My boyfriend moved in about a month ago and I've lost nearly all attraction to him. I think. My sex drive is still there and whenever he's gone I'm pulling out the sex toys.
We haven't had sex in 3 weeks. Part of this can easily be explained. At first it wasn't really me. He has some problems and lost his libido. But once he started getting it back I lost all interest. And then we took turns with this horrible bug which then brought on my period and he's anti-period sex. So yeah. Three weeks and we've only been living together for a month.
I've always had a really high sex drive. I still have a high sex drive. I just don't want sex with him. I'm not sure if it's because I realized that he will shower before work Thursday night and then then tends to not shower again until before work Sunday night. By Saturday I have no desire to have that on me. Or maybe it's because we're already fighting about his lack of doing housework and it's exhausting me. Am I being petty? Is this much bigger than sex?
We haven't had sex in 3 weeks. Part of this can easily be explained. At first it wasn't really me. He has some problems and lost his libido. But once he started getting it back I lost all interest. And then we took turns with this horrible bug which then brought on my period and he's anti-period sex. So yeah. Three weeks and we've only been living together for a month.
I've always had a really high sex drive. I still have a high sex drive. I just don't want sex with him. I'm not sure if it's because I realized that he will shower before work Thursday night and then then tends to not shower again until before work Sunday night. By Saturday I have no desire to have that on me. Or maybe it's because we're already fighting about his lack of doing housework and it's exhausting me. Am I being petty? Is this much bigger than sex?
