Personally I find the facials are a common but over rated fantasy, and they over do the dp/creampie fantasy in almost every site and movie. Can't they come up with anything new?
What sexual fantasy do you think is over rated and over used?
08/14/2011
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I don't believe you can over use a fantasy. If it's something that gets you going or gets you off I don't think it matters how many times you see it. It'll always be good.
08/14/2011
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Hm. I'll never get sick of seeing facials. Or feeling them. I mean, if it's something you love, you're not going to get tired of it. Does PIV get overused? That's in almost everything, too... because so many people like it.
Originally posted by
js250
Personally I find the facials are a common but over rated fantasy, and they over do the dp/creampie fantasy in almost every site and movie. Can't they come up with anything new?
I guess, if I'm going to be hypocritical, I feel like bondage gets overused in terms of people acting like that's an end-all-be-all kinky thing. Not so much as in porn, but as in people saying "Ohhh, my new fuck buddy let me tie her up, she's *so* kinky." Not that there's anything wrong with it, I like being tied up as much as (but probably not more than) the average person, but it's possible for sex to be exciting and new without bondage, and it seems like people overlook that sometimes. That's just my thought. There are people for whom bondage *is* all that and a bag of chips, and that's cool too.
Maybe, what I mean more specifically, is how everyone equates bondage and kinky. Like if I tell a new acquaintance "I like sex a little off the beaten path," probably 60% of the time I'll hear "oh, so you want to be tied up / tie me up?" as a response. And, well, sure, but I can be content with or without bondage. There are other kinks that don't involve rope.
08/14/2011
Threesomes. It might not be a popular opinion, but it's how I feel having been there and done that many, many times.
08/14/2011
Thanks, I wrote this thread for an informative and opinion only discussion. I agree with Antipova, though, when I have told a friend that my sexual tastes are kinky and not mainstream, immediately they ask how I can stand whips, chains and being tied up. Boy, the look on their face when I tell them I am a cam exhibitionist, masturbate in front of and with my husband and a mutual voyeur they really don't know what to say!! Maybe I should just let them think it's all bondage- they think what I do is way beyond bondage in the kink level. Go figure.
08/16/2011
I agree. It does seem like every person who talks up being kinky will say let me tie you/tie me up. It'd be really interesting if someone came outta left field for once. Oooh! I'm kinky. Really what are you into? Meet me out back with two buckets of pudding and a spatula and I'll show you. At least that would be a bit of a change.
08/22/2011
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This pudding of which you speak: is it chocolate? Because that's the only way I'm going to get in on this.
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I agree. It does seem like every person who talks up being kinky will say let me tie you/tie me up. It'd be really interesting if someone came outta left field for once. Oooh! I'm kinky. Really what are you into? Meet me out back with two
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I agree. It does seem like every person who talks up being kinky will say let me tie you/tie me up. It'd be really interesting if someone came outta left field for once. Oooh! I'm kinky. Really what are you into? Meet me out back with two buckets of pudding and a spatula and I'll show you. At least that would be a bit of a change.
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More on topic, I suppose the only fantasy that annoys me in its frequency is the down-talking that occurs a lot in bondage porn (even in bondage which doesn't involve hitting, which is what I prefer). I find the idea of being tied up to be a turn-on, but not the thought of being talked down to while it's happening. But I'm not really going to complain, since I can always turn the sound down.
08/31/2011
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I think I always watch porn with the sound down... Is that even the case in the really pretty fancy suspension bondage scenes? In those it seems more like they're making art and less like they want to humiliate the subject. (I'm not a big humiliation fan myself.)
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Rin (aka Nire)
This pudding of which you speak: is it chocolate? Because that's the only way I'm going to get in on this.
More on topic, I suppose the only fantasy that annoys me in its frequency is the down-talking that occurs a lot in bondage porn ... more
More on topic, I suppose the only fantasy that annoys me in its frequency is the down-talking that occurs a lot in bondage porn ... more
This pudding of which you speak: is it chocolate? Because that's the only way I'm going to get in on this.
More on topic, I suppose the only fantasy that annoys me in its frequency is the down-talking that occurs a lot in bondage porn (even in bondage which doesn't involve hitting, which is what I prefer). I find the idea of being tied up to be a turn-on, but not the thought of being talked down to while it's happening. But I'm not really going to complain, since I can always turn the sound down. less
More on topic, I suppose the only fantasy that annoys me in its frequency is the down-talking that occurs a lot in bondage porn (even in bondage which doesn't involve hitting, which is what I prefer). I find the idea of being tied up to be a turn-on, but not the thought of being talked down to while it's happening. But I'm not really going to complain, since I can always turn the sound down. less
08/31/2011
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I'm not sure about the fancier bondage scenes. I suppose it's my own fault for not sifting further, really. I have seen a few bondage scenes that didn't involve humiliation, and they were WAY hotter than what I normally run into.
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Antipova
I think I always watch porn with the sound down... Is that even the case in the really pretty fancy suspension bondage scenes? In those it seems more like they're making art and less like they want to humiliate the subject. (I'm not a big
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I think I always watch porn with the sound down... Is that even the case in the really pretty fancy suspension bondage scenes? In those it seems more like they're making art and less like they want to humiliate the subject. (I'm not a big humiliation fan myself.)
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08/31/2011
Do you mean what fantasies/activities are you tired of seeing in porn? That list for me is long. All I want to see is the erotic lead up to sex. Once PIV starts, I'm usually bored unless its a gangbang or in a few other cases.
Personal fantasies inside your own head can't be overused.
Personal fantasies inside your own head can't be overused.
08/31/2011
I think all of the big ones like anal, facials and moneyshots are up there as big porn cliches. But i really think that even the most popular ones arent done nearly as often as porn would have us think.
08/31/2011
I watch mostly fetish oriented porn so my list will probably be a bit different than most but...
Additionally: Inter racial, Facials, Cum swapping, Pegging, Sissy-fication/ cross dressing.
Additionally: Inter racial, Facials, Cum swapping, Pegging, Sissy-fication/ cross dressing.
10/27/2011
School girl.
Granted, I was one last halloween (no one saw the outfit but my boyfriend, though). It was mostly because a friend had a skirt and I had a shirt and knee socks so the outfit was free. My bf isn't particularly into outfits in particular, other than "Oh she's dressing up for me and is feeling all ready to go... I LOVE THIS!"
The thing that bothers me about the school girl thing is that it's so youth centered. Domination, I get. Scant uniforms, I get. The good girl gone bad thing, I get. However, all of that following that you are therefore almost exclusively fantasizing about people 18 and under, and most people doing the fantasizing are much older. There's something that comes off as desperate and reminiscent of a midlife crisis.
Granted, I was one last halloween (no one saw the outfit but my boyfriend, though). It was mostly because a friend had a skirt and I had a shirt and knee socks so the outfit was free. My bf isn't particularly into outfits in particular, other than "Oh she's dressing up for me and is feeling all ready to go... I LOVE THIS!"
The thing that bothers me about the school girl thing is that it's so youth centered. Domination, I get. Scant uniforms, I get. The good girl gone bad thing, I get. However, all of that following that you are therefore almost exclusively fantasizing about people 18 and under, and most people doing the fantasizing are much older. There's something that comes off as desperate and reminiscent of a midlife crisis.
10/27/2011
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