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Contributor: ChasityMurvine ChasityMurvine
Oh I know a taboo subject OMG !!!! but seriously who has thought about it??? And I don't mean cheating, more of like an open relationship...Now I'm not saying I don't like sex with my husband but him and I have been together since high school and there is only so many ways to have sex before it gets to be monotonous....I still love my husband and want to be with him but there are things he cant do for me and its not his fault and nothing he can change....Am I a bad person for thinking this or are there others out there who are with me on this ????
10/13/2015
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Ow and I have been together a long time also. She was _ 7 when we met.
We have been faithful and never tempted. Of course I have and she prob has had thoughts. We all are only human afterall.

Thankfully we have found new activities to keep us happy and satisfied. Thank goodness for new toys coming out all the time. They do help keep our sex life exciting. ... latest is p _ gg _ _ g.
10/14/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Have you talked to him about the things you need and is he open to you finding them outside of the marriage?

Are you able to share any of the things that are missing so we can better understand and can try to help?
10/14/2015
Contributor: ChasityMurvine ChasityMurvine
I am wanting to sleep with women like I did when I was younger and he seems open to that, he keeps telling me to find someone but its not as easy as it sounds....also I know it might sound bad but I have only had sex with my husband in 8 years....I remember what it was like having other men and I miss it....I tried to fill that void with toys but c'mon nothing compares to the real thing....its not that I don't want to sleep with him anymore it just seems recently sex with him hasn't been satisfying me....
10/16/2015
Contributor: Dominican love Dominican love
1 tell him how you fell 2 do it but careful maybe you just tired of the same and you need something difrent but try something new or found some one but remember don't put in risk you marriage for something maybe its not to important if you wanted try some women or something do it good look
10/17/2015
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I've read that longtime couples lose that spark because the details of daily life take over as time passes. And, the way to get that spark back is to start thinking & responding to your partner like you did during those wonderful days. But both people need to participate equally.
10/20/2015
Contributor: Honeymuffin33 Honeymuffin33
We've actually moved to being in an open relationship but we still love each other unconditionally. It's more for the sake of becoming more experienced for each other (he's only ever been with me while I've been with other people in previous relationships). I wouldn't say its bad as long as both partners are willing to consent and don't hide anything from each other.
10/22/2015
Contributor: okhockey23 okhockey23
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Originally posted by ChasityMurvine
Oh I know a taboo subject OMG !!!! but seriously who has thought about it??? And I don't mean cheating, more of like an open relationship...Now I'm not saying I don't like sex with my husband but him and I have been together since high ... more
I completely understand what you are saying and don't think you are bad at all . . . many of us struggle with the same thing and sometimes it's hard to even admit it to ourselves. It's common for one side or the other to be more adventurous etc. Keep trying to talk about it and keep seeking out ways to keep it fun and spicy!!
12/17/2015