I don't think that two people should stay together just because of sex. If there isn't any other love or feeling behind the sex then find some one that you are happy to have sex with?
Should couple stay together just becuase the sex is great?
01/25/2011
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I agree with that. Sex is best when shared by people that love each other. If people stay together because of sex and end up having kids, their relationship will be in trouble when their child gets in the way of the only thing they had to begin with. Basing a relationship on sex is just a bad idea.
Originally posted by
Mlee
I don't think that two people should stay together just because of sex. If there isn't any other love or feeling behind the sex then find some one that you are happy to have sex with?
01/25/2011
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Exactly, and if you are in a relationship that has always been good except for the sex, if you cant work it out, become friends.
Originally posted by
Mlee
I don't think that two people should stay together just because of sex. If there isn't any other love or feeling behind the sex then find some one that you are happy to have sex with?
01/25/2011
I guess it depends what the couple wants. If they are up front with each other that they don't any any romantic entanglements, but are just in it for the sex, I don't see what harm there is. Anyway, sometimes it isn't easy to find someone to love and who loves you back.
Of course, if one of them is being dishonest with the other about their intentions, then that would be wrong.
Of course, if one of them is being dishonest with the other about their intentions, then that would be wrong.
01/25/2011
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There are worse reasons to stay with someone. Provided the relationship doesn't include abuse (emotional or physical) sometimes sticking it out cause the sex is great can lead to rediscovering the reasons you got together inthe first place and a rekindling of the other stuff.
Originally posted by
Mlee
I don't think that two people should stay together just because of sex. If there isn't any other love or feeling behind the sex then find some one that you are happy to have sex with?
01/25/2011
Sex is not everything. if u hate the person they are all the other time then why feel stuck just because the sex sets off fireworks??? If you love the person and they love you there will ALWAYS be fireworks..even if the sex isn't the greatest, with the new person.
01/25/2011
Some people just want to be FWB. Not everyone agrees with it, but it works for some. Not all like emotional attachment.
01/25/2011
Yes, if that's all they want out of the relationship. I wouldn't judge two people for that.
01/25/2011
A better question would be, should a couple stay together if the sex is bad?
01/25/2011
I think it depends on the reason. If you're genuinely just enjoying the sex and that is all you and that partner want, have at it. If you (or the other person) is using sex as a tool to lead the other person on, treat them badly, or if you are staying out of fear of being alone, I think that is a wake up call to go and work on yourself. In that kind of situation I think you have to be really honest with yourself about what is going on so nobody gets hurt (well...too hurt).
01/25/2011
you need more then just sex for it to be a good relationship.
01/25/2011
No, not at all. A relationship is more than just sex, I don't care how good or bad it is. And I'm getting ready to go all old-timey after-school psa here: when you truly care about someone, that makes the sex all that much better, too.
Good sex is great but eventually that'll die down (hard to believe, I know) and you'll want companionship. And that'll be pretty hard to get with someone you have zero connection with.
Good sex is great but eventually that'll die down (hard to believe, I know) and you'll want companionship. And that'll be pretty hard to get with someone you have zero connection with.
01/25/2011
Absolutely not, but I'm sure people have stayed together for worse reasons.
01/25/2011
if sex is the only thing that's working for them, they shouldn't kid themselves and call it a relationship. If they want to just have sex for the fun of it, then fine but don't try and make it into something it isn't.
01/26/2011
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no! that's why you just be exclusive fuck buddies.. DUH
Originally posted by
Mlee
I don't think that two people should stay together just because of sex. If there isn't any other love or feeling behind the sex then find some one that you are happy to have sex with?
01/26/2011
i agree!
04/30/2011
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agreed.
Originally posted by
Taylor
if sex is the only thing that's working for them, they shouldn't kid themselves and call it a relationship. If they want to just have sex for the fun of it, then fine but don't try and make it into something it isn't.
04/30/2011
No! That would be crazy! If you don't love the person, then you shouldn't stay only for the sex. It's kind of wrong to do to a person anyways. It would be using them.
04/30/2011
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i believe good sex is a bonus to a good relationship
Originally posted by
Mlee
I don't think that two people should stay together just because of sex. If there isn't any other love or feeling behind the sex then find some one that you are happy to have sex with?
05/02/2011
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