So I want to try something...

I am a bit nervous about asking my husband to try forceful sex. Have you guys/gals tried this? I mean like pinned down and wanted so bad no doesn't matter. I think in the right situation this would be amazing, but I don't know how to go about this jump. I want him to be a bit violent. I always thought that was hot, just barely brought it up to him. One of those secret fantasies.. Have you tried it? Would you recommend it?