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Contributor: ablawn ablawn
is it cool to you for her
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
let her have her way
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66  (81%)
make her take it
cobiffle
1  (1%)
no chance
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14  (17%)
Total votes: 81
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Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
A number of other discussions have covered this topic. Since this is in the fantasies section that it's in the context of her being the one with the fantasy. With the exception of any physically risky behavior, I don't think I'd ever refuse to indulge my wife's fantasies if she shares them honestly. I expect the same from her too...
11/09/2010
Contributor: hive83 hive83
Yes most certainly she gives so much and asks for so little.
11/10/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Certainly, though I'm not sure what "make her take it" is supposed to mean. Take it off?
11/11/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I would go for it - but it's never going to happen - my girl would never take that kind of initiative.
11/11/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I don't know what you mean...
11/11/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
I don't know what you mean...
I think he means, if she put's on a strap-on will you submit to pegging?

If that is the question than Hell ya. Otherwise I don't know...
11/11/2010
Contributor: 1boogieman 1boogieman
Quote:
Originally posted by ablawn
is it cool to you for her
if it turns her on, why not let her have her way. You may like it more than you can imagine. Enjoy her caring thrusts.
11/12/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
If it is what she want's, then I am willing to try.
12/25/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
If it is what she want's, then I am willing to try.
Bravo - good attitude. Make sure that you do the same things you should do if you're trying to get her to enjoy anal. Take your time to warm up (if you don't do anal play take about a month to learn to relax and enjoy it), lube up, and go slow to start off.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Bravo - good attitude. Make sure that you do the same things you should do if you're trying to get her to enjoy anal. Take your time to warm up (if you don't do anal play take about a month to learn to relax and enjoy it), lube up, and go ... more
My husband is a very good sport! I very much enjoy the anal aspect of our lovemaking. He has been very open to trying out prostate massagers, but so far nothing has worked very well for him other than my fingers. We are hopeful. Would love for him to experience a progasm! Maybe someday.
01/02/2011
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
My husband is a very good sport! I very much enjoy the anal aspect of our lovemaking. He has been very open to trying out prostate massagers, but so far nothing has worked very well for him other than my fingers. We are hopeful. Would love for ... more
Same for us. He is very good about letting me, no hands free orgasm yet...
01/03/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
My husband is a very good sport! I very much enjoy the anal aspect of our lovemaking. He has been very open to trying out prostate massagers, but so far nothing has worked very well for him other than my fingers. We are hopeful. Would love for ... more
Make sure you do plenty of foreplay, including penile foreplay. Start pegging, and play off and on until he's right on the edge, then do rapid, regular thrusts that hit his prostate.
01/03/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
i'm hoping he does! plus i have a harness with plug on the way!
01/03/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Make sure you do plenty of foreplay, including penile foreplay. Start pegging, and play off and on until he's right on the edge, then do rapid, regular thrusts that hit his prostate.
ScottA,
Thanks for the tips! You are full of information. I might have to pick your brain some more, if you don't mind.
01/03/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
ScottA,
Thanks for the tips! You are full of information. I might have to pick your brain some more, if you don't mind.
No problem.
01/13/2011
Contributor: Jin Jin
Of course! I mean, it would only be fair right?

I giggle at the thought because its something I joke about already.
She would be like,
'PREPARE YOUR ANUS.' C:<
And I would be like,
'Please be gentle~!' D:>
01/19/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by ablawn
is it cool to you for her
What do you mean by "make her take it"? I don't really like that response.

Also, I might. I voted no because of my mood, but I don't know really.
01/28/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Certainly, though I'm not sure what "make her take it" is supposed to mean. Take it off?
I don't know either. I don't like the way it sounds at all.
01/28/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Jin
Of course! I mean, it would only be fair right?

I giggle at the thought because its something I joke about already.
She would be like,
'PREPARE YOUR ANUS.' C:<
And I would be like,
'Please be gentle~!' D:>
Either that or "bend over and prepare to be boarded"
01/31/2011
Contributor: ben805 ben805
when pigs fly and hell freezes over then maybe, just maybe, I might allow it. my anal is a one way tunnel and that's that. Anal sex is a big turn off to me personally, so I'd never do it to anyone else either.
02/25/2011
Contributor: MontereyJak MontereyJak
I would definitely let her give it to me, only fair. I need the experience or getting used to that feeling before we find a bi guy to join us in the bedroom. Bring it on baby.
03/01/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
IM not sure about it but maybe
03/04/2011
Contributor: ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
I'm a virgin and have only been in one sexless relationship but being that I love anal stimulation, if I did have a girlfriend (and/or Domme/Owner) (or boyfriend/Dom/Owner possibly ) interested in pegging me (although with the boyfriend half of the equation I don't know if I could take that much girth yet) with a reasonable strap-on, I would instantly agree though suggest they take it slow, being pegged by a pretty woman is indeed a fantasy of mine though so if a female had the same fantasy I wouldn't have a issue with it at all ^_^
03/13/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I voted for my husband. He'd summit but not easily... he he he...
04/18/2011
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
What's summit mean?
04/18/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Ummm, been there, done that. She absolute loves doing it and I liked it too.
05/08/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
My man is a "no chance" guy.
05/08/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by ablawn
is it cool to you for her
Sure. Looking forward to doing it for the first time soon. Finally admitted that I was interested.
05/09/2011