I feel guilty about this but I have a fantasy about having sex with my husband (who is black, and actually born and raised in Africa) as a slave and me as a southern belle. I AM COMPLETELY AGAINST racism and oppression of any kind, but this turns me on. Anyone else?
Slave/southern belle
07/09/2011
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I'm not personally into this, but I did hear an IMsL talk about her views on this kind of play and that as a black woman, she can have great fun with it with the right people in scene. I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as all parties involved agree and there is a lot of continued aftercare.
07/09/2011
It's not the most common of fantasies, but I do know of people who are into that. I personally am not, but there's nothing wrong with it. I can see the allure of that.
07/09/2011
Just to clarify because I wasn't clear in my post.. It would be a consensual sex fantasy, maybe even a love story that we acted out. I've experimented with rape fantasies before, and got weirded out. I guess I'm a typical girl...lovey dovey stuff works for me. Anyway, the hubs is okay with it, so I'm happy.
07/10/2011
as long as you and your husband have open communication and he's ok with this, why not?
07/10/2011
How many of us have read historical romance novels/watched films and fantasized about the brute Regency Lord and virginal Lady, the Old West savage Indian and the white woman, the Roman lady and the gladiator? Are any of these scenarios remotely realistic, politically correct, or reflecting our actual beliefs? Not in the least. As long as they are enjoyed by the participants, they are harmless and I don't think should make anyone feel guilty.
bayosgirl- Your fantasy fueled my own of a southern belle never really valued by her family, trapped in an arranged loveless marriage, and a hidden love affair with a slave who treats her better than her husband. If your hubby is into role-playing with you, I think you are a lucky girl
bayosgirl- Your fantasy fueled my own of a southern belle never really valued by her family, trapped in an arranged loveless marriage, and a hidden love affair with a slave who treats her better than her husband. If your hubby is into role-playing with you, I think you are a lucky girl
07/10/2011
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