Spicing up a longer term relationship.

Spicing up a longer term relationship.

Solar Ray Solar Ray
I've been in a monogamous 10 year relationship with my lady and was just wondering what people would suggest is a great way to spice things up if sex is getting a little bit bland and repetitive? What's some good ideas to stimulate us both. Just throw some ideas out there and maybe I haven't thought of something obvious that we can easily do. Thanks in advance.
02/12/2011
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Miss Jenn Miss Jenn
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
I've been in a monogamous 10 year relationship with my lady and was just wondering what people would suggest is a great way to spice things up if sex is getting a little bit bland and repetitive? What's some good ideas to stimulate us both. ...
Do you have 2 computers / laptops in the house? Cam chat each other on like Yahoo messenger or google talk...

Role play.

While hes at work, send sexy texts / pics.

Share your fantasies - make one of his come true - one that your comfortable with.

I have been with my husband now for almost 7 years. We always find ways to spice it up. Never gets boring!
02/12/2011
Moein Moein
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
I've been in a monogamous 10 year relationship with my lady and was just wondering what people would suggest is a great way to spice things up if sex is getting a little bit bland and repetitive? What's some good ideas to stimulate us both. ...
New look for each of you will have an effect. Try to change hair style, cloths, your fragrance.

Creative ideas for hot gifts: lingeries, highheels, seasonal make up.

Adult games available in EF is a good idea because it contains fun.

Smile to her at all time. She will remember your smile calm face for long time.
02/12/2011
newlady newlady
I like games. Adult games.
We bought this little box thing from the bookstore. Its a Cosmo thing, but it has a little 'ticket' you pull out each day and 'do'. Some are for him, some for her, some for both and morning ideas.
You can never go wrong with presents; lingerie, candles, bubble bath ... maybe a new toy?

You are awesome to care enough to ask questions!
02/12/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I think the way to start spicing thigns up for a lady is outside the bedroom. Get one of those books like 1001 ways to be romantic, or check out some date idea blogs. For women you've gotta start outside the bedroom and then the effects trickle down into your sexplay.
02/12/2011
Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I agree with SexyStuff about starting outside the bedroom. Maybe you could leave little notes for her teasing her about all the things you will do to her that night. Or buy her some erotica and mark some passages that might turn her on.
02/12/2011
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