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Eden C.
My girlfriend likes sweet vanilla sex, but I like more aggressive, kinky sex. I try doing little aggressive things in bed (like pinning her down), but she's not into it. I love her, I just have a different sex style!
Has anyone else been
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My girlfriend likes sweet vanilla sex, but I like more aggressive, kinky sex. I try doing little aggressive things in bed (like pinning her down), but she's not into it. I love her, I just have a different sex style!
Has anyone else been in the same situation? What should I do?
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I have been in the same situation, only I prefer for my partner to be more aggressive. I tried to tell him to be more dominant in bed and he told me that he doesnt like the thought of hurting me.
What I found works is just consistantly have talks about each others limits, kind of easing them into the idea. For instance, I had to first start out with typical stuff like pulling hair ect. Now im trying to work on the restraints
