How would you feel finding out....

How would you feel finding out....

Beck Beck
that your long term partner was married before and after the divorce he slept with the ex wives sister? I know that since they were not married at the time that this does not matter to the relationship so there was no cheating. However I still feel as if there is something wrong with this idea? What do you think?
08/02/2011
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Ansley Ansley
I wouldn't care. I'm sure there are plenty of facts and emotions I was unaware of at that point in his life and it doesn't have any effect on what we're doing.
08/02/2011
Kkay Kkay
I would be a little wary because it seems that it could be deliberately spiteful, and temper is something that is a major turnoff for me.
08/02/2011
JessCee JessCee
I wouldn't care. It had nothing to do with me, lol but I'd still want to hear the story about how this all happened, sounds like it'd be a good one!
08/02/2011
Callisto Callisto
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Originally posted by JessCee
I wouldn't care. It had nothing to do with me, lol but I'd still want to hear the story about how this all happened, sounds like it'd be a good one!
I agree. I also don't have any sisters either. I really think it's probably an isolated incident with lots of back story. He probably doesn't run around sleeping with ex's sisters.
08/02/2011
js250 js250
I would not let it affect the current relationship, however maybe you should talk to each other about it and if there was spite, etc. playing a part in the arrangement, be wary. People do change - base your feelings on your current situation.
08/02/2011
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I wouldn't care since it would be before he was with me.
08/02/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I feel that is his past, not mine. I do not care how many partners my husband had before me, nor do I care who they were or what their marital status was. I am his present and his future.

My husband feels the same way.
08/03/2011
N&M N&M
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
that your long term partner was married before and after the divorce he slept with the ex wives sister? I know that since they were not married at the time that this does not matter to the relationship so there was no cheating. However I still feel ...
Seems odd. How long was the attraction? Did it also lead to some of the problems?
08/03/2011
EJ EJ
I don't think it would be a problem for me. I have issues with lying and deceit, but it doesn't sound like those were the issues in this case.
08/05/2011
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