How many of your fantasies are things you'd actually like to do in real life?
Thinking vs. Doing
02/06/2011
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Fantasy turned into a nightmare for me. I'm not willing to jeopardize my relationship again. We talk about having threesomes but when either of make the move to actually get someone over here, the mood in the room instantly changes. It's a lot of fun to talk about but we already know what happens when the reality goes south. It's best to leave it where it is right now.
02/06/2011
I have some seriously kinky fantasies. I can be a real freak in real life. But way more in my head. It's not out of inhibition, its that some thoughts are to be left private or just as a conversation foreplay.
02/06/2011
I would do all but one in my current state of relationship.
02/06/2011
Most of them, but some are just for mental kicks
02/06/2011
Some fantasies are much better left as fantasies. They're not necessarily going to go the way you imagined and it could completely ruin things for you. For example, the couples recently written about on SexIs where the man 'accidentally' shot his wife or the man who strangled his partner. I don't have fantasies like that, but it seems to me that people weren't able to think as clearly when caught up in the heat of the moment and their fantasies turned into huge disasters. Then of course, you have things like threesomes where unexpected jealousy could ruin your relationship forever.
02/06/2011
I would do most of mine but some of them just aren't a good idea.
02/06/2011
Some fantasies will remain fantasies because thinking and doing are two separate things. I suppose we all have to draw the line somewhere.
02/06/2011
I would do the majority of my fantasies. Maybe a couple of them wouldn't be the best idea at the moment.
02/06/2011
When it comes to my sexual fantasies, it seems that once an idea is planted in my head... I want to do it. And I go about ways to make them a reality. So yes. I would love to do all my fantasies!!! Even the fantasy men!!!!!
02/06/2011
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All of my fantasies are safe and sane, and I would only do them if they were consentual, so yes, I would do everything I want.
Originally posted by
lezergirl
How many of your fantasies are things you'd actually like to do in real life?
02/06/2011
some fantasies are really only hot in my mind
02/06/2011
Any fantasies that don't involve my husband will stay in fantasyland. any others are fair game!
02/07/2011
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Agreed.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
All of my fantasies are safe and sane, and I would only do them if they were consentual, so yes, I would do everything I want.
02/07/2011
Most of my fantasies actually involve my wife, so when/if she agrees to them, I'd definitely do them. The one or two that don't involve her would involve getting her permission. Not that I plan on asking, but if she consented I'd consider going through with it.
02/07/2011
Most would be great to act out except the ones that involve more than the 2 of us. Those will always remain a fantasy.
02/07/2011
Some fantasies are damaging, and I wouldn't dare hurt the people I love for my own selfish gratification.
02/07/2011
There are definitely a few fantasies of mine that I have no wish to ever play out in real life, ever.
02/07/2011
Some of them are worth leaving just as fantasy. That's part of why I enjoy them.
02/07/2011
I would do most if not all my fantasies, my fantasies are actually pretty realistic for fantasies. Since my sex life is pretty standard, I'm constantly looking for simple things that really arouse me to add to our sex life. I just need a little more openness on my guys end, lol.
02/07/2011
My fantasies can be brutal, but I would like to try them out. There's maybe one I'm not sure I'd try, but you never know.
02/09/2011
I would do most of them but not all. Some fantasies I think are better in my mind.
02/10/2011
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My fantasies are all very violent and would mostly be illegal so I'll be leaving them where they belong...in my head. If I have a lighter more positive desire I generally discuss it with my guys and we might try it but I don't really consider those fantasies more like suggestions.
Originally posted by
lezergirl
How many of your fantasies are things you'd actually like to do in real life?
02/10/2011
Most of my fantasies aren't bad and can be realistic but Hubby isn't into some of the things I would like so it's a no go for me. Hubby actually offered to do one of them and we talked it all out first. But once it began he totally couldn't deal with it and it sucked terribly so yeah that one didn't happen but it'll remain with most in my fantasy land. I do think some others may eventually happen but not til Hubby is more interested.
02/12/2011
I don't really fantasize about much. But I do daydream about what we'll do the next time, all the time;-)
02/13/2011
hehe... "I want to do more of my fantasies in real life"
02/21/2011
I would try out most of them and most in the I wouldn't list, are less that I really wouldn't try them and more it is highly unlike that I could get all the right circumstance to line up to make it happen in a safe manner.
02/22/2011
I'm pretty sure I'd do them.
02/22/2011
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Pretty similar story here.
Originally posted by
VanillaFreeSex
I have some seriously kinky fantasies. I can be a real freak in real life. But way more in my head. It's not out of inhibition, its that some thoughts are to be left private or just as a conversation foreplay.
I'm pretty sure if I fulfilled every fantasy my brain came up with I'd be in a psychiatric ward or dead. I fulfill a lot of my fantasies but I'm sane and risk-aware enough to realize that not every fantasy is meant to be fulfilled. Besides. Then they aren't really fantasies anymore.
02/22/2011
I would do most of them, but some are best left in fantasy land, for obvious reasons. Like physical fitness limitations. And not being able to get circumstances to line up right. thus ruining the fantasy for me.
02/22/2011
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