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Would you have sex (discretely) when other people are in the room?

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Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Me and my boyfriend have come across certain circumstances where we wernt able to resist eachother while his family members where in the room.

Two personal circumstances

1. While watching a movie with his sister.
2. While in the backseat of his parents car on the way to vacation with his family.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
If in a car with others. Yes
22
If in a car with others. No
61
If in a room with others Yes
41
If in a room with others. No
48
Maybe, it depends on the situation (explain)
34
Total votes: 206 (113 voters)
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01/18/2012
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Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by sexystuffeve
Me and my boyfriend have come across certain circumstances where we wernt able to resist eachother while his family members where in the room.

Two personal circumstances

1. While watching a movie with his sister.
2. While in the ... more
Have in both situations
01/18/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by sexystuffeve
Me and my boyfriend have come across certain circumstances where we wernt able to resist eachother while his family members where in the room.

Two personal circumstances

1. While watching a movie with his sister.
2. While in the ... more
We are pretty loud, I don't think it will work.
01/18/2012
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
No, personally having other people around (especially family members) would kill the mood.
01/18/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
I have done both on a camping trip when I was younger and riskier.
01/18/2012
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
No, I wouldn't. Unless the people were explicitly comfortable with that kind of behavior around them. My parents used to do this when I was a child and I found it extremely uncomfortable to the point where I would pretend to be asleep so I didn't have to deal with the consequences. I try not to make other people uncomfortable.
01/19/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I would maybe do some touching...like if we shared a blanket during the movie. But not sex...
01/19/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Touching and messing about yes, no sex.
01/19/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by Ghost
No, I wouldn't. Unless the people were explicitly comfortable with that kind of behavior around them. My parents used to do this when I was a child and I found it extremely uncomfortable to the point where I would pretend to be asleep so I ... more
I ment in a situation when no one else would know. I didn't mean screaming his name out in front of his grandmother. I hope you didn't misunderstand or take offence to this post, if so I am sorry.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by sexystuffeve
Me and my boyfriend have come across certain circumstances where we wernt able to resist eachother while his family members where in the room.

Two personal circumstances

1. While watching a movie with his sister.
2. While in the ... more
No, I feel it's a private matter.
01/19/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Once while there were other people in the room, with my first girlfriend.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
The idea of getting caught doesn't add anything to get me excited, so no. I wouldn't be able to properly enjoy myself, and it would be pretty disrespectful imo.
01/19/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
nope
01/19/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I've had sex in front of people, both discreetly and publicly. So yes?
01/19/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I wouldn't do it, especially not with family around. Once I had sex with my ex in his dorm room with his roommate there. We were drunk and thought we could be quiet and he wouldn't hear, but we definitely woke him up. I felt awkward in the morning.

I have done a little touching with my boyfriend while we were snuggling under a blanket with some friends in the room, but I wouldn't go any farther.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Jesse-in-TX Jesse-in-TX
Whoa...I am not at all certain if I would do it around family members.

I have had full out hardcore sex in front of people at a small house party. it was spontaneous and we were both tipsy, but it was a blast.
I have also done it in the car while her hanging out buddy was driving us.

It does definitely depend on the manner of relationship and the people you are around tho. In any of the cases when I did, it was not in front of people whom I would be around and dealing with on a frequent basis.
I feel that once you flaunt yourselves around in that way, with conservative type of people about you, there is a deal of respect lost.
01/23/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
No, and no.
Can't do it with family around, I would be immediately turned off!
01/23/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
No, that wouldn't be for me. Especially if it was around family! That would kill the mood and be too weird. I'd rather we just excuse ourselves and have a quickie somewhere else... or just let the passion build up for later!
01/23/2012
Contributor: AJvil AJvil
Quote:
Originally posted by sexystuffeve
Me and my boyfriend have come across certain circumstances where we wernt able to resist eachother while his family members where in the room.

Two personal circumstances

1. While watching a movie with his sister.
2. While in the ... more
That is just too risky to me
01/23/2012
Contributor: Janis Janis
I would never have sex with my family or that of my boyfriend around; I don't even like it when his cousin sleeps over and my boyfriend wants to have sex, even though there are rooms and doors between us and his cousin. We try to be quiet, but I'm normally pretty loud and don't like to have to silence myself to avoid waking people up.

When it comes to having sex while others are in the same room, I would do it, but I don't think my boyfriend would; he's pretty modest. We got pretty close in a tent while a mutual friend was asleep, once.

The possibility of getting caught doesn't hold any thrill for me, as it does for some, my boy included. If I'm having sex, I'm having sex. I'm not going to think about whether or not my favourite sweater is clean, and I am not going to be happy if I am interrupted.
01/23/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Depends, only if I could keep quiet
02/05/2012
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Way too risky for me
02/06/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by sexystuffeve
Me and my boyfriend have come across certain circumstances where we wernt able to resist eachother while his family members where in the room.

Two personal circumstances

1. While watching a movie with his sister.
2. While in the ... more
It depends on who the other people were. But really, if it is dark, and I'm super turned on, something is bound to happen!
02/06/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
No way. I'd be afraid of getting caught. I'm too loud, anyway. We may have messed around. I can't remember. But we definitely didn't have full-on sex.
02/06/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I don't see how other people in the car wouldn't notice.

I've had sex with my boyfriend with my roommate in the room.
02/11/2012
Contributor: ddd masturbator(bye all!) ddd masturbator(bye all!)
Never. In fact, it sounds disgusting to me.

I might do some touching under a blanket if the other people couldn't see, but no sex in front of others.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by sexystuffeve
Me and my boyfriend have come across certain circumstances where we wernt able to resist eachother while his family members where in the room.

Two personal circumstances

1. While watching a movie with his sister.
2. While in the ... more
No thanks. I want privacy.
02/11/2012
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by sexystuffeve
Me and my boyfriend have come across certain circumstances where we wernt able to resist eachother while his family members where in the room.

Two personal circumstances

1. While watching a movie with his sister.
2. While in the ... more
Have around friends on both counts. Got ever so slowly and gently fingered under a blanket by hubby while we were sitting on our couch watching a movie while my mom sat on the ther couch watching the movie, facebooking and playing farmville... on second thought he could have full on doggy styled me and she never would have noticed.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
non family situations sure, my friends would laugh. I don't want to die an early death.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
We've gone at it with our kids sleeping in our bedroom...in fact, when we only had one kid, that was pretty regular for us when he was young. We attribute his ability to sleep through most anything to that .
02/11/2012