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What do you prefer Swingers groups,BDSM gatherings, or just the hook up

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Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
I'm just wondering how most people feel about sex groups.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
swingers groups
BelleIsabelle15 , minifreak , rmiles124
3
BDSM gatherings
BelleIsabelle15 , Lady Marmelade , Dusk , Sir , swf , thekindthorn , Modern^Spank^Anthem , KrissyNovacaine , potstickers , rmiles124 , Strider , SmutGeek , bog
13
or the swingers directory or other hook up site
RibenaPenguin , Karen Affeldt , CutiePatootie
3
Total votes: 19 (17 voters)
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Contributor: BelleIsabelle15 BelleIsabelle15
I am to swinging and BDSM groups.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I really enjoy going to BDSM gatherings, classes, play parties, etc. I consider that very different from swingers clubs and hook ups though, because I attend with my partner and I play only with him.
03/16/2011
Contributor: minifreak minifreak
interested...
03/17/2011
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
Quote:
Originally posted by minifreak
interested...
What is interesting?
03/17/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
I'm just wondering how most people feel about sex groups.
Generally polyamorous people prefer committed relationships where more than a bed is shared. Groups sex is a sideline but I won't blow smoke up your ass and say it isn't an attraction. Thing is with poly folk we don't want the participants to go home after...
03/19/2011
Contributor: callsignhusker callsignhusker
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Generally polyamorous people prefer committed relationships where more than a bed is shared. Groups sex is a sideline but I won't blow smoke up your ass and say it isn't an attraction. Thing is with poly folk we don't want the ... more
Yeah I agree with this, these types of groups are more suited towards open relationships and/or swinging. People often mistake open relationships for polyamory...
03/21/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
None of these are for me... but hell, a lot of people dont approve of my "lifestle" so I say do what ever you want...
06/28/2011
Contributor: Izzaba Izzaba
I have been in the swinger life for about 6 months now and enjoy the friends I have made and am glad I took the chance with the partner I did he ans his wife have taken me in and made me feel like family he is also my Dom and would not have it any other way. They have slowly brought me in to the swinger life knowing my past and that I am a little shy we have a small group of friends we go out as friends to movies,dinner or just a day on the lake. Not just a sex free for all, even thought those can be fun. I like the thought of keeping a few of them around for some one to talk to from time to time.
06/27/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
never done any of them
07/05/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Swinging doesn't appeal to me, even though I am poly. I prefer the emotional connections than the casual ones.

Now for BDSM... purrrrr. Although I only play with partners or really, really close friends.
07/05/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
Never did swinging

I've met all my partners since age 18 in BDSM groups.
12/29/2012
Contributor: smlove smlove
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
I'm just wondering how most people feel about sex groups.
BDSM gatherings are our flavor.
03/06/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
there are fetish events near me but never been to one. The rave kids are really into them but i've always been curious.
03/06/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
I'm just wondering how most people feel about sex groups.
I like non-play-oriented bdsm meetup munches where people chat and get to know each other. I prefer my play a bit more intimate, and after getting to know one another.

Don't think I've ever been exposed to anything that could be defined as a "sex group," but I am poly and love meeting new people!
04/16/2013