Yep. Goth pretty much says it all. Relationships go through that. There's the "honeymoon" phase then you kind of become part of each other's integral existence and co-habitiate and sex slides off the schedule. You have to work at it.

Yep, that happens. I agree with trying new things..positions, toys, fantasies, etc. You know I actually find that now after being with my husband for 9 years it seems that every 2-3 years we go through a slight slump. We get used to things and things seem "same old, same old" for a few months, and then we discover something new and it refreshes our sex life. So, don't worry it's natural and it doesn't need to be permanent. You can easily get the spice back. Lately what we've found works is erotic massages and more sensual talking with each other.

Goth really knows what she's talking about! Definitely listen to her.

I'm a guy, and even I go through this sometimes. To the point I just want to cry, no shit. One of my fears is ending up like my parents, where we are to the point that we don't even talk to eachother anymore. I first started freaking out when I noticed that we were not kissing during sex anymore. It took me a few months to even notice. Then sex became routine. Just the same four positions and blamo! It had no feeling, no passion, nothing. So i got sick of it and threw a vibrator into the mix. It was slow at first but once we started talking more about it and played with a few of them until we finnaly found one we loved sex became an all out romper room of passion. My point is, if you truly love each other, the passion is still there, you just have to light the fire, anyway you can!