their 20's, 30's and 40's. Life is short, you never know what's going to happen and after being for someone with 25 years I'm pretty willing to bet I'd want to step outside the comfort zone and make things as memorable as possible.
01/15/2013
I would consider it, but it would have to be discussed at great length. I would personally want to know who the other people are, see that everyone is tested, and take plenty of precautions.
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