I'm surprised nobody has commented on this before...interesting. Anyway, no, we have not gone to one before. However, she has bought a vertical fitness DVD and is trying to get into shape (she's currently lost 30 lbs), but I doubt she would ever want to go on an amateur night out. On the flip side, I think she might be interested in buying a pole for the new home (here's hoping). Finally, no, I would not go to one alone. She would consider it disrespectful to her (that I don't find her attractive enough) if I went without her. She's never suggested going together and I doubt she would - too many self-confidence/self-i mage issues.

J and I have not gone together, but in the past I have gone with guys I was dating. Would I go? No, but his rule, I just follow...would J go? Who knows, but it wouldn't bother me if he did because he comes home to me...no biggie.

Yes, for a while we would go quite regularly, as we both enjoyed the experience. But that's the key, both partners have to really enjoy the experience, one partner shouldn't drag the other, and if you're uncomfortable with it, don't cave. I would not go alone, however. It seems as though the dancers who work the floor tend to avoid couples, however, since they don't want to offend my girlfriend (even though she's fine with it).

We never gone. It's not that I wouldn't (I absolutely would), but my hubby just doesn't like strip clubs. He feels that they are, for the most part (at least in our area) pretty seedy places. He's also not big on the whole paying-to-be-cock-teas ed thing either.

My wife and I have never gone together, and we probably never will. Just not our thing. We would rather watch something erotic on tv.

I honestly want to go at some point or another, but the boyfriend always ends up finding excuses not to go. I'd love to go though - just for the experience of it all.

I've never gone with my current boyfriend, but I have gone with others. My ex-husband used to do sound in a strip club near us on a regular basis but it was one of my least favorite clubs. I would have no problem going with my current boyfriend, we just haven't yet. I'd be ok with him going alone if he wanted to, and while I wouldn't go completely alone, if a group of my friends were to go, I'd be up for it.

I have never gone to a strip club and neither has my boyfriend. Neither of us feels comfortable with them.

I don't know if I care to go to a "strip club," but I would love my husband taking me to a Gentlemen's Club. (All the strip clubs around us are sleazy) I would love for him to buy me a lap dance and sit there and watch. We both have been to them before, but we have never been together.

I've gone a few times, only ever with my boyfriend. He goes sometimes with a group of friends or whatnot, he spends almost half the time texting me.

Oh, my favourite part of strip clubs: the food! Some places have *incredibly* good poutine.

We haven't gone together, He's gone to one with Friends before when they went to something down in Seattle. We are taking a trip to vegas pretty soon here, and are going with another couple, and we plan on going to one, simply because I and the other girl that is going have never been. I don't live anywhere near a strip club, so even if we wanted to go to one, it would take a lot of planning and effort that I just don't see the need for it.

I don't care if he goes to strip clubs on his own or anything. We are in a commited relationship enough that I don't care where he goes with his friends.

Ive always wanted to go just to see what its like you never know untill you try right??? not to menchen chicks are hot!!! my fience has been he said he really didnt like it.... and i qoute "i didnt really like it y iam i going to go to a club and pay to watch some chick dance when i could come home to you and you would do the samething and i get to follow through..."