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Contributor: sugarOne sugarOne
For those who are in a long term relationship how do you spice the relationship up so it dosent become boring?
08/29/2010
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Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
I find that with life in general having something to anticipate and look forward to is very stimulating. I mean... how many times a year to you really go on vacation? Probably not many, but they are anticipated with excitement long before. So I try to put that in my relationship as much as possible. Whether it is looking at new toys and anticipating buying them... looking forward to date-nights or whatever gives you something to get you (both) through the hum-drum and look forward to what is coming-up.
08/30/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Frankly I'm not sure if we'll ever get to that point... some *interesting* role plays will probably result
"So, I'll pretend to be Marie Antoinette and you'll be a time traveling magician/technical support person for apple computer"
10/09/2010
Contributor: Timaree Timaree
here's a great column on throwing in some role playing to add some spice: link
11/17/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by sugarOne
For those who are in a long term relationship how do you spice the relationship up so it dosent become boring?
We have sex in different places, I try to be extra sexy when my hunny comes home..clean shaved, wearing something cute, and heels...he is still in the hands all over me all the time thing anyways so I think that has helped together 5years married 3
11/24/2010
Contributor: sweet434cream sweet434cream
When you have been with someone a while you can spice things up by trying new things when you think it is time for a mix up lol just do something different from time to time but you knw i have figured out that when you really love someone go with what you are feeling at the moment and you can never go wrong. Just take a second and think of what you can do and just go for it
11/27/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
We have phone sex, talk a lot, and when I go home, or he comes up to visit me, we try to make it as exciting and intimate of a day as possible.
11/28/2010