Whats Most important in a Relationship?

Whats Most important in a Relationship?

IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
I believe all are important but whats most important to u?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Trust
Charlie Whiskey , SelectZen
2  (3%)
Communication
Adriana Ravenlust , CoffeeCup
2  (3%)
Loyalty
Sex
All of the above
Sunshineamine , Redboxbaby , padmeamidala , EvilHomer , ss143 , mcl272 , P'Gell , Hot'n'Bothered , Ms. Spice , Ansley , mandiegk , wetone123 , Rossie , PussyPurr , ParisLove , Gunsmoke , TitsMcScandal , darthkitt3n , ellejay , Illumin8 , sarki , stars , pinkcupcakes , PunkyB , Lucidity , Ghost , BabyL0ve , WierdAl , ily , sktb0007 , shySEXXaddict , slynch , EJ , married with children , DeliciousDrip , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , ToyBoy , caligaliber , AngelvMaynard , mizzmilla , jjdd , Sex'и'Violence , TameTemptress , Beck , Callisto , The Curious Couple , DeliciousSurprise , SexyTabby , indiglo , Katastophy , potstickers , Katzer , satinlady550 , leanright69 , novanilla , LaSchwartz , Kristopher Sean , llellsee , sexxxkitten , xMila , Bignuf , Aftertherain13 , BlooJay , AliMc , RedKyuubi , deltalima , SavingMyself , Deeder
68  (88%)
Other?
GravyCakes , El-Jaro , Peggi , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , jr2012
5  (6%)
Total votes: 77
Poll is closed
09/14/2011
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Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
All of the above, though I feel that the first three - trust,communication and loyalty are the most important. You have to be friends and be able to talk to each other and trust each other or it will NEVER work. Sex is important but if you have the first three listed sex will usually be a part of that too
09/14/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by IslandGoddess
I believe all are important but whats most important to u?
They are all important to me.
09/14/2011
mcl272 mcl272
all of the above! i think they are all the key to a healthy/good relationship!
09/14/2011
Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
Their all important.

MOST important, for me is communication..
09/14/2011
mandiegk mandiegk
Quote:
Originally posted by Sunshineamine
All of the above, though I feel that the first three - trust,communication and loyalty are the most important. You have to be friends and be able to talk to each other and trust each other or it will NEVER work. Sex is important but if you have the ...
Well said. I will say that right now trust is the most important for me because my relationship is long distance, but at other times they are all pretty equal.
09/14/2011
ParisLove ParisLove
All are important to us, but I would also add HAPPINESS
09/14/2011
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
Trust and communication I think go hand in hand. I trust that if something needs to be communicated it will, and it will truthfully. While I also believe sex is a hugely important part of *my* relationship, I don't expect it to be with others. However I do think any successful relationship should have trust and communication as the top priority.
09/14/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm with the others here - all are important.

I like your list - I'm going to use it! I'm telling my 19 & 20 years old. If you don't have; Trust, Communication, Loyalty and Sex - then you don't have the right partner! Thanks
09/14/2011
Illumin8 Illumin8
Quote:
Originally posted by Sunshineamine
All of the above, though I feel that the first three - trust,communication and loyalty are the most important. You have to be friends and be able to talk to each other and trust each other or it will NEVER work. Sex is important but if you have the ...
Agreed! I believe that the sex will be INCREDIBLE if those first three are in good shape.
09/14/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
i would say all of the above, but i don't honestly believe sex is super important. at least not nearly as much as the other 3.
09/14/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
They have to be able to put up with me...I'm kinda "different".
09/14/2011
PunkyB PunkyB
I think all are important. trust is a big thing for me though
09/14/2011
Peggi Peggi
All but sex are MUST-HAVE qualities. Sex is important but I never have based any relationship off of it, nor does it play a role in how I feel about my partner.
09/14/2011
WierdAl WierdAl
Quote:
Originally posted by IslandGoddess
I believe all are important but whats most important to u?
Communication, honesty and trust are the most important things in a relationship. If it's only sex it won't last.
09/15/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
all of the above && more !
09/17/2011
AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
I really do believe there is a unique balance in every relationship. Finding what that recipe is, is part of what keeps a relationship going and part of what makes each relationship challenging. What may work in my relationship will not work in another couples. Communication to open the pathway to those other elements mentioned above to me is the first ingredient. But I said all the above, because if the relationship is a long one, needs change at different phases over time for both partners.
09/17/2011
mizzmilla mizzmilla
All are really important, but communication is extremely important.
09/17/2011
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I think trust and communication are really important - but a couple of others are respect - and especially "friendship".

I've been married 32 years now and my husband is my best friend. Of course our friendship is different than my friendship with my gal friends...but still yet - we have a friendship that keeps us together when the feelings of love just aren't there.
09/29/2011
CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
good communication leads to all the rest if things are right
10/02/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
It's all pretty important. I'm going to go with trust, communication and sex as the big three though.
10/02/2011
Beck Beck
All of the above, and I have to say that loyalty and sex are my top! I have to have a sexual partner that is just as sexual as I am.
10/02/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
It really is everything on the list!
10/02/2011
indiglo indiglo
All of the above, and I would also add honesty to the list. You gotta be honest, even about the things that don't paint you in a positive life. Like I tell my sweetie - I can deal with anything as long as I know what I'm dealing with.
10/02/2011
Charlie Whiskey Charlie Whiskey
While all are important, I selected trust. Feel free to read on if you want to know why I selected it.

Communication
Without trust, can you fully communicate with each other? Can you share your inner most thoughts, dreams, and desires if you don't trust that person to listen and keep your secrets?

Loyalty
If you don't trust the person, will they be loyal when it really counts? You must trust them to "have your back" at all times. We need to trust our spouses to side with us if someone or something tries to come between our relationship.

Sex
Can you give all of yourself to someone you don't trust? Having sex is one thing, but turning that sexual act into something more...is it possible without trusting the person? In a one nighter, do you leave your valuables out and wonder what if I fall asleep first?

IMO. Trust is key.
$.02

Cheers,
10/06/2011
Katastophy Katastophy
I think that trust and communication are the most important. Love is based on trust (at least for me), and if I cannot trust someone, I will fall out of love. Trust doesn't specifically involve loyalty, but rather that you trust that the person treat you right, be honest, etc. Communication is also extremely important because it's important for both people to know how the other feels about the relationship and what their expectations are. A lot of drama can be avoided if you're open with your partner.
10/06/2011
Katzer Katzer
All of the above, any one left and the relationship will fall apart.
10/22/2012
novanilla novanilla
I think trust, communication, and a positive and healthy sex life are more important than loyalty when we consider that not all relationships are monogamous, and those can be just as healthy, but in monogamy, loyalty stays up there.
10/22/2012
LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
You need them all.
10/22/2012
Kristopher Sean Kristopher Sean
all of them
10/22/2012
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