In my first threesome, we weren't at all sure if our date was going to feel interested in/ready to have sex with us, but we took a chance and invited her back home with us. She took most of her clothes off almost immediately, announcing that she didn't really like wearing clothes when she didn't have to, and things pretty much progressed from there. We didn't leave the room until 4 pm the next day, except for a couple bathroom breaks and one occasion when my primary partner got up and made us mac n' cheese. It was fantastic.

My partner at the time had a friends-since-childhoo d that he'd been playing with on and off for years. He'd told me she was perpetually horny and bi. We'd talked about threesomes somewhat abstractly.

Then I met her,she was super cute and horny, and it all seemed pretty obvious.

It was fun, but not nearly as much fun as three/four/fivesomes I've had since then!

First time was awkward, scary, uncomfortable and the relationship with the girl ended very badly.

Since then we've learned more about multiple relationships and threesomes are now a lot more fun.

My gf at the time had told me she was poly, and I was interested in trying it out. I'd read about it and dreamed about it, but never thought it was possible or workable in the real world. But then we got together with a friend, and it was magical and amazing and fantastic. And ever since, as long as it's with people we know and care about, not just random strangers, then we always have an amazing lovely time.
The most we've had is 5 total in our bed, including us.
We had a group of 9 where most people were interacting with each other in some way, but that wasn't entirely what I'd call group sex. It was group love, though. The room was soooooo full of love I love sharing the love!

I've had several, and they honestly get pretty boring for me pretty quick. MMF, MFF, and whatever else MMM and so on I get bored quick, and often times just want to have sex with the person I always have sex with.

My first threesome went down in flames, I was just so uncomfortable with the situation. The second time wasn't so bad though we didn't go all the way. The third time was a lot better but again we didn't go all the way. So I guess I haven't been in an official threesome.

My first threeway was really awkward, it was mostly us just getting naked and staring at each other in a "Now what?" way.

My first threesome story says a lot about me as a geek... I brought home my hook up from the night before so that he could meet my roommate and possibly have sex with zir because they seemed like they'd get along. Ten minutes after the introduction, they're making out on the kitchen floor and for some reason end up retreating to MY bedroom (probably 'cause my roommate's bed was too messy!). I followed, both because I'm a perv and because they invited me. I got pulled into the middle of their fooling around, but I left them to get better acquainted and... wait for it... went to finish the volume of Sandman I'd been reading before everything started. They had to literally pull me back into the threesome; I got so distracted!

My first threesome was a little awkward, but my boyfriend (now husband), was very good at directing and getting us all comfortable. We hooked up a few more times and we have had numerous threesomes and 1 foursome since.

I think a threesome is really exciting when it’s in the context of a new person coming into an existing long-term relationship that may have grown a bit stagnant. When you are having pretty routine sex with the same person for several years, an injection of someone new is really, really hot. My first threesome was with my ex-husband, who I’d been with for quite awhile, and his girlfriend, who became my girlfriend. It was really fun, not awkward. My girlfriend was really experienced in both poly and in threesomes so I’m sure that helped.

Being the third person coming into an existing relationship doesn’t have the same *kapow* of excitement. It’s still awesome – sex with two people who you really want to sleep with, yay! And it does still have the element of exhibitionism/voyeuris m that can be a big turn-on, if that’s your thing.

I’m in an MFF triad now, and have been for over a year, although it’s long distance. At this point threesomes are a regular part of our sex life. When I’m visiting them, we have threesomes roughly as often as we have partnered sex. So it’s become a lot more ordinary.

Awkward. Uncomfortable. We were drunk. The next morning I was really upset and uncomfortable. I think for me it needs to be discussed and planned out ahead of time instead of a spontaneous drunken hook up. I just don't think spontaneous threesomes work for me.

My first threesome was a little awkward, but turned out to be fun and it was something we did a few times with that friend of mine. Since then we've had some more interesting/fun situations.

I have had one. It was boring, and I would rather have just had sex with my partner. I think it was the person we brought in, not threesomes in general. We'd only gone out on a few dates with her, and we hadn't established good chemistry.