Who is the instigator? You or your partner? why or why not?

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Who is the instigator? You or your partner? why or why not?

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Contributor: Tech88 Tech88
Who is the one to initiate sex? You or your partner? I am not good at initiating. I wish I was more comfortable with it.
01/15/2015
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Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Most of the time, I am. Why, I don't exactly know why. Perhaps its because I get horny at a faster rate than my partner or because I'm younger. It could be that I'm more use to going after the things I want.
01/15/2015
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I am. But that's because my husband goes to bed early, so I have to wake him up when I'm ready for sex in the wee hours of the morning — I am a night owl!
01/15/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Tech88
Who is the one to initiate sex? You or your partner? I am not good at initiating. I wish I was more comfortable with it.
Your op was back in Jan. I hope you are more comfortable with initiating it now. Can always just start doing solo play to let SO know. With us Oh is the instigator 70% of the time. When Ow gets out one of her toys, it's a hint.
01/17/2015