One of the things you just DON'T say . . .

Sorry he said that to you I know that hurt. I would be hurt by it definitely and I would talk to him about it( and no more being ok with them being friends-but that's me). I would explain to him why it bothered me and ask him why he would say something like that. Then depending on how the convo went and because I can be a spiteful bitch sometimes Id fuck his brains senseless just to show him ain't no body hes had better than me lol.
Good luck girl

I might get a little upset about it. But.. I guess it's his opinion.. I'd use it as a challange lol. And besides, you've only been with him for a month.. so you probably don't know all of what he likes and how he likes it.

I would be really upset by it, but I would understand and try to change his opinion by being better in bed than her

I know he is your boyfriend, but some people are too dumb for there own good. Man rule is that you never say something that will stop your girl from giving you sex. What he said shatters that rule. Don't get me wrong, every guy thinks about a past lover and how great they were at something. I'm sure most women do the same, but don't be that dumb in telling them that they were the best. There is a reason that he isn't with her anymore, he better realize it and try to keep what he has now.

dont say the truth but dont say lies

I'm sorry you were hurt by what he said. Just like everyone else, I agree that people (not just men, women are often just as thoughtless or intentionally so) speak before thinking, and treading on sexual territory is a dangerous place to slip.

You never know what he was thinking about when he said that. Speaking for myself, I know I could easily make that statement accidentally, but it would be less about the person than the situation surrounding what makes it so great. There's the first that got me to orgasm, or maybe the person that had kinks crazier than mine. Maybe one had the best physical goods, or just another that could dirty-talk a storm... Yeah, I could very, very easily say something like that and mean something completely different.

If you've felt like you already know too much, it may be good to just not open that door again, even slightly. The other option is to probe further--which risks getting hurt more, but there's also the chance that you could uncover a fantasy or kink or even position that he happens to place high on the list. I run into this situation pretty often with my sweetheart, and I can usually get to the meat of the issue by digging past what he said to parse what he really meant.

I mean, I guess that goes with the territory of talking about your past sex lives. That sucks, but as somebody else said, I'd take it as a challenge.

No matter who was actually the best, it's always a good idea to tell the current partner that they blow your mind unlike anyone ever has. White lies are brilliant for relationship padding. I realize that there are exes out there who must have been great in bed, but I definitely do not need to hear that from my boyfriend.

ooh and when we are having sex and im riding him im the best hes ever had but when its not his way it sucks..

Honestly, at one month, you shouldn't be sharing such intense things about your past. The relationship has not developed enough to share those things without getting, like you are now, hurt.

He's with you for a reason. Recognize that. Sometimes, people say things without realizing how they may hurt others. He may have just been making a random comment on it, not saying anything about your skill or your relationship even.

Just tell him that it upset you and move on from it, if the relationship is valuable to you. If it's not (which I can understand, since it's only been a month), then just forget it and don't let it upset you.

Hope that that helps, and I hope that you feel better!

Ouch. I would definitely not like to hear that, I don't care how true they think it is. I agree with what some others have said about the foot in mouth deal, but only being with someone for a month doesn't give much time to know him yet. It could have been a slip on his part, or he could really be like petite valentine said. It's hard to tell because I don't know him, and it will take time before you get to know how he really works too.

I still think he owes you an apology no matter what his intentions were.

I understand how your feelings were hurt. Mine would've been too. I like knowing about everybody my partner has been with, but he's never said anything like that thank God! I think men need to think before they speak. How could he NOT see how hurtful that was. Here's how I would've explained it to my partner had I been in your situation: "Well, it'd be like me saying one of my ex's had the biggest and best penis!" Now that should really make him see where your coming from. He might say oh that don't bother me, but it would! It's not fun to wonder if you're good enough or if you equal up and no woman should ever feel like she's less than. It shouldn't be a competition and he shouldn't have compared like that.