I believe all are important but whats most important to u?
Whats Most important in a Relationship?
09/14/2011
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All of the above, though I feel that the first three - trust,communication and loyalty are the most important. You have to be friends and be able to talk to each other and trust each other or it will NEVER work. Sex is important but if you have the first three listed sex will usually be a part of that too
09/14/2011
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They are all important to me.
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IslandGoddess
I believe all are important but whats most important to u?
09/14/2011
all of the above! i think they are all the key to a healthy/good relationship!
09/14/2011
Their all important.
MOST important, for me is communication..
MOST important, for me is communication..
09/14/2011
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Well said. I will say that right now trust is the most important for me because my relationship is long distance, but at other times they are all pretty equal.
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Sunshineamine
All of the above, though I feel that the first three - trust,communication and loyalty are the most important. You have to be friends and be able to talk to each other and trust each other or it will NEVER work. Sex is important but if you have the
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All of the above, though I feel that the first three - trust,communication and loyalty are the most important. You have to be friends and be able to talk to each other and trust each other or it will NEVER work. Sex is important but if you have the first three listed sex will usually be a part of that too
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09/14/2011
All are important to us, but I would also add HAPPINESS
09/14/2011
Trust and communication I think go hand in hand. I trust that if something needs to be communicated it will, and it will truthfully. While I also believe sex is a hugely important part of *my* relationship, I don't expect it to be with others. However I do think any successful relationship should have trust and communication as the top priority.
09/14/2011
I'm with the others here - all are important.
I like your list - I'm going to use it! I'm telling my 19 & 20 years old. If you don't have; Trust, Communication, Loyalty and Sex - then you don't have the right partner! Thanks
I like your list - I'm going to use it! I'm telling my 19 & 20 years old. If you don't have; Trust, Communication, Loyalty and Sex - then you don't have the right partner! Thanks
09/14/2011
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Agreed! I believe that the sex will be INCREDIBLE if those first three are in good shape.
Originally posted by
Sunshineamine
All of the above, though I feel that the first three - trust,communication and loyalty are the most important. You have to be friends and be able to talk to each other and trust each other or it will NEVER work. Sex is important but if you have the
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All of the above, though I feel that the first three - trust,communication and loyalty are the most important. You have to be friends and be able to talk to each other and trust each other or it will NEVER work. Sex is important but if you have the first three listed sex will usually be a part of that too
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09/14/2011
i would say all of the above, but i don't honestly believe sex is super important. at least not nearly as much as the other 3.
09/14/2011
They have to be able to put up with me...I'm kinda "different".
09/14/2011
I think all are important. trust is a big thing for me though
09/14/2011
All but sex are MUST-HAVE qualities. Sex is important but I never have based any relationship off of it, nor does it play a role in how I feel about my partner.
09/14/2011
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Communication, honesty and trust are the most important things in a relationship. If it's only sex it won't last.
Originally posted by
IslandGoddess
I believe all are important but whats most important to u?
09/15/2011
all of the above && more !
09/17/2011
I really do believe there is a unique balance in every relationship. Finding what that recipe is, is part of what keeps a relationship going and part of what makes each relationship challenging. What may work in my relationship will not work in another couples. Communication to open the pathway to those other elements mentioned above to me is the first ingredient. But I said all the above, because if the relationship is a long one, needs change at different phases over time for both partners.
09/17/2011
All are really important, but communication is extremely important.
09/17/2011
I think trust and communication are really important - but a couple of others are respect - and especially "friendship".
I've been married 32 years now and my husband is my best friend. Of course our friendship is different than my friendship with my gal friends...but still yet - we have a friendship that keeps us together when the feelings of love just aren't there.
I've been married 32 years now and my husband is my best friend. Of course our friendship is different than my friendship with my gal friends...but still yet - we have a friendship that keeps us together when the feelings of love just aren't there.
09/29/2011
good communication leads to all the rest if things are right
10/02/2011
It's all pretty important. I'm going to go with trust, communication and sex as the big three though.
10/02/2011
All of the above, and I have to say that loyalty and sex are my top! I have to have a sexual partner that is just as sexual as I am.
10/02/2011
It really is everything on the list!
10/02/2011
All of the above, and I would also add honesty to the list. You gotta be honest, even about the things that don't paint you in a positive life. Like I tell my sweetie - I can deal with anything as long as I know what I'm dealing with.
10/02/2011
While all are important, I selected trust. Feel free to read on if you want to know why I selected it.
Communication
Without trust, can you fully communicate with each other? Can you share your inner most thoughts, dreams, and desires if you don't trust that person to listen and keep your secrets?
Loyalty
If you don't trust the person, will they be loyal when it really counts? You must trust them to "have your back" at all times. We need to trust our spouses to side with us if someone or something tries to come between our relationship.
Sex
Can you give all of yourself to someone you don't trust? Having sex is one thing, but turning that sexual act into something more...is it possible without trusting the person? In a one nighter, do you leave your valuables out and wonder what if I fall asleep first?
IMO. Trust is key.
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Cheers,
Communication
Without trust, can you fully communicate with each other? Can you share your inner most thoughts, dreams, and desires if you don't trust that person to listen and keep your secrets?
Loyalty
If you don't trust the person, will they be loyal when it really counts? You must trust them to "have your back" at all times. We need to trust our spouses to side with us if someone or something tries to come between our relationship.
Sex
Can you give all of yourself to someone you don't trust? Having sex is one thing, but turning that sexual act into something more...is it possible without trusting the person? In a one nighter, do you leave your valuables out and wonder what if I fall asleep first?
IMO. Trust is key.
$.02
Cheers,
10/06/2011
I think that trust and communication are the most important. Love is based on trust (at least for me), and if I cannot trust someone, I will fall out of love. Trust doesn't specifically involve loyalty, but rather that you trust that the person treat you right, be honest, etc. Communication is also extremely important because it's important for both people to know how the other feels about the relationship and what their expectations are. A lot of drama can be avoided if you're open with your partner.
10/06/2011
All of the above, any one left and the relationship will fall apart.
10/22/2012
I think trust, communication, and a positive and healthy sex life are more important than loyalty when we consider that not all relationships are monogamous, and those can be just as healthy, but in monogamy, loyalty stays up there.
10/22/2012
You need them all.
10/22/2012
all of them
10/22/2012
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