How long since you last had sex?

Contributor: lezergirl lezergirl
Long term relationships can get stagnant - is yours?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Hours
ToyTimeTim , indiglo , moonch1ld , Selective Sensualist , Dark Muse , Gunsmoke , AU , Liz2 , mrs.mckrakn , tits only , SexyStuff , Alan & Michele , teeny <3 , toxie m , The Curious Couple , Joie de Cherresse , Miss T , P'Gell , Lithaewyn , LennaKieran , kelaaa33wish , tickle me pink , EastCoast36 , Ansley , bluekaren , SugarAndSpice , Retro , sexyintexas , ~LaUr3n~ , Rossie , angel142stx , Checkmate , Vanessa Weiss , Beck , babypinecone , ac0313 , aliceinthehole , Bignuf , Airen Wolf , southern woman , CreamySweet , NaturalWoman , emiliaa , bdvnt , jj1228 , l'amour , TheSlyFox , TylerDurden , Jaimes , cburger , Subbi , Cherry21 , Stephanie Majors , Stinkytofu10 , Zombirella , MimicMouse , Mr. E , PDXlady , blacklodge , Kindred , CrystaCat , meitman , A.Mari , Mwar , RomanticGoth , Sbmsvschoolgirl , jc123 , John E W , chickyto82 , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , mjtheprincess
71  (30%)
Days
PassionQT , PussyGalore , BadassFatass , Vaccinium , Jimbo Jones , Yoda , zracer , hive83 , Morganna , *HisMrs* , Waterfall , Tart , cnspots , Beaners , liilii080 , Kissaki , darthkitt3n , ninaspinkturtle , 34 , married with children , Mlee , DexterStratton , leanright69 , rdytogo , Cream in the Cupcake , CSEA , al16 , Lily Night , newlady , Ajax , LikeSunshineDust , ellejay , Valentinka , slynch , ToyingCouple , padmeamidala , mama2007 , extrafun , naughtyjo , *Ashley* , K101 , CPTInsanity , Lummox , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , PiratePrincess , barrettbn2 , eggiweg , newfoundlust , LilyLust , froggiemoma , CAKES , honeybee7484 , Kitty Grub , Ryuson , dudemeister , RonLee , qwertypop , Noira Celestia , Elaira , Lady Nina , Kkay , guard083 , N&M , Sunshineamine , jroho , Princess-Kayla ♥ , IslandGoddess , ParisLove , AndroAngel , Breas , big b , wrecklesswords , caligaliber , lilly555 , Sinfully , LaSchwartz , LavenderSkies , sweetcaroline , Hot'n'Bothered , Lindsey123 , switzerland , Stagger13 , Wildchild , TwistedTruth , Undead , MissCandyland , BlooJay , dbm6907 , Kitka , sweetiejo , Chris15461 , mistressg , LilLostLenore , scottg1986 , calliope , Graniteal , Lizzy , ilovemyclit , MaryExy , rom323 , unfulfilled , hhh , J5ive , SadoMas , Sirena , NarcissisticLust , PropertyOfPotter , panthercat23 , AliMc , Alyxx
111  (47%)
Weeks
Jobthingy , Coralbell , Redboxbaby , BBW Talks Toys , IrishLassie , potstickers , vanillaSpice , pinkcupcakes , leatherlover , lamira , Modern^Spank^Anthem , StephieBoo02 , joja , cherie2188 , Willis2011 , Kim! , jesseftm , Sex'и'Violence , Cherrylane , BlackxxxRose , MooRawr , Katelyn , karay123 , Nkev , Ilovelingerie , SilverLily771 , Kittybit , Genderfree
28  (12%)
Months
Illusional , Darling Jen , Crystal1 , Envy , Amanda3 , AZNYcouple15 , Mason , Lady Marmelade , Kdlips , Ms. Spice , bayosgirl , deletedacct , jeangel246 , ily , collifornia , ThoughtsAblaze , Art & Sensation , bunniebunnie , sweet&lush , Andrew32 , Howells , Velocity , Beautiful-Disaster , Apirka , gsfanatic , CaliGirl , swaggsohott12
27  (11%)
Total votes: 237
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Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Is your relationship stagnant?

We haven't had sex since Sunday but there isn't anything wrong or ill in our relationship or our interest in each other. Just, try as we may it didn't happen in those 72 hours. It's ok, tonight is date night and that's a guaranteed good time in the sack.
01/20/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I only see him on weekends...so I have to wait. =(
01/20/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
ugh. a few weeks.
01/20/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Three hours ago.

21 years and it has never got stagnant. Sure there are slow times but those have to do with kids, work etc.
01/20/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Oops, I accidentally hit the wrong voting button. It was 2 nights ago, so I believe we're due for it again tonight!
01/20/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
19 days and counting. My horns are showing!
01/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
A couple weeks, but some of that was mutual play, I'm just talking intercourse. It's mostly due to illness and TOM. Not stagnant. But TOM will be gone just in time for his birthday!
01/20/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
A couple weeks, but some of that was mutual play, I'm just talking intercourse. It's mostly due to illness and TOM. Not stagnant. But TOM will be gone just in time for his birthday!
Its the same for us too minus the illness. I think Im going out of my mind!!

Our sex life isnt stagnent, just female problems
01/20/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
Very late last night.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
December was the last time, when I went to see him
01/20/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
December
01/21/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Weeks, and it'll be months. Long distance is lame.
01/21/2011
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Months, but it's because I'm no longer in a relationship. But honestly it could be a while for some people whose relationships are just fine. Deployment, business trips, pregnancy, recovery from illness/surgery, etc. are all legit reasons not to have sex but the relationship be better than ever.
01/21/2011
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
Months- thanks for the reminder, I'll go cry now. If I were in a relationship, though (not counting long distance) anything more than a week would be totally unacceptable.
01/21/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Only a couple of days. We had a good session before he went on his business trip. /sigh Now I have to go a week. Lame.
01/21/2011
Contributor: Dark Muse Dark Muse
Right now, it's been 10 hours. Before that, it had been about a month. Yay for breaking the dry spell. Thank god for snow, otherwise I'd still be frustrated.
01/21/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
You are right - we've been at this almost 22 years and both know it takes some effort. She blew me off last night - too tired - but she got up a few minutes early for a quickie this morning. Nice warm up for a HOT weekend - which is when we have sex most often.
01/21/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
It has been probably two weeks now. Between her period with a UTI, and being on a mini vacation, and me being home only two days a week, we don't have too much time together. We just got the Hitachi, so when I get home on Sunday night, I hope I can coax her into bed for a "message"
01/21/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I don't think my relationship is stagnant at all because I keep bringing new things to the table. As time goes by, the intimacy deepens, and we're more open to new things. It's all good!
01/21/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
Try years, lol. Long distance relationship, so obviously nothing going on here.
01/21/2011
Contributor: AU AU
Hehe, at first I was thinking "Days" but then remembered what happened before bedtime.
01/22/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Last night but due to his traveling and frequent snow delays, this winter has been rough.
01/22/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
It's been a few days, which is more than a little frustrating.
01/22/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
finally got some after a days. extra sucks cause we sleep in the same bed every night
01/22/2011
Contributor: lamira lamira
It's been a few weeks since my partner and I have had the opportunity to have sex. And it will be a few more weeks until he comes to visit me at school.
01/22/2011
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
I go for long periods of time that i'm not in the mood
01/22/2011
Contributor: tits only tits only
just a hour ago
01/23/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
A few days ago, and probably again tonight
01/25/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
He wants it every night, we settle on 3-4x / week
02/03/2011