It has been a while since any big arguments. However I did check all the boxes with the exceptions of other and Infidelity. We have learned arguing doesn't do any good. Only makes things worse.

We really don't argue. I know that's probably hard to believe but it's true. If I had to pick an area, it would be finances towards the beginning of our marriage. I was young and came to the table with a lot of debt. This can put a strain on anyone starting out. Now, I'm pulling more than my fair share and it's not an issue. We struggled with me wanting to stay home, cutting my income, in order to raise our daughter. Again, finances reared it's ugly head. It's a typical driving force for arguments. We don't really argue over sex, even though I chose it. It's a topic of conversation for us on occasion (not a lot--but sometimes ). I think I need the closeness and intimacy of it more than he does.

We also rarely fight, so your not alone in this Vnessa. I'm actually really easy to get along with. I don't really care about much an am fairly flexible on most issues. All I ask is for the other party to help me see things from their perspective. I digress, our disagreements stem from one issue and it spills over to other issues of our life.

I find that arguing or not seeing eye to eye helps clear the air of any lingering or unresolved issues in my relationship. Granted, some have yet to be resolved, but, at least we know what is expected from each other after the argument takes place.

My partner and I rarely fight but honestly our biggest blowup was two years into our relationship, over the TV show Black Mirror, which I was emotionally horrified by and thought was bleak beyond necessity, but he is a huge fan of, and thinks it is a masterpiece.

Now this way sound minor to most people, but we're both VERY opinionated (and tend to assign our values and beliefs to things we stand by), and VERY much in sync 99% of the time, so we challenge each other ruthlessly when we're not of a similar mindset. It got a little ugly, but we took about two days to talk through it and come to terms.

His family and how they treat him and our children.

My mother is very toxic and my husband tries to get me to realize this and disown her. While it would probably be the best for my mental health, I can't just disown my MOM.

Was who was going to be giver and receiver. And who was going to be on top.

No , just kidding. What in a joking mood.

ARGH. I apologize for cutoff nonsense comment. Is there an edit?

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