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Contributor: sugarOne sugarOne
Which one do you prefer?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Having sex with two people
KinkyShay , Airen Wolf , Tart , Lady Neshamah , MastersXKittenXSlave , Bobbear41 , CutiePatootie , M121212 , callsignhusker , Lady Marmelade , G.L. Morrison , cburger , Kdlips , Perplexi Lexi , CoffeeCup , Lolitalia , thisisadeletedaccount , thekindthorn , Tangles , Rainbow Brite , rmiles124 , Strider , SmutGeek , CaseyDeuce , Ice1 , Trixxxy
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Having sex with a group of people
SeXXXcapades , pinkzombie , Lady Neshamah , Bobbear41 , Mistress M. , M121212 , G.L. Morrison , teeny <3 , Perplexi Lexi , Liz x420x , jdFtM , Lolitalia , thekindthorn , eroticmutt , Trixxxy
15
Having sex with just one person
Persephone Nightmare , ZenaidaMacroura , Throwingawaysoon , RadRach , Unconventional , SexyTabby , null , LikeSunshineDust , leatherlover , UnknownGirl , potstickers , Lady Neshamah , Harlequin , darthkitt3n , TiffyPixie , MastersXKittenXSlave , Shellz31 , C4ss , mm4sa , *HisMrs* , Redboxbaby , Lummox , CanMan , Bobbear41 , A Good Girl , indiglo , Modern^Spank^Anthem , DexterStratton , markeagleone , liilii080 , Gunsmoke , married with children , VenusianThunder , swf , Dlynn , zracer , vegan.guy , Joie de Cherresse , Miss Jenn , M121212 , kinky dude , MrRainybowbow , ac0313 , toxie m , sparkleblsm , Airekah , Eden C. , SexyStuff , Lady Marmelade , Curves , neon , np702 , tickle me pink , Lithaewyn , sassyNsensual , MaryExy , horngry , Sexybabee , JE011 , socceras , Bignuf , padmeamidala , deletedacct , Howells , Yessi , Maeby , CSEA , ToyingCouple , dezzydezire , Steve of Eden , big b , Sinfully , jay28 , angel142stx , emiliaa , angelkisses , Ava5 , Illumin8 , DeliciousSurprise , LilLostLenore , MissCandyland , K101 , BlooJay , Cherry21 , BuckeyeGal04 , mastersonv , chibi1091 , Stinkytofu10 , hall5885 , ejrbrndps , tom fay , thisisadeletedaccount , thekindthorn , Tangles , booboo111926 , Peggi , xMila , Jake'n'bake , elli , RosesThorns , lacybutton , Ms. N , Talena , SecretKinksters , rmiles124 , Meltingfish , Strider , Breas , xocoraxo , evie.amor , Llahsram , ginnyluvspotter , CaseyDeuce , atryonix , amazon , Ice1 , travelnurse , Trixxxy , xxSuzakuxx , doowop
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Total votes: 161 (140 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: sugarOne sugarOne
I am unsure about sharing right now. Down the road I know my master will want it. I see myself with other girls and have been with other girls. But wanting to share my Master is like a totally different thing.
08/30/2010
Contributor: SeXXXcapades SeXXXcapades
The more the better but the most, including myself has been 4 for me!
09/08/2010
Contributor: Throwingawaysoon Throwingawaysoon
Might try adding another person into the mix eventually, but yeah I agree with you sugar, still unsure about the whole sharing thing...
09/10/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
My boys and I have the occasional threesome together, but I think we all much prefer one-on-one intimacy. They're both straight, but the threesomes usually happen when we need to get going somewhere and there is a time constraint, haha.
10/15/2010
Contributor: null null
I chose 'with one person' but that's only because I haven't tried anything else yet, I would love to try a threesome at some point, but SO is not up for FMM
10/22/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Which one do you prefer?
Sex is fun one on one, but groups are soo much fun to throw in there every once in a while.
11/13/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
for me, it really depends on what my mood is.
12/08/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Majority of the time I'd prefer one on one but do like to spice things up so would go for group every now and then!
12/15/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
While I enjoy having sex with just my hubby, I'm very excited to try threesome soon.
12/23/2010
Contributor: A Good Girl A Good Girl
I usually just have sex with one person at a time.
01/23/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I prefer one on one, would NOT want to share my man with anyone. Maybe I'm a little possessive.
01/23/2011
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
just the bf
01/23/2011
Contributor: DexterStratton DexterStratton
The one time I was with more than one partner was not very satisfying. I think I'll just stick with the one.
01/26/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I tend to like to focus on one project at a time. It's the same for partners.
01/27/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Which one do you prefer?
Having sex is like having a good cup of coffee. Making love is the top of the world, and I believe that is only for couples as you can't give your heart to more than one!
01/27/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Having sex is like having a good cup of coffee. Making love is the top of the world, and I believe that is only for couples as you can't give your heart to more than one!
I respectfully disagree. Love isn't a sum total loss commodity, time is. While it is true that you cannot give equal time or energy to a whole bunch of people to say that the heart cannot love them is foolish. This implies that you cannot love your second, third and possibly your 20th child as much as you loved your first.

I love both of my guys with a fierce and total intensity that sometimes shocks them both. I have loved often and fully in my life and never experienced a drop in the amount of deep abiding love I feel for my first love, Sigel. Furthermore I still love each and every person I ever gave my heart too. Again it doesn't take away from my relationships with Sigel and Arch.

Oh and I make love to them both and it is MUCH better than a good cup of coffee. The most amazing experience I have ever had was being in a threesome with two men who adore me and that I adore...so totally mind bending. The heart is capable of amazing things if you just let it be free.
02/03/2011
Contributor: VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
I have never been with more than one person at a time, but I would not be against a threesome or more. I would not want to make it a regular thing, though, as I tend to be really, really focused on pleasing who I am intimate with and would find it difficult to focus on more than one person. I like a possessive partner and most of them I have been with were not one to want to share my attention, be it with another female or another male.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Mistress M. Mistress M.
The largest group I've had sex with was five people. It was a crazy time. We had three women, and two men. All three of us women were bisexual, which lead to a ton of fun. Not to mention, the guys were really satisfied by the end of it too!
02/06/2011
Contributor: The Giveaway Diva The Giveaway Diva
I've only been with one! I like the more personal and intimate connection
02/11/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
I've only been with my girlfriend, and she's the only one I plan on ever being with.
02/11/2011
Contributor: Miss Jenn Miss Jenn
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Which one do you prefer?
So far I have only had 1 at a time... IN the future (hopefully near) i see myself with at least one other.
02/12/2011
Contributor: callsignhusker callsignhusker
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
I am unsure about sharing right now. Down the road I know my master will want it. I see myself with other girls and have been with other girls. But wanting to share my Master is like a totally different thing.
Wow, lol, possessiveness and insecurity all in one post! No offense but I think you would need to really talk alot more and get less insecure and less possessive before trying anything like groupsex etc..
03/21/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
I prefer one at a time, but also enjoy an ocassional threesome. I'm in a poly relationship so we both have multiple partners, but have also had FMF and are hoping to experience MFM soon!
03/22/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Just the one for now. We might try some threesomes in the future, but that future is distant and we are quite content to be monogamous for the moment
03/22/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Which one do you prefer?
It is just much more intimate to have just one partner, but for some dirty play or extra attention. I would love multiples.
03/22/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Definitely just one!
03/23/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Just me and my hubby.
04/06/2011
Contributor: sassyNsensual sassyNsensual
I've only ever had the opportunity to have sex with just one at a time--I feel like I need to try threesome in the future (and want to) just haven't had the chance
04/07/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I would be willing to try a FFM threesome for my guy, but I'm a little possessive of him.

Undecided on the whole MMF threesome or group thing...
04/07/2011