I am 21 and have only been with two men....

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I am 21 and have only been with two men....

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Contributor: Spankinsweet Spankinsweet
I was married from age 16 to verry soon divorced . And I have reunited with my middle school sweet heart, . Now, I was shocked to find out my sweet heart has been with quite a few others.
My predicament is, I feel like I may need "more experience".... But then again, I'm proud of my number.
My sweet great is obviously "flattered" to not be in line with an even longer line of dicks in his way, but why can't I get some numbers under the sheets???

What are your views?????
07/30/2012
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Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Don't sweat it, just enjoy what you have and don't worry about keeping up with anybody else.
07/30/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Don't sweat it, just enjoy what you have and don't worry about keeping up with anybody else.
Agree!

Just because you have fewer partners doesn't mean you lack in experience.
07/30/2012
Contributor: mikeysPlace mikeysPlace
You can gain all the experience you need with your new partner. The journey will help you grow together as well. Now if you feel like you're just not ready to settle down with this particular guy, or anyone else right now, then don't rush it.
07/30/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I don't think there's anything to worry about.

You're coming out of a 5 year relationship and odds are your sweetie didn't have many long term girlfriends during that same time if he's been with "quite a few". I'd say it's quite likely you're the more experienced sexually - he's just had more experiences (other partners).
07/30/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Don't sweat it, experience is more than the number. Confidence also helps a lot, and each partner is different
08/02/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I agree with the advice to not sweat it. You may have had actually more sex, while he may have had simply more partners.

My husband has had more partners than I have had, but it's never bothered me.
08/02/2012
Contributor: Ganconagh Ganconagh
Nothing to worry about. You can get all the experience you need with him
08/02/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I wouldn't sweat it you could still have more experience only being with 2 people compared to his however many. You don't always have to be experienced you can always learn from him or learn together. My numbers are up there an I haven't experienced everything myself.
08/02/2012
Contributor: ghent529 ghent529
Enjoy what you have! My SO has only been with 3 people not including me. where as I have been with a lot more people than her. it makes her uncomfortable I can't help that. I wish that I didn't do what I did. But I ddin't know I was going to end up with a girl like her. But she's gotten over it now. You will to. It'll be fine i promise.
08/02/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I have had one partner and I would consider myself very experienced. With that one partner I have tried a lot of stuff. Learned a lot. Read a lot. I do not think the number of partners is important. Also everyone is different I do not think other people help with a new relationship. If you communicate and learn what your partner wants then you are amazing to them and they will not care at all how many other people you have slept with.
08/03/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by mikeysPlace
You can gain all the experience you need with your new partner. The journey will help you grow together as well. Now if you feel like you're just not ready to settle down with this particular guy, or anyone else right now, then don't rush it.
I agree!!

My husband is my second partner. He didn't have much experience before me and we've both taught each other everything we need to know when it comes to pleasing each other. It's a truly awesome bonding experience to know that we have each other in that way.
08/03/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
I'm 20 and have only been with one guy, I'm not regretful or anything, as long as you're happy with the experiences you have had I don't think numbers matter
01/30/2013
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
When you start off with a new person sometimes it can be just like starting from scratch again!
01/31/2013
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
If it makes you feel any better, I'm 22 and I've only been with 3 people my whole life sexually.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I've been with only two people sexually, and it's really just a number! There is no reason for anyone to tell you you're more worth it/less worth it because of how many people you have had sex with in the past! What should matter is you as a person.
02/02/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
number aren't important. and an added bonus for your current situation, he can teach you a few things.
02/02/2013