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Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I have been doing a lot of soul searching lately (AKA Drugs) and I realized I have A TON OF SEX.

I am not really dating anyone but the three people I had most recently texted were all making plans to come over and cum on my bed (and my rabbit).

I decided that instead of wasting my time with all this meaningless sex I will quit girls for a month and glorify in self improvement activity's.


I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW: What ya'll do when you are in a dry spell or are being abstinent
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Knit ridiculous things (gotta keep those fingers busy)
6
Masturbate ferociously (still keeping those fingers busy)
23
Eating everything in the house (What can I say? I am orally fixated lol)
14
Do homework/work (Being productive!)
11
Get on Eden and vote on this pole
18
Do actual things that improve myself. Examples: exercise, diet, counseling
13
What are you talking about? Abstinence? I have never heard the word!!
3
Other! Leave your sage advice below ye young knight!
Total votes: 88 (35 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: underHim underHim
Keep busy, but I find the more I tell myself I cannot have something the more I want it so it is not easy.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
You should use this time to do something for YOU. Read an intense book, start writing, whatever you are into, improve it in yourself!
04/08/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
Once you have been with the love of your life and they are not around for a time, for whatever reason; you find that your toys and your memories are a much better time, than having sex with somebody you don't really connect with.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
Quote:
Originally posted by curious kitten
Once you have been with the love of your life and they are not around for a time, for whatever reason; you find that your toys and your memories are a much better time, than having sex with somebody you don't really connect with.
So true! I am tired of having sex with people I don't really care about. I find the sex to be alright but then afterward I don't want to cuddle or hangout with someone I don't like/love.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Jordan B Jordan B
I go for a run!
04/10/2012
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
As I am 5 hrs away from my lover for 3 months a year, I craft and masturbate; a lot
04/14/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Um, this is every day normal for me. Last tryst was May of last year (2011). Master is 4,000 miles away, and I tend to be rather monogamous.

Good luck with your down time, have some fun no matter what.
04/15/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Get buff
04/16/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Except for a little phase in my early teens, I've never been abstinent by choice. My so-called "dry spells" come simply from being in a long-term, long distance relationship. I tend to go with the "masturbate ferociously" option. I also write a lot and invest a lot of time in my studies. Oh, and eat way too much. Oral fixations for the win.
06/25/2012