LOL I was wondering what was wrong with your browser! Most of us more vocal poly folk have answered those questions numerous times on this forum alone. I won't go into lengthy detail but I have two partners, both male, and we are working on moving our family into one Country and then, hopefully, into one house. My life partner is monogamous at the present time but reserves the right to choose to change that and my husband is more of a swinger prefering to reserve his heart for me....but reserves the right to change that if the right lady should come along.