I've been seeing someone for a couple months, long distance. He's going to visit next week and he's a christian non-virgin and wants to wait until marriage to have sex. this is kinda unfair to me because hes already indulged in pre-marital sex a couple of times.
It's been 5 years for me and I'm basically dying to have sex with him.. and him rejecting me makes me feel ugly and unwanted..
should I be more understanding or is there really a problem here?
edit. if it doesnt make sense I wrote it all in a bit of a panic.. every few weeks he says he doesn't want to wait then the next week if we have a small fight or disagreement.. we're back to waiting.
It's been 5 years for me and I'm basically dying to have sex with him.. and him rejecting me makes me feel ugly and unwanted..
should I be more understanding or is there really a problem here?
edit. if it doesnt make sense I wrote it all in a bit of a panic.. every few weeks he says he doesn't want to wait then the next week if we have a small fight or disagreement.. we're back to waiting.