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Sex Fact: Sex Outside the Bedroom

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Contributor: Kayla Kayla
Having sex outside of the bedroom can be a huge turn-on. After all, how often do you have sex in bed compared to the other rooms of the house? Em and Lo have a ton of suggestions for rooms to explore and what to be concerned about.

Have you tried it in the kitchen? There's the counter-tops, the table, the chairs, or even the floor, but it may not be the most hygienic. What about the hallway? There's enough room in there for some hot standing sex. If you try it in the bath, why not keep the water-level low and add a waterproof vibrator to increase her pleasure? The shower can be a good choice too, but be careful of how slippery a shower is, and Em and Lo recommend putting down a no-slip mat before attempting it. There's always the living room too, and they recommend covering your future to avoid showing your houseguests some interesting stains. The dining room chairs will work well for getting leverage, while, if you beware of the bugs in the backyard, the lawn can be an exciting place too.

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So have you tried having sex out of the bedroom? What rooms have you marked as your own territory? What worked or didn't work for you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, I've had sex outside the bedroom.
148
No, I haven't had sex outside the bedroom.
2
Bathroom
101
Living Room
113
Dining Room
55
Backyard/Outdoors
67
Kitchen
65
Hallway
46
Public places
65
Total votes: 662 (153 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
We have sex every where, lol. It keeps it exciting!
05/02/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I haven't had the opportunity for anywhere except cars, bedrooms, and showers. When I finally get the chance to visit my guy at his house, though, I plan to jump him everywhere.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Choolz Choolz
I have sex outside of the bedroom more often than it.
Shower, couch, kitchen, car, a completely sold-out movie theatre, the beach-in broad day light, on the sand not in the water, a hiking trail, and lots of other places. Never, and luckily, been caught lol.
It's so much fun!!
05/02/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Been pretty much everywhere at one time or another all except the kitchen and the dining room. We've started in the kitchen but never seemed to end up having sex there...it's not really inviting for all that. The kitchen has a open plan with a dining area so our actual dining room was converted to a play room for my kids so that's really not inviting at all.

But anywhere else is pretty much open for taking as long as the kids ain't around and yes be aware of bugs and such if you playing in the lawn. Couple years ago I got tore up by red ants - they swarmed on both of my legs - I'll have scars for the rest of my life from them
05/02/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I've had sex in the shower many times. Showering together is fun and frisky!
05/02/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We've done a lot of these things in the past, but our king bed is the venue of choice. We have our Throe, toy and lube there and its so very convenient. Old and boring I suppose - but it works for us.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
If you define sex a little more loosely than just PIV, but still requires one or both of you to have an orgasm, then there are a LOT of places we have had sex that aren't up there, including a 767 jumbo jet. Of course, the bed room is King.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I need to get more adventurous! So far I've only done it in the hallway and on the stairs, and that's just because we got impatient on the way to my bedroom.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
We need to more. Its on our to-do.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I need to get more adventurous! So far I've only done it in the hallway and on the stairs, and that's just because we got impatient on the way to my bedroom.
haha, i love it. I wish we had stairs.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
We have sex outside the bedroom more often than not, and all of those places above at least once
05/02/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
i have sex in lots of places
05/02/2011
Contributor: Noira Noira
Where's the "I'm on a sex site but haven't actually had sex with anyone" option? >_>

Outside of the bedroom seems like a great idea to keep things exciting and spontaneous, though!
05/02/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Back yard is always a blast!
05/02/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
The list is pretty long of all the places we've done it.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Almost everywhere on the list, plus some. In reality, other places then the bed are not planned, it just happens.
Overall, the bed is usually used, even if one of us is not actually "in the bed".
05/03/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
The next place I want to try is the backyard!
05/03/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
We've done it a lot of places. but our favorite is the kitchen.
05/03/2011
Contributor: honeybee7484 honeybee7484
I checked all except dining room and public places. Though my outdoor experience was at a campground so technically that's public. We've even done it in the walk-in closet.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Mary-Anne-Xun Mary-Anne-Xun
Bathroom and Kitchen.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Back yard is always a blast!
I think about that one, but I just don't think the bugs and I would get along.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Hardin Reddy Hardin Reddy
Backyard in the warm sunshine . . . just put down some beach towels and do it!
05/03/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Pretty much every place. I remember having an immensely hot time on a bench in the kitchen of a little kitchenette in the UP of Michigan. It was a place called the Sunset Motel. Knotty pine walls etc. Our baby was in the bedroom, and we had a quickie in the afternoon. On that same trip we made love in a bathroom of an other motel. We had to have sex when the baby was napping.

I also remember making love on the wooden swing which My Man built in our backyard. It was at night.
05/03/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I love having sex outside of the bedroom when we are having a quickie... it makes it hot and exciting. The kitchen is probably the only place were we would have sex and take our time, outside of the bedroom. My partner and I enjoy laying each other out on the kitchen table, and eating strawberries, whipped cream and chocolate sauce off of one another... and then digging "in" if you catch my drift. so much fun!
05/03/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
Having sex outside of the bedroom can be a huge turn-on. After all, how often do you have sex in bed compared to the other rooms of the house? Em and Lo have a ton of suggestions for rooms to explore and what to be concerned about.Have you tried it ... more
I LOVE having sex outside the bedroom! My bf isnt as adventurous as me but the most naughty place we have had sex was in a parking gargage downtown... ; ) We opened the passenger side door and it started off as a blow job but he just couldnt resist my short skirt w/no panties!! hee hee
05/03/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Done it around the house when we were younger and without kids, cannot do that anymore with a teenager and a dog around! Besides, I still prefer my comfortable bed to any other surface when it comes to making love.
05/03/2011
Contributor: jcprice02 jcprice02
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
Having sex outside of the bedroom can be a huge turn-on. After all, how often do you have sex in bed compared to the other rooms of the house? Em and Lo have a ton of suggestions for rooms to explore and what to be concerned about.Have you tried it ... more
We've done it in nearly every room of the house. It keeps things interesting.
05/03/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
love it outside of the bedroom!
05/03/2011
Contributor: socceras socceras
I'm not sexually active right now but I have a list that I keep with someone and I check it off wherever we fool around. like library beach etc.
05/05/2011