Has anyone ever had a fantasy of searching around a friend/strangers house and bedroom for a sex toy stash? and if so, have you acted it out? Just looking to see who would find this as a turn on, or if it is strictly off-limits. Also, if someone is snooping through your stuff, turn on or turn off? Would love to hear what you have to say!
Snooping around for sex toy stash?
09/12/2011
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My sex life is something I'm extremely protective of in the real world and I would seriously smash some fingers if anyone had the nerve to go through my closets/drawers searching for anything related to said sex life.
09/12/2011
LOL; i'm not all secretive about my stuff , i just don't want anybody touching or using them. My friends and i are REALLY close so we can tell eachother about our stuff so we don't have to snoop around in eachother's houses! lol
09/12/2011
I am not interested in snooping around other peoples stuff and wouldn't like it done to me
09/12/2011
Fantasies are just that, something you think about but probably will never do.
I have never had the fantasy of snooping in someone's house, but as long as you don't act on it (which could actually be considered a crime in some states) it's your fantasy. Run with it, as long as you don't bring anyone into it without consent.
I once found a now EX friend of my husband's snooping through my stuff, he was trying to steal my migraine medications. I kicked him out of my room and out of my house, he was supposed to tell my husband what he had done, but he lied to my husband. It wasn't until weeks later that my husband was told by me what his friend had done. He was so angry, he called the man up and told him he was cut off for good.
The man is now in prison for drug charges not connected to us. He was stealing from other people, too. *sigh*
Anyway, that was a little OT, but I felt really violated when I found this man going through my drawers and I would never want to relive that for anything.
I have never had the fantasy of snooping in someone's house, but as long as you don't act on it (which could actually be considered a crime in some states) it's your fantasy. Run with it, as long as you don't bring anyone into it without consent.
I once found a now EX friend of my husband's snooping through my stuff, he was trying to steal my migraine medications. I kicked him out of my room and out of my house, he was supposed to tell my husband what he had done, but he lied to my husband. It wasn't until weeks later that my husband was told by me what his friend had done. He was so angry, he called the man up and told him he was cut off for good.
The man is now in prison for drug charges not connected to us. He was stealing from other people, too. *sigh*
Anyway, that was a little OT, but I felt really violated when I found this man going through my drawers and I would never want to relive that for anything.
09/12/2011
I would be incredibly pissed if i found someone going through my things. I have no problem giving them a "tour" of my stuff, but going through my stuff without my permission is going to probably get them a black eye. And i would never go through someone's stuff ever; I just think it's straight up disrespectful.
09/12/2011
I agree with all of the posts so far! Some of my friends had brought up this topic awhile back, and I was interested in seeing if anyone else was in their minority. Glad to know it isn't a common fantasy...
09/12/2011
I wouldn't say I'd go so far as to injure a snoop, but I wouldn't be happy about it.
09/12/2011
I would be really pissed if someone was purposefully snooping to find a sex toy stash. But if someone saw it by accident, I asked them to get something and they looked in the wrong place type of thing, I wouldn't be as upset.
09/12/2011
I wouldn't snoop and would be pissed if someone else snooped in my house. I always wondered if the babysitter snooped and saw my stash though.
09/12/2011
I have had it happen to me and I hate it. I would never do it to others.
09/12/2011
I'm not a snoop and would be very upset to find someone snoopping through my things. Its just not right in my book.
09/12/2011
that's creepy hahaha. i wouldn't do that. i'm happy seeing my own stash.
09/12/2011
I wouldn't want to have anyone touch my toys ect, but I am curious if my friends own anything like I do.
09/12/2011
I respect other people's privacy, and I hope others would do the same. My mother's an extreme snoop, so I make sure I'll never ever follow her footsteps.
09/12/2011
I am not the nosy type. I don't snoop around people's homes, and I would appreciate if I was given the same courtesy.
09/12/2011
First, no I've never had that fantasy, I don't really care to know about anyone's sex life or masturbation other than my own.
Second,I would be madder than a junkyard dog if someone was snooping around my house, but how mad I would be depends on which stash they find. If it was the stuff that is just tossed under the bed, then probably not too mad. The stuff that is in a box in a dead-bolted door surrounded by highly dangerous items, you'd better believe they are going to get an earful for snooping around my house (other than the common areas) ignoring a locked door and last, but not least handling items that if mishandled or knocked out of calibration could result in serve injury to themselves or to myself at a later time.
Rule of thumb, if you leave the common areas of my house (guest bath, guest bed, living room, kitchen, game room, ect) and wander into my bathroom, my bedroom, my hobby room, or my study without my explicit permission you are probably never getting invited over again. There is absolutely no reason to be on that floor of my house.
Second,I would be madder than a junkyard dog if someone was snooping around my house, but how mad I would be depends on which stash they find. If it was the stuff that is just tossed under the bed, then probably not too mad. The stuff that is in a box in a dead-bolted door surrounded by highly dangerous items, you'd better believe they are going to get an earful for snooping around my house (other than the common areas) ignoring a locked door and last, but not least handling items that if mishandled or knocked out of calibration could result in serve injury to themselves or to myself at a later time.
Rule of thumb, if you leave the common areas of my house (guest bath, guest bed, living room, kitchen, game room, ect) and wander into my bathroom, my bedroom, my hobby room, or my study without my explicit permission you are probably never getting invited over again. There is absolutely no reason to be on that floor of my house.
09/12/2011
I don't think I could ever bring myself to snoop around in someone else's home, and I would definitely be offended if someone felt like they could in mine.
09/12/2011
To me, privacy is sacred, and I was raised to respect it and to expect my own to be respected in turn. In short: nope, I've never fantasized about snooping for toys, and I'd feel very hurt if someone was sifting through my stuff. If someone wants to know if I have toys, all they need do is ask.
09/12/2011
I haven't really thought about it, but I wouldn't be too bothered if someone snooped and found my sex toys. I don't have anything to hide, although I wouldn't leave them laying out for the world to see. The thought of snooping doesn't turn me on.
09/12/2011
I would never look through anyone's stuff. And, anyone that knows me, knows all they have to do is ask and I'll show them my stash! Hahaha. All my girl friends ask me to show off my latest and greatest when they come over. I'm pretty open about my sex toy advocacy.
09/12/2011
I haven't looked through anyone's stuff and i don't really think it would be right too. I'd feel really hurt if someone invaded my privacy that way, especially since I would probably be willing to show them my toys if they asked me.
09/12/2011
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Time for a funny story... Well it's funny now but at the time I was about as red as a fire engine... My mom, who is super cool by the way, but who has become a very active christian and distanced herself from most things kinky was visiting our house for about a week. My mom is not naive by any stretch but not even a glimmer of where i am on the naughty scale went into my bathroom to get a bandaid for one of the kids. So as she is searching through the cabinets - (Did I mention by the way that I own a large collection of naughty toys and topping the list for size is a Doc Johnson 8" Real Cock with suction cup base---Very Highly recommend you buy one!!!) There is Ol' Big Cock suction cupped down in the cabinet drying from our last me wrecking session... Suffices to say when I heard my first and middle name called out rather loudly and with a slight exasperation in the tone I knew my mom had stumbled onto something she didn't expect. As I sheepishly walked into the bathroom she was standing there with the door open and pointing with a "What's this!!!???" I smiled and said Mom... you should probably stop looking before you have a stroke... he's not alone.
Originally posted by
PandJ
Has anyone ever had a fantasy of searching around a friend/strangers house and bedroom for a sex toy stash? and if so, have you acted it out? Just looking to see who would find this as a turn on, or if it is strictly off-limits. Also, if someone is
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Has anyone ever had a fantasy of searching around a friend/strangers house and bedroom for a sex toy stash? and if so, have you acted it out? Just looking to see who would find this as a turn on, or if it is strictly off-limits. Also, if someone is snooping through your stuff, turn on or turn off? Would love to hear what you have to say!
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09/12/2011
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glad you can look back on it and laugh CreamySweet, I don't know if I could laugh off my parents finding my stash!
Originally posted by
CreamySweet
Time for a funny story... Well it's funny now but at the time I was about as red as a fire engine... My mom, who is super cool by the way, but who has become a very active christian and distanced herself from most things kinky was visiting our
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more
Time for a funny story... Well it's funny now but at the time I was about as red as a fire engine... My mom, who is super cool by the way, but who has become a very active christian and distanced herself from most things kinky was visiting our house for about a week. My mom is not naive by any stretch but not even a glimmer of where i am on the naughty scale went into my bathroom to get a bandaid for one of the kids. So as she is searching through the cabinets - (Did I mention by the way that I own a large collection of naughty toys and topping the list for size is a Doc Johnson 8" Real Cock with suction cup base---Very Highly recommend you buy one!!!) There is Ol' Big Cock suction cupped down in the cabinet drying from our last me wrecking session... Suffices to say when I heard my first and middle name called out rather loudly and with a slight exasperation in the tone I knew my mom had stumbled onto something she didn't expect. As I sheepishly walked into the bathroom she was standing there with the door open and pointing with a "What's this!!!???" I smiled and said Mom... you should probably stop looking before you have a stroke... he's not alone.
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09/13/2011
I have found a friend's stash, but I wasn't snooping. They told me to get their phone out of a drawer, but I went to the wrong dresser. They were talking to me from another room, so she didn't know. I just closed it and never mentioned it...she would be so emberased if she knew I knew.
09/13/2011
I once hung my husband's Fleshlight sleeve from the bathroom towel rack to dry and almost forgot it when my mom came over. Oh gosh, I can't imagine what would have happened if she had walked into the bathroom and saw a big rubber pussy hanging next to the towels! I can almost hear the scream.
09/13/2011
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Yeah, that pretty much sums up how I'd feel perfectly. I would be sooooo pissed off!
Originally posted by
Ansley
My sex life is something I'm extremely protective of in the real world and I would seriously smash some fingers if anyone had the nerve to go through my closets/drawers searching for anything related to said sex life.
09/14/2011
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Thats just so wrong. I get the fantasy part of it, but I would be pissed if someone went thru our things snooping. We use to live in an apartment, I hope to hell the owner never went snooping.
Originally posted by
PandJ
Has anyone ever had a fantasy of searching around a friend/strangers house and bedroom for a sex toy stash? and if so, have you acted it out? Just looking to see who would find this as a turn on, or if it is strictly off-limits. Also, if someone is
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Has anyone ever had a fantasy of searching around a friend/strangers house and bedroom for a sex toy stash? and if so, have you acted it out? Just looking to see who would find this as a turn on, or if it is strictly off-limits. Also, if someone is snooping through your stuff, turn on or turn off? Would love to hear what you have to say!
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09/14/2011
It would depend on who did it. If its a some kind of worker in my house, or even just one of our friends that happens to be a guy I will probably rough them up quite a bit and send them out of my home. If its a female I wouldn't care as much as long as I could tell that they weren't trying to steal any jewelry, cash or anything. I would rather somebody ask about my stash, then I would probably be happy to show them.
09/14/2011
I would not snoop, nor would I be happy if someone was snooping around to find mine.
09/14/2011