need some advice on how to get my man to have sex with me more. was great in the beginning when we started to date 2 years ago. now 2 years later it has gone down so much. just would love some advice on how to get it back up to par.
Need some advice for the bedroom, please?
01/23/2013
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My advice; have sex with HIM more! Embrace your spontaneous, sexy, love kitten side and pamper him with it. Life gets busy, we have other priorities, and sex can fall off the "necessary wagon" when you are tired or stressed. The way we keep it interesting and constant is by mixing things up. Although I have fulfilled almost all of my man's fantasy's, I know his sex drive will be upped by two things a) feeling better about himself (so I compliment him more, make him go workout when I do, and make sure I buy healthy groceries so he's forced to eat good food) or b) get his mind crazy turned on by making his fantasy's come true yet again. When my man is working out consistently and I make sex all about him, I get better sex, more sex, and more spontaneous sex. It's really an improvement for both of us =D Best of luck!
01/23/2013
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Good post! I don't have this problem often, but usually I just have to spend a little extra time kissing or showing that I'm really attracted to my guy to get him to want sex. Usually all it takes is prompting on my end to make him feel ready. Once I get him feeling confident, he's turned on enough to take charge.
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mjtheprincess
My advice; have sex with HIM more! Embrace your spontaneous, sexy, love kitten side and pamper him with it. Life gets busy, we have other priorities, and sex can fall off the "necessary wagon" when you are tired or stressed. The way we keep
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My advice; have sex with HIM more! Embrace your spontaneous, sexy, love kitten side and pamper him with it. Life gets busy, we have other priorities, and sex can fall off the "necessary wagon" when you are tired or stressed. The way we keep it interesting and constant is by mixing things up. Although I have fulfilled almost all of my man's fantasy's, I know his sex drive will be upped by two things a) feeling better about himself (so I compliment him more, make him go workout when I do, and make sure I buy healthy groceries so he's forced to eat good food) or b) get his mind crazy turned on by making his fantasy's come true yet again. When my man is working out consistently and I make sex all about him, I get better sex, more sex, and more spontaneous sex. It's really an improvement for both of us =D Best of luck!
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01/23/2013
Sexual desire need and want is in your brain--make him feel sexy, wanted-NOW- and very desired and special. You get back twice what you give!!!
01/24/2013
Yea I'd say initiate more, maybe he wants you to show you're interested too and the balls in your court in his mind? That's what my guy did, he wasn't sure if I wanted sex with him anymore or what so he left it up to me to initiate and show him I wanted it too
01/24/2013
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