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If you had a wet dream about a hot ex girlfriend, do you tell your current partner.

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Contributor: extrafun extrafun
Ok, I had a hot dream about and ex girlfriend and my wife was also involved. Lets just put it this way everyone was naked and haveing fun. Should I tell her about it.
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Yes tell her with details
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3  (4%)
No dont tell her
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68  (87%)
Yes tell her you just had a dream about an ex.
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7  (9%)
Total votes: 78
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Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
What you don't tell her can't hurt her. But if you feel like you should tell her, I'd say tell her you had a dream about an ex, and if she asks for details or anything then tell her
05/05/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
If my bf had a wet dream about an ex I'd rather not hear about it.
05/05/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I wouldn't want to know if it was my boyfriend.
05/05/2011
Contributor: Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
Ok, I had a hot dream about and ex girlfriend and my wife was also involved. Lets just put it this way everyone was naked and haveing fun. Should I tell her about it.
don't say a thing, never ever speak of it...
05/05/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I wouldn't want to know. Personal preference. Just take a loose interpretation of it; the dream doesn't literally mean you want to sleep with your ex and wife together. So just try to forget it, and let it become just a frivolous, meaningless dream...

But seriously, I would get jealous if my guy told me he has a dream about his ex doing anything sexual with him, even if I was there, too. Some things are better left unsaid.
05/05/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Some things should not be said and that is one of them. It happens, it might not mean anything but it might hurt your partners feelings to know about it. Just keep your dream to yourself I would say.
05/05/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
I wouldn't want to know
05/06/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
Ok, I had a hot dream about and ex girlfriend and my wife was also involved. Lets just put it this way everyone was naked and haveing fun. Should I tell her about it.
It depends on how your wife handles things like this. My Man can tell me when he has a sex dream and I'm comfortable telling him when I have one (but if it's an old BF, I usually leave out the name and just say "Some guy.") and we laugh about it.

I once had a sex dream about a character on a classic 50s TV show and he has never let me forget it! We can't watch the show without him asking me personal questions. "______ looks good today doesn't he?" Things like that. *sigh*

If you wife thinks your sex dreams are funny or entertaining or arousing, then go ahead and tell her. There's no reason to tell her the ex GF's name though. I think that might be hurtful.

If My Man has a sex dream, he's certainly welcome to tell me. I don't want to know if it's an old GF, though. He can just say "Some woman." That's all I want to know.
05/06/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
If my b/f told me about a hot dream about an ex, I would probably tell him to go to her....for good! Why would a guy tell his g/f this? Is there a message here from him? Is he unhappy?
There are some things I just don't need to know.
05/06/2011
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I'm thinking that telling your current partner about any dream, wet OR dry, is just not a good thing in many ways. Nope. Keep this to yourself.
05/06/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
Ok, I had a hot dream about and ex girlfriend and my wife was also involved. Lets just put it this way everyone was naked and haveing fun. Should I tell her about it.
Nope, it may make her feel intimidated that you are fantasizing about your ex.
05/06/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
Ok, I had a hot dream about and ex girlfriend and my wife was also involved. Lets just put it this way everyone was naked and haveing fun. Should I tell her about it.
I wouldn't tell her
05/06/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
You have to weigh out the release of telling your partner vs. how uncomfortable that will make them feel.
05/06/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I have sexual dreams about other people and I know it's probably no big deal, but I'd rather my partner not tell me about it - there are some private things I don't want to know.
05/07/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
he bet not tell me lol
05/07/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
i wouldnt
05/07/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I wouldn't want to know at all! I know if he did tell me (even though ya can't really help what happens in ya sleep), it would make me feel somewhat insecure. I hate feeling that way, so I'd rather he keep it to himself.
What I don't know, won't hurt me!
05/07/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
wouldnt
05/07/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Yes, I would tell her and she would ask me for the details!
05/08/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I wouldn't because I wouldn't want to know if he just did the same. Fuck that! LOL!
05/08/2011
Contributor: charcat charcat
Why would you? Sounds like asking for trouble to me.
05/08/2011
Contributor: Dyma Dyma
Don't!
05/08/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I wouldn't tell her. Nothing good can come of it.
05/08/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Lets not talk about that. Ive had sex dreams but NEVER bring them up. Im sure he does too, but he doesnt say anything and its best that way.
05/08/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Not a chance. Some things just aren't worth it.
05/09/2011
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
That saying "What she doesn't know can't hurt her" is very wrong.

I wouldn't be okay with this personally, I don't know her... but I wouldn't stay with a man that would keep something like that from me.

Jus because you think she won't find out, doesn't mean she won't
02/12/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Your dreams belong to you. Only share them with your girlfriend if she's in it.
02/14/2012
Contributor: guard083 guard083
I wouldn't tell her.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
Ok, I had a hot dream about and ex girlfriend and my wife was also involved. Lets just put it this way everyone was naked and haveing fun. Should I tell her about it.
Well I tell him with details...both of my guys like that sort of thing it doesn't make them feel insecure because it's just a dream. They have relayed dreams of this nature to me as well. I kinda like it.
I don't like being the dream, I'm a real woman and it creates friction when I don't act like I do in their dreams or when I say no to something I said yes to in a dream. This has happened to me in the past and it's not fun.
I say let some other woman parade around town in the nude doing everyone she meets and following "orders" to the letter, I'll just continue to be me.
02/15/2012