Public sex. Any tips for a newbie.

Public sex. Any tips for a newbie.

Sarebear&Del Sarebear&Del
I'd like to surprise my husband and initiate it somewhere. What would you suggest I begin with and where would be discreet to begin?
07/24/2016
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OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
In public ? Easiest is in the movie theater. Fondle him. Of course that's foreplay. Not easy to have sex there.
07/29/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Honestly, I'd start with remote controlled toys and I'd start off in your back yard, if that's an option. This way, should things go the way you are intending, you aren't too far away from the comforts of home. Look for ones that can be controlled by bluetooth. Almost everyone has a smart phone, so it won't look out of place if he whips it out every once and a while. If you want some suggestions, hit me up with a private message. I can suggest a few manufacturers.

Then once or if you two are comfortable with that, I'd head to a park with the remote controlled toys.

Finally, if you two are ready for the real thing, I'd head to a secluded place not too far off the beaten path and handle business. There is also a resort in Jamaica that is cool with you two walking around completely nude and "exploring your relationship" on the sandy shores of their compound.
07/30/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Maybe pack a picnic basket along with some fav toys. Go to a nice secluded area. Sex in the sun is nice. Or hike to a place with nice scenery like a waterfall. Do doggie style so both can appreciate the scenery.
07/30/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Try roof tops or balconies above line of sight of other buildings.
08/03/2016
MrClark MrClark
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Try roof tops or balconies above line of sight of other buildings.
I agree... starting out likely want the rush of it being more public, but controlling the variables starting out... go with public places that are also out of sight/secluded.
08/03/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by MrClark
I agree... starting out likely want the rush of it being more public, but controlling the variables starting out... go with public places that are also out of sight/secluded.
True. Dogging is also an option. Public toilets etc. Places with locks but still in the general range of being in public and not private.
08/04/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
True. Dogging is also an option. Public toilets etc. Places with locks but still in the general range of being in public and not private.
Public toilets Maybe in your neck of the woods. Around here they are stinky!
08/04/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Public toilets Maybe in your neck of the woods. Around here they are stinky!
lol. Disabled toilets are probably better.
08/04/2016
MrClark MrClark
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Public toilets Maybe in your neck of the woods. Around here they are stinky!
Just gotta find one that is regularly cleaned and doesn't smell But agree can be hard to find... depending on the location
08/04/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by MrClark
Just gotta find one that is regularly cleaned and doesn't smell But agree can be hard to find... depending on the location
Can you imagine your dates or SO's reaction when you say, "lets to in there and have sex"

If I did that, OW would use that paddle on me royally.
08/04/2016
MrClark MrClark
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Can you imagine your dates or SO's reaction when you say, "lets to in there and have sex"

If I did that, OW would use that paddle on me royally.
Maybe that's what you're looking for lol

I agree, not something I'd be looking to do with my SO. I think getting out into the wilderness and doing it in a secluded meadow might be the way I'd go if I was opting for public sex.
08/04/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by MrClark
Maybe that's what you're looking for lol

I agree, not something I'd be looking to do with my SO. I think getting out into the wilderness and doing it in a secluded meadow might be the way I'd go if I was opting for public sex.
Just ask Siri where to dump a dead body and you will find hundred of discreet places.
08/05/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Just ask Siri where to dump a dead body and you will find hundred of discreet places.
You and Siri must have some interesting conversations Toy Guy ... You should know that if you ever run into any trouble, the Feds can subpoena both Apple and your phone carrier and figure out many of your searches. This includes any voice activated searches.

P.S. I know that you were only joking, right? Please tell me you were only joking ...
08/05/2016
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Just ask Siri where to dump a dead body and you will find hundred of discreet places.
Wait, what???
08/08/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Wait, what???
Yeah, that caught my attention also...
08/10/2016
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Yeah, that caught my attention also...
It should! That's not a question most people would ask Siri.
08/11/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
You and Siri must have some interesting conversations Toy Guy ... You should know that if you ever run into any trouble, the Feds can subpoena both Apple and your phone carrier and figure out many of your searches. This includes any voice activated ...
I'm a nurse. Nurses know things...
08/11/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I'm a nurse. Nurses know things...
I wouldn't think disposing of a corpse you may or may not have had a hand in creating would be one of those things. Isn't that the funereal home's job? That's one way to avoid malpractice claims I guess...

You live an interesting life Toy Guy. Dead men tell no tales...
08/12/2016
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
True. Dogging is also an option. Public toilets etc. Places with locks but still in the general range of being in public and not private.
Is this the dogging that used to be practiced ages ago, but has changed to just a line of cars with occupants offering their wares?
08/13/2016
DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
Actually having sex in public terrifies me. I find the idea extremely sexy but I just am too scared of getting in trouble!

However, I've definitely played with vibrators and plugs in public.
08/21/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by symbiasin
Is this the dogging that used to be practiced ages ago, but has changed to just a line of cars with occupants offering their wares?
Could be an Australian term. In means sex in parks etc. with random strangers etc.
08/26/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by DancerKittyKat
Actually having sex in public terrifies me. I find the idea extremely sexy but I just am too scared of getting in trouble!

However, I've definitely played with vibrators and plugs in public.
Take one of those portable pop up tents to the beach or park. Thats an easy way to begin too.
08/26/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Take one of those portable pop up tents to the beach or park. Thats an easy way to begin too.
Yes, we could all visualize it now. The sides of the tent will be buckling back and forth. And eventually collapse on the occupants inside.



Anyone ever had sex in those model tract homes ? Added excitement rushing to finish before getting caught.

One of the easiest places is a swimming pool. From behind. Just pump slowly and discreetly.
08/26/2016
konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by Sarebear&Del
I'd like to surprise my husband and initiate it somewhere. What would you suggest I begin with and where would be discreet to begin?
there is a scenic look out where we live. Still somewhat private and public at the same time. Worked for us!
Jan 2, 8:35 pm
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Yes, we could all visualize it now. The sides of the tent will be buckling back and forth. And eventually collapse on the occupants inside.



Anyone ever had sex in those model tract homes ? Added excitement rushing to finish ...
Pools are dirty, hotel outdoor spas are even worse. No to mention the chlorine going inside.

I have had sex in a mattress store on a display bed, is that better than a display house (the real trick is to have sex at place up for sale or at an auction while the estate agent is showing you or others around).
Jan 5, 6:13 am
OrbitalLover OrbitalLover
^ I am jealous of your mattress store sex. How did you get away with that? Did you work there?

In general I experience that most people, rightfully so (It's usually illegal) have to build up confidence and a taste for public sex. Baby steps.

As for the public bathroom thing, I like the kinky degrading element of that, but yeah, no woman I've ever met has been for it cus germs and smells. Which I get. Though I'm waiting for the day it happens anyway. Sex gods: I would settle for a fancy restaurant bathroom too. Okay?
Jan 16, 3:35 pm
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by OrbitalLover
^ I am jealous of your mattress store sex. How did you get away with that? Did you work there?

In general I experience that most people, rightfully so (It's usually illegal) have to build up confidence and a taste for public sex. Baby ...
No, we just went into a store that had few sales staff, found a bed to the back and fucked. Confidence is all that is needed. It happens more often than you may think.
Jan 21, 8:15 am
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Honestly, I'd start with remote controlled toys and I'd start off in your back yard, if that's an option. This way, should things go the way you are intending, you aren't too far away from the comforts of home. Look for ones that can ...
Just what I wanted to know. I like to look and possibly be an exhibit.
Jan 21, 8:57 am
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Public toilets Maybe in your neck of the woods. Around here they are stinky!
lolol I think they are everywhere.
Jan 21, 9:01 am
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