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Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
(Review Program Mentor)
Is your current partner the best sexual partner you have ever had?

In the comments section write what made this person the best. Was it technique, adventurous nature, love for you, looks, they have the same kink/fetish, etc.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am female and my current partner is the best
28
I am female and my current partner is not the best
7
I am male and my current partner is the best
16
I am male and my current partner is not the best
4
If not your current partner -
The best was my ex-spouse or someone I was in a committed relationship with.
2
The best was a "friend with benefits"
1
The best was a short-term hook-up
2
Other
4
I am not in a relationship right now.
4
Total votes: 68 (59 voters)
Poll is closed
05/17/2013
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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I've been with two men and my husband is for sure the best I've been with.
05/17/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I'm currently not in a relationship, but my ex was my best so far.
05/17/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Is your current partner the best sexual partner you have ever had?

In the comments section write what made this person the best. Was it technique, adventurous nature, love for you, looks, they have the same kink/fetish, etc.
absolutely
just an amazing person, inside and out
05/17/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I think how you feel about someone heavily impacts how much you enjoy sex with them
05/17/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Is your current partner the best sexual partner you have ever had?

In the comments section write what made this person the best. Was it technique, adventurous nature, love for you, looks, they have the same kink/fetish, etc.
Absolutely.
05/17/2013
Contributor: Nullipara Nullipara
My current partner is hands-down the best I've had. I don't know if it's because he's so passionate about making sure I get off or his body type (my ex was overweight and current is much thinner). Oh, and a heavy emphasis on foreplay.
05/17/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When I married my wife I was 35 - and had many partners before then. It's entirely possible that I had sex with someone who may have had more skill - but for the long run, there is more to take into account that how well they give a BJ. Sex with my wife is great - after 23+ years its still thriving, so I have no complaints or regrets.
05/17/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
been with my wife for 20 years, and I dont want to try anyone else.
05/17/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I am female and my current partner is the best. after 10 years we have really done a lot of new tricks with each other
05/17/2013
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Yes, I am happy to say I haven't exactly had a massive amount of partners, but I have certainly never been with someone who treats me nearly as well as my current partner does!
05/17/2013
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I've only had two, and they've both been pretty good
05/17/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
OMFG, absolutely my wife is the best! I was in 3 serious long-term relationships before we met, as well as many hookups and short relationships. My wife is, by far, the best sexual partner I've ever known.

She's sexually skilled, and very attractive — but what really sets her apart is her openness to trying new things and her deep, abiding interest in learning my fantasies, desires, and what pleases me. I constantly work to do the same for her. It's an awesome vicious cycle.
05/17/2013
Contributor: bettyboom bettyboom
I love that he looks cute and sweet, but is a kinky bastard. He's also a wonderful person, and is cute and sweet, but has that streak in him and duality that is always exciting
05/17/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Is your current partner the best sexual partner you have ever had?

In the comments section write what made this person the best. Was it technique, adventurous nature, love for you, looks, they have the same kink/fetish, etc.
I've been with a few people, and my current partner is definitely not the best sex ever. He's a great person, though!
05/17/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Yes. The best.
05/17/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Yes, he is by far the best!
05/17/2013
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Yes, by far he is!
05/18/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
(Review Program Mentor)
My man is the best for several reasons (technique, love for each other, he is physically and mentally stimulating, wanting to please each other, etc.) The main reason is that because above all of the other things, we can be real with each other. I know I can bring up any fantasy, kink, desire to him and he will not judge me and vice versa. So far we have been on the same page with what we have wanted to do. There have been a few things that perhaps were not a first choice but we are willing to give it a try for the other person. That comes from a true love and respect for each other. I also know that he would respect me if I did not want to do something.
05/18/2013
Contributor: misskat misskat
My partner is the best because we love each other so much, first and foremost. He is my best friend. We have a huge desire to please each other (especially him getting me off, since that tends to be a little harder to do than vice versa) and we communicate well-- about what works, what doesn't, what we want sexually etc. He is also eager to try new things.
05/21/2013
Contributor: MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
My SO is the best for me so far! I love him to pieces and we've been together for almost 4 years now ^-^
05/21/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Is your current partner the best sexual partner you have ever had?

In the comments section write what made this person the best. Was it technique, adventurous nature, love for you, looks, they have the same kink/fetish, etc.
He is, without a doubt the best I have had.
05/22/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Is your current partner the best sexual partner you have ever had?

In the comments section write what made this person the best. Was it technique, adventurous nature, love for you, looks, they have the same kink/fetish, etc.
we are fantastic together
05/22/2013
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
My current partner is the best by far, extremely kinky at times, enjoys trying new toys and positions
06/04/2013
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I've been with two men and my husband is for sure the best I've been with.
My wife is by far the best of the three partners I have been with. I love her dearly and she does me.
We haven't even scratched the surface of what we are probably capable of sexually, so I guess we had better get going at 60 plus years old.
06/04/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Is your current partner the best sexual partner you have ever had?

In the comments section write what made this person the best. Was it technique, adventurous nature, love for you, looks, they have the same kink/fetish, etc.
My hubby is the best lover I ever had, and I had a few very good one's. I know he would say the same about me, but honestly, I am not sure I come up to the "standards" of the girl he dated right before me (who was a friend of mine, so I know all kinds of details). She was, in a world, totally wild in bed. Nothing was off limits. If you could think it, she would do it, in a heartbeat. However, she didn't do a million other things where I excel in this relationship, so I know my hubby still got the best deal! (That girl could screw, but she couldn't cook and she sure can't dance)!
09/09/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
My wife is by far the best of the three partners I have been with. I love her dearly and she does me.
We haven't even scratched the surface of what we are probably capable of sexually, so I guess we had better get going at 60 plus years old.
Times a wasting. Better plan on a closed door session this weekend, to find out what you both are capable of! Discuss it, and plan it. You have all week!
09/09/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by MsDrProfKitty
My SO is the best for me so far! I love him to pieces and we've been together for almost 4 years now ^-^
Just love him. Don't love him to pieces. Then it gets hard to put him back together again.
09/09/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by bog
I've been with a few people, and my current partner is definitely not the best sex ever. He's a great person, though!
Being great in bed can, however, be taught. Be the teacher.
09/09/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
When I married my wife I was 35 - and had many partners before then. It's entirely possible that I had sex with someone who may have had more skill - but for the long run, there is more to take into account that how well they give a BJ. Sex with ... more
Well said Gunsmoke! That kind of thought line is why you have been married 23 years, and are still happy. It is why at 33 years and 43 years of marriage, you can still be as happy too.
09/09/2013