Who is the instigator? You or your partner? why or why not?

Who is the instigator? You or your partner? why or why not?

Tech88 Tech88
Who is the one to initiate sex? You or your partner? I am not good at initiating. I wish I was more comfortable with it.
01/15/2015
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Inquisitor Inquisitor
Most of the time, I am. Why, I don't exactly know why. Perhaps its because I get horny at a faster rate than my partner or because I'm younger. It could be that I'm more use to going after the things I want.
01/15/2015
Rossie Rossie
I am. But that's because my husband goes to bed early, so I have to wake him up when I'm ready for sex in the wee hours of the morning — I am a night owl!
01/15/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Tech88
Who is the one to initiate sex? You or your partner? I am not good at initiating. I wish I was more comfortable with it.
Your op was back in Jan. I hope you are more comfortable with initiating it now. Can always just start doing solo play to let SO know. With us Oh is the instigator 70% of the time. When Ow gets out one of her toys, it's a hint.
01/17/2015
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