I am quite curious about this whole concept. Here is just a few questions I would like to ask, and I would really appreciate the feedback.
Polyamourus
Discussion Topics
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Trying it out
(15 posts)
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Still Into it?
(2 posts)
3.
Once you start you can't go back?
(5 posts)
4.
Love
(16 posts)
How did it come to pass that you were in a poly relationship?
01/23/2012
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It's just what felt right for everyone.
01/28/2012
I fell in love with a married woman... to be with her I had to be willing to have something more open with her. I happily agreed and it has been the best thing for everyone involved.
01/28/2012
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Sounds remarkably like what happened with my partner Arch. He fell in love with me but admired my lo0ve for and committment to Sigel.
Originally posted by
zecookiepuss
I fell in love with a married woman... to be with her I had to be willing to have something more open with her. I happily agreed and it has been the best thing for everyone involved.
01/31/2012
Its seems weird but I cant think of a reason besides pride and jealousy to not do it.
02/01/2012
I was in what I would call a "monogamish" relationship with my partner L - we were committed to each other, but allowed to flirt, cuddle with, kiss, and dance with whoever we wanted, and were very open in talking to each other about other people we had crushes on. We met K, who is now our third, at a weekend retreat for queer students from our college campus and the other local colleges, and hung out with her a bit. She and my partner started to talk on Facebook a lot - they have similar "night owl" sleep habits - and it developed into a mutual crush, which L admitted to me. I was delighted by this, and somewhat surprised by my own delight, since a crush with potential to go somewhere was not something we'd experienced as a couple before. I started talking to K more as well, and it was easy to understand why L liked her so much - I started to get a bit of a crush myself, which she reciprocated. After a few three-person dates and cuddle sessions, we invited her to go to a dance with us, then brought her home and had a threesome. We all realized our feelings went beyond purely sexual and worked on establishing a triad relationship. It's new, but so far we are all very happy with how things have turned out.
05/15/2012
Fascinating topic: question? Is there a difference between a 3-some and a poly relationship? I always thought that in a poly relationship there were 2 or 3 individual relationships among the (assuming there are 3 people). Isn't a 3-some more a sexual encounter than a relationship? I am kind of thinking of the show, "Sister Wives". That's all I know, but we are fascinated.
06/10/2012
i have a bf and im seeing a wonderful married woman
06/10/2012
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A 3-some is, generally, a sexual encounter that may or may not have any lasting feelings between the participants. In a poly relationship there may be as few as three participants or many, many more. The thing that binds them is the emotional connection the participants feel for each other. So, a poly triad might have many 3-somes but a couple that has many 3-somes may never be poly!
Originally posted by
oldman
Fascinating topic: question? Is there a difference between a 3-some and a poly relationship? I always thought that in a poly relationship there were 2 or 3 individual relationships among the (assuming there are 3 people). Isn't a 3-some more
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Fascinating topic: question? Is there a difference between a 3-some and a poly relationship? I always thought that in a poly relationship there were 2 or 3 individual relationships among the (assuming there are 3 people). Isn't a 3-some more a sexual encounter than a relationship? I am kind of thinking of the show, "Sister Wives". That's all I know, but we are fascinated.
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Lots of poly folk never actually have sex with their partners with other partners present, not unlike Sister Wives. Their relationships are full and satisfying but the sex is between each individual couple. Others, like ours, includes 3-somes and individual nights. What defines the poly relationship is the desire to actually integrate another person into the day to day living.
06/11/2012
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Your triad is very much something I am enjoying getting to know. Your team work with your day to day living with each is very different but so very natural looking in from my side of the world.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
A 3-some is, generally, a sexual encounter that may or may not have any lasting feelings between the participants. In a poly relationship there may be as few as three participants or many, many more. The thing that binds them is the emotional
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more
A 3-some is, generally, a sexual encounter that may or may not have any lasting feelings between the participants. In a poly relationship there may be as few as three participants or many, many more. The thing that binds them is the emotional connection the participants feel for each other. So, a poly triad might have many 3-somes but a couple that has many 3-somes may never be poly!
Lots of poly folk never actually have sex with their partners with other partners present, not unlike Sister Wives. Their relationships are full and satisfying but the sex is between each individual couple. Others, like ours, includes 3-somes and individual nights. What defines the poly relationship is the desire to actually integrate another person into the day to day living. less
Lots of poly folk never actually have sex with their partners with other partners present, not unlike Sister Wives. Their relationships are full and satisfying but the sex is between each individual couple. Others, like ours, includes 3-somes and individual nights. What defines the poly relationship is the desire to actually integrate another person into the day to day living. less
As we have talked about before there is couples who have 3-somes and that is just it sex, then there are couples who have 3-somes and there have to be feelings to make it work. I am one that has feelings but never have let them go to the "I love you" feelings. I have made some very special friends and love the life my husband and I have with our special friends.
Who knows maybe someday we will become poly LOL.
06/25/2012
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Meh, you have all the benefits of poly anyhow...plus you have too full a house! ROFL
Originally posted by
Mistress Dragon
Your triad is very much something I am enjoying getting to know. Your team work with your day to day living with each is very different but so very natural looking in from my side of the world.
As we have talked about before there is couples who ... more
As we have talked about before there is couples who ... more
Your triad is very much something I am enjoying getting to know. Your team work with your day to day living with each is very different but so very natural looking in from my side of the world.
As we have talked about before there is couples who have 3-somes and that is just it sex, then there are couples who have 3-somes and there have to be feelings to make it work. I am one that has feelings but never have let them go to the "I love you" feelings. I have made some very special friends and love the life my husband and I have with our special friends.
Who knows maybe someday we will become poly LOL. less
As we have talked about before there is couples who have 3-somes and that is just it sex, then there are couples who have 3-somes and there have to be feelings to make it work. I am one that has feelings but never have let them go to the "I love you" feelings. I have made some very special friends and love the life my husband and I have with our special friends.
Who knows maybe someday we will become poly LOL. less
06/25/2012
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Very full but still room for love hehehehehehehe.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
Meh, you have all the benefits of poly anyhow...plus you have too full a house! ROFL
06/25/2012
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The more Love he better it get all though the good and bad times.
Originally posted by
Mistress Dragon
Very full but still room for love hehehehehehehe.
07/15/2012
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...and this year has proven that to all of us, no? DAMN! 2012 will go down as the year of the "What the hell could go wrong with our health NOW?"
Originally posted by
Izzaba
The more Love he better it get all though the good and bad times.
11/07/2012
It's just what felt right for everyone
11/07/2012
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