I'd like to surprise my husband and initiate it somewhere. What would you suggest I begin with and where would be discreet to begin?
                    
                    
                    Public sex. Any tips for a newbie.
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                        In public ? Easiest is in the movie theater. Fondle him. Of course that's foreplay. Not easy to have sex there.
                        
                        
                        07/29/2016
			        
			        
                
                        Honestly, I'd start with remote controlled toys and I'd start off in your back yard, if that's an option. This way, should things go the way you are intending, you aren't too far away from the comforts of home. Look for ones that can be controlled by bluetooth. Almost everyone has a smart phone, so it won't look out of place if he whips it out every once and a while. If you want some suggestions, hit me up with a private message. I can suggest a few manufacturers. 
Then once or if you two are comfortable with that, I'd head to a park with the remote controlled toys.
Finally, if you two are ready for the real thing, I'd head to a secluded place not too far off the beaten path and handle business. There is also a resort in Jamaica that is cool with you two walking around completely nude and "exploring your relationship" on the sandy shores of their compound.
                        
                        Then once or if you two are comfortable with that, I'd head to a park with the remote controlled toys.
Finally, if you two are ready for the real thing, I'd head to a secluded place not too far off the beaten path and handle business. There is also a resort in Jamaica that is cool with you two walking around completely nude and "exploring your relationship" on the sandy shores of their compound.
07/30/2016
			        
			        
                
                        Maybe pack a picnic basket along with some fav toys. Go to a nice secluded area.  Sex in the sun is nice. Or hike to a place with nice scenery like a waterfall. Do doggie style so both can appreciate the scenery.
                        
                        
                        07/30/2016
			        
			        
                
                        Try roof tops or balconies above line of sight of other buildings.
                        
                        
                        08/03/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        I agree... starting out likely want the rush of it being more public, but controlling the variables starting out... go with public places that are also out of sight/secluded.
                        
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                                            TheToyGuy
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Try roof tops or balconies above line of sight of other buildings.
                                        
                                    08/03/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        True. Dogging is also an option. Public toilets etc. Places with locks but still in the general range of being in public and not private.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            MrClark
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            I agree... starting out likely want the rush of it being more public, but controlling the variables starting out... go with public places that are also out of sight/secluded.
                                        
                                    08/04/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Public toilets    Maybe in your neck of the woods. Around here they are stinky! 
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            TheToyGuy
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            True. Dogging is also an option. Public toilets etc. Places with locks but still in the general range of being in public and not private.
                                        
                                    08/04/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        lol. Disabled toilets are probably better.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            OH&W, Lovebears
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Public toilets    Maybe in your neck of the woods. Around here they are stinky! 
                                        
                                    08/04/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Just gotta find one that is regularly cleaned and doesn't smell  But agree can be hard to find... depending on the location
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            OH&W, Lovebears
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Public toilets    Maybe in your neck of the woods. Around here they are stinky! 
                                        
                                    08/04/2016
			        
			        
                
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                         Can you imagine your dates or SO's reaction when you say, "lets to in there and have sex"      
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            MrClark
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Just gotta find one that is regularly cleaned and doesn't smell  But agree can be hard to find... depending on the location
                                        
                                    If I did that, OW would use that paddle on me royally.
08/04/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Maybe that's what you're looking for  lol 
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            OH&W, Lovebears
                                        
                                        
                                
                                             Can you imagine your dates or SO's reaction when you say, "lets to in there and have sex"      
If I did that, OW would use that paddle on me royally.
                                    If I did that, OW would use that paddle on me royally.
I agree, not something I'd be looking to do with my SO. I think getting out into the wilderness and doing it in a secluded meadow might be the way I'd go if I was opting for public sex.
08/04/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Just ask Siri where to dump a dead body and you will find hundred of discreet places.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            MrClark
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Maybe that's what you're looking for  lol 
I agree, not something I'd be looking to do with my SO. I think getting out into the wilderness and doing it in a secluded meadow might be the way I'd go if I was opting for public sex.
                                    I agree, not something I'd be looking to do with my SO. I think getting out into the wilderness and doing it in a secluded meadow might be the way I'd go if I was opting for public sex.
08/05/2016
			        
			        
                
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                         You and Siri must have some interesting conversations Toy Guy ... You should know that if you ever run into any trouble, the Feds can subpoena both Apple and your phone carrier and figure out many of your searches. This includes any voice activated searches.
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            TheToyGuy
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Just ask Siri where to dump a dead body and you will find hundred of discreet places.
                                        
                                    P.S. I know that you were only joking, right? Please tell me you were only joking ...
08/05/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Wait, what???
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            TheToyGuy
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Just ask Siri where to dump a dead body and you will find hundred of discreet places.
                                        
                                    08/08/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Yeah, that caught my attention also...  
                        
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                                            Lvstoplay
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Wait, what???
                                        
                                    08/10/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        It should!  That's not a question most people would ask Siri.
                        
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                                            Inquisitor
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Yeah, that caught my attention also...  
                                        
                                    08/11/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        I'm a nurse. Nurses know things...
                        
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                                            Inquisitor
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                     You and Siri must have some interesting conversations Toy Guy ... You should know that if you ever run into any trouble, the Feds can subpoena both Apple and your phone carrier and figure out many of your searches. This includes any voice activated
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                                                     You and Siri must have some interesting conversations Toy Guy ... You should know that if you ever run into any trouble, the Feds can subpoena both Apple and your phone carrier and figure out many of your searches. This includes any voice activated searches.
P.S. I know that you were only joking, right? Please tell me you were only joking ... less
                                            
                                        P.S. I know that you were only joking, right? Please tell me you were only joking ... less
08/11/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        I wouldn't think disposing of a corpse you may or may not have had a hand in creating would be one of those things. Isn't that the funereal home's job? That's one way to avoid malpractice claims I guess...
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            TheToyGuy
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            I'm a nurse. Nurses know things...
                                        
                                    You live an interesting life Toy Guy. Dead men tell no tales...
08/12/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Is this the dogging that used to be practiced ages ago, but has changed to just a line of cars with occupants offering their wares?
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            TheToyGuy
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            True. Dogging is also an option. Public toilets etc. Places with locks but still in the general range of being in public and not private.
                                        
                                    08/13/2016
			        
			        
                
                        Actually having sex in public terrifies me.  I find the idea extremely sexy but I just am too scared of getting in trouble! 
However, I've definitely played with vibrators and plugs in public.
                        
                        However, I've definitely played with vibrators and plugs in public.
08/21/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Could be an Australian term. In means sex in parks etc. with random strangers etc.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            symbiasin
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Is this the dogging that used to be practiced ages ago, but has changed to just a line of cars with occupants offering their wares?
                                        
                                    08/26/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        Take one of those portable pop up tents to the beach or park. Thats an easy way to begin too.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            DancerKittyKat
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Actually having sex in public terrifies me.  I find the idea extremely sexy but I just am too scared of getting in trouble! 
However, I've definitely played with vibrators and plugs in public.
                                    However, I've definitely played with vibrators and plugs in public.
08/26/2016
			        
			        
                
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                         Yes, we could all visualize it now. The sides of the tent will be buckling back and forth.   And eventually collapse on the occupants inside.   
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            TheToyGuy
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Take one of those portable pop up tents to the beach or park. Thats an easy way to begin too.
                                        
                                    Anyone ever had sex in those model tract homes ? Added excitement rushing to finish before getting caught.
One of the easiest places is a swimming pool. From behind. Just pump slowly and discreetly.
08/26/2016
			        
			        
                
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                        there is a scenic look out where we live. Still somewhat private and public at the same time. Worked for us!
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Sarebear&Del
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            I'd like to surprise my husband and initiate it somewhere. What would you suggest I begin with and where would be discreet to begin?
                                        
                                    01/02/2017
			        
			        
                
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                        Pools are dirty, hotel outdoor spas are even worse. No to mention the chlorine going inside.
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            OH&W, Lovebears
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                     Yes, we could all visualize it now. The sides of the tent will be buckling back and forth.   And eventually collapse on the occupants inside.   
Anyone ever had sex in those model tract homes ? Added excitement rushing to finish ... more
                                                Anyone ever had sex in those model tract homes ? Added excitement rushing to finish ... more
                                                     Yes, we could all visualize it now. The sides of the tent will be buckling back and forth.   And eventually collapse on the occupants inside.   
Anyone ever had sex in those model tract homes ? Added excitement rushing to finish before getting caught.
One of the easiest places is a swimming pool. From behind. Just pump slowly and discreetly. less
                                            
                                        Anyone ever had sex in those model tract homes ? Added excitement rushing to finish before getting caught.
One of the easiest places is a swimming pool. From behind. Just pump slowly and discreetly. less
I have had sex in a mattress store on a display bed, is that better than a display house (the real trick is to have sex at place up for sale or at an auction while the estate agent is showing you or others around).
01/05/2017
			        
			        
                
                        ^ I am jealous of your mattress store sex. How did you get away with that? Did you work there?
In general I experience that most people, rightfully so (It's usually illegal) have to build up confidence and a taste for public sex. Baby steps.
As for the public bathroom thing, I like the kinky degrading element of that, but yeah, no woman I've ever met has been for it cus germs and smells. Which I get. Though I'm waiting for the day it happens anyway. Sex gods: I would settle for a fancy restaurant bathroom too. Okay?
                        
                        In general I experience that most people, rightfully so (It's usually illegal) have to build up confidence and a taste for public sex. Baby steps.
As for the public bathroom thing, I like the kinky degrading element of that, but yeah, no woman I've ever met has been for it cus germs and smells. Which I get. Though I'm waiting for the day it happens anyway. Sex gods: I would settle for a fancy restaurant bathroom too. Okay?
01/16/2017
			        
			        
                
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                        No, we just went into a store that had few sales staff, found a bed to the back and fucked. Confidence is all that is needed. It happens more often than you may think.
                        
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                                            OrbitalLover
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    ^ I am jealous of your mattress store sex. How did you get away with that? Did you work there?
In general I experience that most people, rightfully so (It's usually illegal) have to build up confidence and a taste for public sex. Baby ... more
                                                In general I experience that most people, rightfully so (It's usually illegal) have to build up confidence and a taste for public sex. Baby ... more
                                                    ^ I am jealous of your mattress store sex. How did you get away with that? Did you work there?
In general I experience that most people, rightfully so (It's usually illegal) have to build up confidence and a taste for public sex. Baby steps.
As for the public bathroom thing, I like the kinky degrading element of that, but yeah, no woman I've ever met has been for it cus germs and smells. Which I get. Though I'm waiting for the day it happens anyway. Sex gods: I would settle for a fancy restaurant bathroom too. Okay? less
                                            
                                        In general I experience that most people, rightfully so (It's usually illegal) have to build up confidence and a taste for public sex. Baby steps.
As for the public bathroom thing, I like the kinky degrading element of that, but yeah, no woman I've ever met has been for it cus germs and smells. Which I get. Though I'm waiting for the day it happens anyway. Sex gods: I would settle for a fancy restaurant bathroom too. Okay? less
01/21/2017
			        
			        
                
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                        Just what I wanted to know. I like to look and possibly be an exhibit.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Inquisitor
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    Honestly, I'd start with remote controlled toys and I'd start off in your back yard, if that's an option. This way, should things go the way you are intending, you aren't too far away from the comforts of home. Look for ones that can
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                                                    Honestly, I'd start with remote controlled toys and I'd start off in your back yard, if that's an option. This way, should things go the way you are intending, you aren't too far away from the comforts of home. Look for ones that can be controlled by bluetooth. Almost everyone has a smart phone, so it won't look out of place if he whips it out every once and a while. If you want some suggestions, hit me up with a private message. I can suggest a few manufacturers. 
Then once or if you two are comfortable with that, I'd head to a park with the remote controlled toys.
Finally, if you two are ready for the real thing, I'd head to a secluded place not too far off the beaten path and handle business. There is also a resort in Jamaica that is cool with you two walking around completely nude and "exploring your relationship" on the sandy shores of their compound. less
                                            
                                        Then once or if you two are comfortable with that, I'd head to a park with the remote controlled toys.
Finally, if you two are ready for the real thing, I'd head to a secluded place not too far off the beaten path and handle business. There is also a resort in Jamaica that is cool with you two walking around completely nude and "exploring your relationship" on the sandy shores of their compound. less
01/21/2017
			        
			        
                
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                        lolol  I think they are everywhere.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            OH&W, Lovebears
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Public toilets    Maybe in your neck of the woods. Around here they are stinky! 
                                        
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