Open Marriage?

Open Marriage?

Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
Do you have an open Marriage?
02/10/2011
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Quote:
Originally posted by Purpleladybug
Do you have an open Marriage?
NOPE. We're far too jealous and possessive of the other to do that. He doesn't want to share me and I don't want to share him. He also doesn't want to have sex with anyone else and neither do I so I guess it's OK.
02/10/2011
Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
NOPE. We're far too jealous and possessive of the other to do that. He doesn't want to share me and I don't want to share him. He also doesn't want to have sex with anyone else and neither do I so I guess it's OK.
Same here! Both my husband and I are way to jealous for that. But I guess for some people it works just fine. I am kind of curious to hear from someone who does have one on how it works and makes things different for them.
02/10/2011
*HisMrs* *HisMrs*
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
NOPE. We're far too jealous and possessive of the other to do that. He doesn't want to share me and I don't want to share him. He also doesn't want to have sex with anyone else and neither do I so I guess it's OK.
Same here as well!
02/10/2011
hive83 hive83
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Originally posted by Purpleladybug
Do you have an open Marriage?
I realy don't think it works for most people at least not for us.
02/10/2011
PussyGalore PussyGalore
No, we do not.
02/10/2011
Rockin' Rockin'
We're not married, but we were in an open relationship for a little while. I think we might decide to be open again in the future. I've read about a lot of different ways to have open relationships, and what worked for us for a while was a sort of "date other people" thing. We didn't have full-on relationships with other people, but we would email and flirt and meet up with other people on dates. We dated people separately and haven't explored threesomes (or moresomes) but I've known other people who are into that kind of open partnership.
02/10/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Nope, don't ever plan to.
02/10/2011
ScottA ScottA
Nope, not planning on it.
02/10/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
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Originally posted by Purpleladybug
Do you have an open Marriage?
No way. Making love and being in a loving relationship go hand in hand. If my heart is with one person(my wife),then the rest of me is with her too. Sex is an act, but making love is the top of the mountain. I'll stay on top.
02/10/2011
Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
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Originally posted by markeagleone
No way. Making love and being in a loving relationship go hand in hand. If my heart is with one person(my wife),then the rest of me is with her too. Sex is an act, but making love is the top of the mountain. I'll stay on top.
I like that!!!! =0)*
02/11/2011
That Guy That Guy
Not married yet, but we've been together long enough that I know it isn't gonna happen, and if it did, we'd be on a fast-track to trouble.
02/11/2011
*Huxley* *Huxley*
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Originally posted by Purpleladybug
Same here! Both my husband and I are way to jealous for that. But I guess for some people it works just fine. I am kind of curious to hear from someone who does have one on how it works and makes things different for them.
Gah! I feel the same way. I am pretty open minded and see how people could want to do that. But I don't understand how they deal with it mentally. I am really curious to hear about that. I like to imagine my husband from time to time with someone else, I am sure the feeling is mutual. But actually doing it? I don't think so.
02/11/2011
Miss B Haven Miss B Haven
My husband and I have an open marriage. We see sex differently than most people do I think. To us, sex is just an activity no matter how many people are involved. Making love is more intimate and reserved just for us though, if that makes sense. We did seclude ourselves for a while when I was very ill but now that I am getting better we find ourselves opening up again

It comes down to trust in our house. I trust that no matter who he is with he will always be home with me by nights end and he trusts the same. If either one of us started sneaking around or trying to be more exclusive or intimate with another person, that would be crossing the line.
02/11/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
Yes. It took getting over some hurdles and there were rough times but we did open our marriage up successfully. That has kind of died off though and I don't think it is the best over the long term. Life is slowing back down again and we are going more the CLR path.
02/11/2011
married with children married with children
nope. happy with just the two of us.
02/11/2011
Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
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Originally posted by Miss B Haven
My husband and I have an open marriage. We see sex differently than most people do I think. To us, sex is just an activity no matter how many people are involved. Making love is more intimate and reserved just for us though, if that makes sense. We ...
Thanks for sharing!
02/12/2011
al16 al16
Never
02/16/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Yep. We opened it up for kink purposes.
02/18/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Purpleladybug
Do you have an open Marriage?
Yes, in fact I have two open relationships though the one with my life partner is less subject to outside play. My husband, life partner and I enjoy playing with others but we don't allow any playmates to interact with our children if it's a transient affair.
Needless to say we don't play with people we wouldn't trust around our children. Though we are open that doesn't mean anything goes!
02/18/2011
ValuptuousVirgo ValuptuousVirgo
I am currently in an open relationship with my soon to be husband and it is working out fine for the both of us. I don't think it would be something that is a permanent situation though after recent conversation with him, but we don't have any problems with our relationship bringing someone else in. As it was earlier stated, it takes a good foundation of trust and lots of communication for an open relationship to work.
02/18/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
I never understood getting married if you want someone else.
02/19/2011
Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Yes, in fact I have two open relationships though the one with my life partner is less subject to outside play. My husband, life partner and I enjoy playing with others but we don't allow any playmates to interact with our children if it's a ...
Thanks for sharing!!
02/19/2011
Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
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Originally posted by ValuptuousVirgo
I am currently in an open relationship with my soon to be husband and it is working out fine for the both of us. I don't think it would be something that is a permanent situation though after recent conversation with him, but we don't have ...
Thank you for sharing!
02/19/2011
tammyandy69 tammyandy69
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Nope, don't ever plan to.
Not judgeing but why not?
03/13/2011
tammyandy69 tammyandy69
We do have an open relationship. I can not see why anyone wouoldn't want to have there's open. We are hard wired to breed often and with lots of mates
03/13/2011
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