What was your biggest argument over?

What was your biggest argument over?

BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
As a couple, what was the root of your biggest argument? This poll is anonymous so feel free to be honest.
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Total votes: 45 (26 voters)
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07/16/2015
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OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
It has been a while since any big arguments. However I did check all the boxes with the exceptions of other and Infidelity. We have learned arguing doesn't do any good. Only makes things worse.
07/16/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
We really don't argue. I know that's probably hard to believe but it's true. If I had to pick an area, it would be finances towards the beginning of our marriage. I was young and came to the table with a lot of debt. This can put a strain on anyone starting out. Now, I'm pulling more than my fair share and it's not an issue. We struggled with me wanting to stay home, cutting my income, in order to raise our daughter. Again, finances reared it's ugly head. It's a typical driving force for arguments. We don't really argue over sex, even though I chose it. It's a topic of conversation for us on occasion (not a lot--but sometimes ). I think I need the closeness and intimacy of it more than he does.
07/17/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
We also rarely fight, so your not alone in this Vnessa. I'm actually really easy to get along with. I don't really care about much an am fairly flexible on most issues. All I ask is for the other party to help me see things from their perspective. I digress, our disagreements stem from one issue and it spills over to other issues of our life.

I find that arguing or not seeing eye to eye helps clear the air of any lingering or unresolved issues in my relationship. Granted, some have yet to be resolved, but, at least we know what is expected from each other after the argument takes place.
07/18/2015
Raymaker Raymaker
My partner and I rarely fight but honestly our biggest blowup was two years into our relationship, over the TV show Black Mirror, which I was emotionally horrified by and thought was bleak beyond necessity, but he is a huge fan of, and thinks it is a masterpiece.

Now this way sound minor to most people, but we're both VERY opinionated (and tend to assign our values and beliefs to things we stand by), and VERY much in sync 99% of the time, so we challenge each other ruthlessly when we're not of a similar mindset. It got a little ugly, but we took about two days to talk through it and come to terms.
08/29/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Raymaker
My partner and I rarely fight but honestly our biggest blowup was two years into our relationship, over the TV show Black Mirror, which I was emotionally horrified by and thought was bleak beyond necessity, but he is a huge fan of, and thinks it is a ...
Black Mirror is great! I thought I was one of the few people that watched it. Good to know I'm not alone.
08/31/2015
Lioncub Lioncub
His family and how they treat him and our children.
11/06/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lioncub
His family and how they treat him and our children.
Yeh. It's strange how sometimes though a sibling will her a family member, she will stick up for them later. "Hey, it wasn't me. She said it "
11/06/2015
PolyLove PolyLove
My mother is very toxic and my husband tries to get me to realize this and disown her. While it would probably be the best for my mental health, I can't just disown my MOM.
05/30/2016
Sugarfina Sugarfina
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Originally posted by BlackOrchid
As a couple, what was the root of your biggest argument? This poll is anonymous so feel free to be honest.
I dont want to get too personal here, but I had to vote for several of these, because my current boyfriend (& the father of 2 of my 3 children) have had a slew of serious issues.... most of which we are still trying to compromise on.
09/17/2016
Sugarfina Sugarfina
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Originally posted by PolyLove
My mother is very toxic and my husband tries to get me to realize this and disown her. While it would probably be the best for my mental health, I can't just disown my MOM.
I have been in your shoes. <3
09/17/2016
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by PolyLove
My mother is very toxic and my husband tries to get me to realize this and disown her. While it would probably be the best for my mental health, I can't just disown my MOM.
That's a tough one. There was a point, a few years back, when my mother and I went through some very rough patches. We had some pretty nasty arguments, but at the end of the day, she's still my mom. We've since found common ground and things have been much better. Hopefully, things can turn around for the two of you as well
11/21/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Was who was going to be giver and receiver. And who was going to be on top.

No , just kidding. What in a joking mood.
11/27/2016
Total posts: 13
Unique posters: 8