I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated them
original thoughts on current partner.
03/18/2011
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I knew from day one!
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cec578
I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated
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I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated them
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03/18/2011
I was neutral at first.
03/19/2011
I had the hots for my husband from when we first truly met. That hasn't changed at all haha.
Of course though, all relationships have their down points, but I've never truly HATED him. That's a very strong word.
Of course though, all relationships have their down points, but I've never truly HATED him. That's a very strong word.
03/19/2011
I really had no opinion on him at first. I got to know him.. then he stole my heart away.
03/19/2011
We started out as friends, never really even thought about it being anything more until way later.
03/19/2011
I didn't see it coming. We were friends for 2 years before we ended up more then friends. He said he always knew. Now we have a little saying..
HIM "I love you"
ME "I love you mostest"
HIM "I loved you first"
HIM "I love you"
ME "I love you mostest"
HIM "I loved you first"
03/19/2011
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I chose "other" because, as I have outlined in another recent post, I was trying to fend her off for a while before we started dating. I've never hated her, not in the least.
Originally posted by
cec578
I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated
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I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated them
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It's not what I'd have planned for, but it is wonderful and I couldn't ask for more.
03/19/2011
My words when I first was introduced to my husband were 'He's Alright.'
I was really neutral. He was good looking, but I didn't know him on a personal level.
Long story short, we went home together that night, and he has never left. I can't (& don't want to) imagine my life without him.
I was really neutral. He was good looking, but I didn't know him on a personal level.
Long story short, we went home together that night, and he has never left. I can't (& don't want to) imagine my life without him.
03/19/2011
I was sort of neutral at first. we went on a date and I was sort of "meh" about it, but I figured I'd give it a chance to see how it went. We've been dating about 9 months now and he continues to grow on me. I've never really been a love at first sight type of person.
03/19/2011
I voted 'Other' I was in another relationship at the time - and she was engaged to another guy. We had some unwinding to do before we could get together.
03/19/2011
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I was in another relationship when I met my husband too, but I still felt like I'd known him all my life from the first instant we met. Completely comfortable, easy conversations, all that.
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Gunsmoke
I voted 'Other' I was in another relationship at the time - and she was engaged to another guy. We had some unwinding to do before we could get together.
03/19/2011
When I first met my partner I just thought he was a nice guy who probably had a girlfriend. We kept running into each other and each time, I felt more and more drawn to him. We're now over the three year hump and I'm hoping for at least 33 more! It was never hate. We just went from eh? to oh wow!
03/19/2011
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I thought he was a drug dealer. LOL! (He wasn't. Just a big pot-head -acid-head-bean-head burn out. Hitting on a 16 year old girl. LOL! Who then became impressed with his decadent lifestyle. He was a guitar player with a band. I thought he was Keith Richards or something. I was a weird chick.)
Originally posted by
cec578
I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated
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I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated them
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He was just this kinda older guy who hung around and made stupid jokes, bored you to death with his guitar after a while, and got the girls stoned. Sheesh, what a mess we were back then.
A few girls who had gone out with him warned me about him. "He's all hands. He's a horny bastard." I didn't listen....
I certainly didn't paint a very attractive picture of him, did I? He was nice and sweet and cute and has taught me a lot, and I love him, despite him driving me CRAZY on a regular basis.
03/19/2011
Hated is a strong word, but I certainly didn't like him.
03/19/2011
I thought he was so damn cute! haha.
I didn't think he would be interested in me because I'm 2 years younger than him.
We met in an summer engineering class where the class was broken up into teams that had to build little cars that would be raced, so I definitely had competitive feelings towards him. When my team and I realized he was building one of the strangest, yet probably one of the best cars, we might have, um, jokingly decided that he needed to die
I didn't think he would be interested in me because I'm 2 years younger than him.
We met in an summer engineering class where the class was broken up into teams that had to build little cars that would be raced, so I definitely had competitive feelings towards him. When my team and I realized he was building one of the strangest, yet probably one of the best cars, we might have, um, jokingly decided that he needed to die
03/19/2011
I didn't hate him, but I knew him for almost four years before we got together and was not attracted to him at all.
03/19/2011
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ha yeah. First I didn't like him at all, then we became friends, then one night I got too drunk and puked in a bag in his room. After that I was so embarassed I started crying and kept going on about how he prolly hated me, but then that's when he told me he thought he loved me and things since then havn't been the same
Originally posted by
Taylor Von
I didn't see it coming. We were friends for 2 years before we ended up more then friends. He said he always knew. Now we have a little saying..
HIM "I love you"
ME "I love you mostest"
HIM "I loved you first"
HIM "I love you"
ME "I love you mostest"
HIM "I loved you first"
03/19/2011
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We were friends and with other people for 5 years and then hooked up for a few years, then seperated for 7 years, and now have been back together for a year and a half. OMG that sounds horrible!
Originally posted by
cec578
I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated
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I know personally I originally hated my partner, and never saw this happening in a million years, and I know my parents felt the same way when they first met. This got me thinking did you always like your partner or was there a time when you hated them
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03/19/2011
When I first saw Sigel he was hugging a friend of mine and I was SOOOOOOO interested. He had these jeans on and they were tight in the right places...and he had this naughty sparkle in his eyes.
When I first saw Arch my first thought was "OMG He is GORGEOUS!" my second thought was "I wonder if he will like my feet!" I knew he was a foot fetishist :> He loved them and still does...
When I first saw Arch my first thought was "OMG He is GORGEOUS!" my second thought was "I wonder if he will like my feet!" I knew he was a foot fetishist :> He loved them and still does...
03/19/2011
I know "Love at First Sight" sounds crazy. And maybe it wasn't exactly "love", but I had a thing for my hubby the moment I met him.
03/20/2011
Met him and married him within 2 months. As of this year we have been married for 8 years. I never got a chance to hate him. I guess I am lucky like that.
03/20/2011
he's cute
03/20/2011
When I met my boyfriend, I was in another relationship. So I thought he was attractive and very nice, and I may have fantasized about him a bit, but that was it. Eventually, I realized I thought he was incredibly attractive and incredibly awesome and couldn't stop thinking about him. And we obviously ended up together. I liked him from the start, but I definitely didn't think anything would come of it.
03/20/2011
I knew I wanted to hook up with her the moment I saw her, but she's really quiet so it took me a little while to make a good judgment call on her personality.
03/21/2011
I think I knew instantly.
But in my brain, I thought it'd never happen in a million years... because when I want something, it never happens.
Boy was I pleasantly surprised!
But in my brain, I thought it'd never happen in a million years... because when I want something, it never happens.
Boy was I pleasantly surprised!
03/21/2011
To me Hate is a strong word. I'd dislike them at times, and think they were an asshole. Then I'd think they were really sweet for doing something else. That's how I am with pretty much every person I meet though. I don't believe in that "love at first sight" stuff.
03/21/2011
We weren't trying to date or anything when we first met, we were just hanging out. We started dating after about two months and have been together three years now with a year old baby boy.
03/22/2011
At my first meeting with my Sir I was...rather indifferent. I thought he was playing up a bunch of stereotypes and while I found him attractive, he wasn't my type. *laughs* Luckily, opinions change. (although I still do tease him a bit when he manages to walk face-first into a stereotype)
03/22/2011
At first it was just a feel things out kinda thing and see if it would be fun to spend a summer together, but things happened and got serious.
03/22/2011