This question is for those who are in long term relationships and want ideas for how to keep things fun and interesting over the years.
How do you keep your sex life interesting when in a long term relationship?
06/11/2012
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We use lots of toys. We have everything from a jetaime machine to bullet vibrators, swings, lingerie, ect.
Nothing is off limits for us except adding another person so i am told.
Nothing is off limits for us except adding another person so i am told.
06/11/2012
We're always coming up with new toys and new positions. We're very talkative. Whenever we have sex we talk about what we liked/didn't like and what we might be curious about. It keeps things interesting.
06/11/2012
What a great question. I am currently trying to figure this one out for myself as well. I'm in a long relationship and recently I've been trying to figure out how to spice things up because it has not been as passionate as it use to be.
Well first we decided to try new positions and experiment with anal. We also bought a vibrator and have been having some fun with that. However it did not quite solve everything. So my BEST ADVICE and what seems to be working better for us is to just communicate more with your partner. Tell them how you've been feeling and reminisce on the past to maybe rekindle that spark that burned so brightly and gave you all of that passion. Honestly for me, just letting my partner know how I feel and hearing how she felt allowed us to work on improving our sexual relationship. Right now as we are in the middle of improving it I can say I couldn't be any happier and am very excited to be with her and experience all the wonders of sex.
Well first we decided to try new positions and experiment with anal. We also bought a vibrator and have been having some fun with that. However it did not quite solve everything. So my BEST ADVICE and what seems to be working better for us is to just communicate more with your partner. Tell them how you've been feeling and reminisce on the past to maybe rekindle that spark that burned so brightly and gave you all of that passion. Honestly for me, just letting my partner know how I feel and hearing how she felt allowed us to work on improving our sexual relationship. Right now as we are in the middle of improving it I can say I couldn't be any happier and am very excited to be with her and experience all the wonders of sex.
06/11/2012
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Thanks for sharing how you are making things better. At nearly 58 I marvel at people as young as you - still needing and working on making things better. I thought that was just for us old guys!
Originally posted by
WD40watcher
What a great question. I am currently trying to figure this one out for myself as well. I'm in a long relationship and recently I've been trying to figure out how to spice things up because it has not been as passionate as it use to be.
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What a great question. I am currently trying to figure this one out for myself as well. I'm in a long relationship and recently I've been trying to figure out how to spice things up because it has not been as passionate as it use to be.
Well first we decided to try new positions and experiment with anal. We also bought a vibrator and have been having some fun with that. However it did not quite solve everything. So my BEST ADVICE and what seems to be working better for us is to just communicate more with your partner. Tell them how you've been feeling and reminisce on the past to maybe rekindle that spark that burned so brightly and gave you all of that passion. Honestly for me, just letting my partner know how I feel and hearing how she felt allowed us to work on improving our sexual relationship. Right now as we are in the middle of improving it I can say I couldn't be any happier and am very excited to be with her and experience all the wonders of sex. less
Well first we decided to try new positions and experiment with anal. We also bought a vibrator and have been having some fun with that. However it did not quite solve everything. So my BEST ADVICE and what seems to be working better for us is to just communicate more with your partner. Tell them how you've been feeling and reminisce on the past to maybe rekindle that spark that burned so brightly and gave you all of that passion. Honestly for me, just letting my partner know how I feel and hearing how she felt allowed us to work on improving our sexual relationship. Right now as we are in the middle of improving it I can say I couldn't be any happier and am very excited to be with her and experience all the wonders of sex. less
Congratulations and keep growing!
06/12/2012
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Lingerie helps and changing places too!
Originally posted by
lukymami
This question is for those who are in long term relationships and want ideas for how to keep things fun and interesting over the years.
06/12/2012
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Both of those
Originally posted by
lukymami
This question is for those who are in long term relationships and want ideas for how to keep things fun and interesting over the years.
06/15/2012
I've been trying to figure that out. My partner and I have been together for almost 4 years now, and it seems that he's all but lost his drive. I've tried everything I could think of to spice things up, I was even willing to try some things he wanted that I was unsure about.
I will be watching this thread for a while!
I will be watching this thread for a while!
06/15/2012
Usually new toys and positions, sometimes we change up how we do foreplay
06/15/2012
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