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Contributor: Aesenthia Aesenthia
So I have kind of a weird story...

My boyfriend and I split up several months ago for about two months. During that time, a friend I have known for 14 years bought me a sex toy. The toy got caught up in back orders and finally just shipped yesterday. I told my boyfriend about it. He is very upset. I don't know what to do. On the one hand I am excited to have a new toy, regardless of who it is from. On the other hand, I feel guilty about it. I thought my boyfriend would be excited about a new toy to play with, but he's not. He's quite upset. I told him that it was ordered when we weren't together and it is just now finally arriving...

Has anyone else received a toy that wasn't from their partner?
10/02/2014
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
nope. I've never received a toy from anyone.
10/02/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Aesenthia
So I have kind of a weird story...

My boyfriend and I split up several months ago for about two months. During that time, a friend I have known for 14 years bought me a sex toy. The toy got caught up in back orders and finally just shipped ... more
That's not happened to either of us. Yet. If my wife received a toy from another male, I might get upset though. If she does get one, I hope it will be something expensive and nice !
10/04/2014
Contributor: Heather Hessler Heather Hessler
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Originally posted by Aesenthia
So I have kind of a weird story...

My boyfriend and I split up several months ago for about two months. During that time, a friend I have known for 14 years bought me a sex toy. The toy got caught up in back orders and finally just shipped ... more
Yes~
08/01/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
I've purchased a toy for another person other than my partner before. I also got something for her husband.
08/01/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
I think our situations are different but I purchased a really nice toy and made a care package for a best friend who was having a 25th wedding anniversary They were actually going away, just the two of them, to a remote island. So, I wanted to give them a gift that "kept on giving".
08/01/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Aesenthia
So I have kind of a weird story...

My boyfriend and I split up several months ago for about two months. During that time, a friend I have known for 14 years bought me a sex toy. The toy got caught up in back orders and finally just shipped ... more
I have given a friend a toy, but never received any from friends.
08/03/2015
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
My older sister bought me one for my 20th birthday. She has a weird sense of humor, but honestly any partner getting up in arms about this kind of thing needs to chill the hell out.
08/29/2015
Contributor: Mandrina27 Mandrina27
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Originally posted by Aesenthia
So I have kind of a weird story...

My boyfriend and I split up several months ago for about two months. During that time, a friend I have known for 14 years bought me a sex toy. The toy got caught up in back orders and finally just shipped ... more
My husband and I only buy for ourselves and no one has ever bought for us.
11/05/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Mandrina27
My husband and I only buy for ourselves and no one has ever bought for us.
Do you mind if I ask," Who buys the majority of them ?"
With us I do most the shopping (O.h. husband) She has on occasion given final approval when shopping online. The few times we went to a Adult toy store, she took so long picking something (s).
11/06/2015
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
I have received them from 2 other male friends. They were appreciated, nothing I would have bought for myself. That being said they didn't get used and a big deal was not made of it.
11/06/2015
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Do you mind if I ask," Who buys the majority of them ?"
With us I do most the shopping (O.h. husband) She has on occasion given final approval when shopping online. The few times we went to a Adult toy store, she took so long picking ... more
I (the female) buy 90% of our toys. My husband bought the first many many years ago and I was very against using it. Once I did I was hooked and have been buying ever since.
11/06/2015
Contributor: sammm sammm
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Originally posted by Aesenthia
So I have kind of a weird story...

My boyfriend and I split up several months ago for about two months. During that time, a friend I have known for 14 years bought me a sex toy. The toy got caught up in back orders and finally just shipped ... more
My twin sister bought me my first vibrator and we have bought each other toys since then. Especially when there is a BOGO sale or something.
02/14/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Lioncub
I (the female) buy 90% of our toys. My husband bought the first many many years ago and I was very against using it. Once I did I was hooked and have been buying ever since.
Just curious and feel free not to answer, but, why were you so against using the toy? I don't get it.
02/17/2016
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've received one from my best friend and I've given them some as well.
02/17/2016
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Just curious and feel free not to answer, but, why were you so against using the toy? I don't get it.
My husband was against me using them when I first started a few years ago. I'm not sure if it was the whole ego thing or what, but eventually he came around.
02/17/2016
Contributor: RockDoc RockDoc
Have never had one bought for me or done it for others. It would have to be a special situation for me to do that as everyone has different likes in their toys.
02/18/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
I have been given a sex toy by a random stranger in the street. It was new and wrapped. It had Vote 1, Australian Sex Party.
03/24/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
My husband was against me using them when I first started a few years ago. I'm not sure if it was the whole ego thing or what, but eventually he came around.
Have you given him any ? I would love it if mine surprised me with some. Actually she offered to get me that V 2 K last year. The reviews on them are pretty good. However won't really know unless try it for myself.
03/25/2016
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by Aesenthia
So I have kind of a weird story...

My boyfriend and I split up several months ago for about two months. During that time, a friend I have known for 14 years bought me a sex toy. The toy got caught up in back orders and finally just shipped ... more
I used to be a Camgirl and also was a Suicide Girl Hopeful, so I've had a lot of strange men on the internet buying me sex toys over the years. I used to feel guilty about it, but it's not like I'm doing anything with them, so I dont feel bad anymore. Even though it does still creep me out a little, I can never say no to free stuff or free sex toys.
09/27/2016