I have been with my husband now for 7 years and 2 months 1 year and 5 months of that being married. Some times it just doesn't seem like anything is there between us any more. We fight like cats and dogs some times. I have always heard of you make it past your 7 year anniversary you have a good chance at staying together... but I think my hubby is getting that 7 year itch he just has to scratch what are your thoughts on the whole 7 year itch idea?
Thoughts on the 7 year itch?
08/12/2012
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Honestly...between my relationships and ones of my friends I think it is more accurate to say 3 or 10 year itch. Those seem to be seriously critical as well.
08/12/2012
Been with my wife for 16 years and now in a sexless marriage. I'm at a point that I welcome any advance of someone else and if ever given the opportunity, I'll take it.
08/13/2012
my hubby and I have been together for 12 years and married for 9. Seems to me that men ALWAYS have an itch!! It doesn't help that a lot of bitches are back stabbing sluts that would love to have sex with a married man for some reason, wtf! I wouldn't worry if I were you, marriages/relationship s just have ups and downs that they usually rebound from. I think my marriage is still strong and I don't think he would ever fully cheat on me, but sometimes I know it is nice to have that feeling that someone else is interested in you, maybe you just need to make him feel more special or some shit...you know that you and my relationships seem to be roughly the same
08/15/2012
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roughly the same silly our hubbys are twins just from diff mothers....lol i get what your saying though
Originally posted by
carebear712
my hubby and I have been together for 12 years and married for 9. Seems to me that men ALWAYS have an itch!! It doesn't help that a lot of bitches are back stabbing sluts that would love to have sex with a married man for some reason, wtf! I
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my hubby and I have been together for 12 years and married for 9. Seems to me that men ALWAYS have an itch!! It doesn't help that a lot of bitches are back stabbing sluts that would love to have sex with a married man for some reason, wtf! I wouldn't worry if I were you, marriages/relationship s just have ups and downs that they usually rebound from. I think my marriage is still strong and I don't think he would ever fully cheat on me, but sometimes I know it is nice to have that feeling that someone else is interested in you, maybe you just need to make him feel more special or some shit...you know that you and my relationships seem to be roughly the same
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08/16/2012
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wow 16 years in a sexless marriage that is a long time
Originally posted by
Istanbull
Been with my wife for 16 years and now in a sexless marriage. I'm at a point that I welcome any advance of someone else and if ever given the opportunity, I'll take it.
08/16/2012
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haha, WELL put!
Originally posted by
LostinLife
roughly the same silly our hubbys are twins just from diff mothers....lol i get what your saying though
08/16/2012
I think all years are an "itch" year. You need to be committed to eachother and make it work every year
08/16/2012
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Why don't you tell this to your wife as a concern of yours. As a matter of fact, don't say anything guys tend to say the wrong thing or say it with the wrong tone. You want sex from her then caress her, love her, massage her tenderly, give her butterfly kisses. If you show love you'll get love. Don't do this either at a time of anger, just as a surprise and don't expect anything in return right away. After 16 years of marriage, and now that your getting older would you really want to take the chance of losing the love you once had. If you were struck with some awful disease tomorrow would someone else really be there for you? Men sometimes complain they get no action in bed, women complain they get no love shown. Get it, get it? Well, you aren't getting it if it's still sexless. Show her love dine her and wine her It's not too late.
Originally posted by
Istanbull
Been with my wife for 16 years and now in a sexless marriage. I'm at a point that I welcome any advance of someone else and if ever given the opportunity, I'll take it.
08/16/2012
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I agree.
Originally posted by
Sodom and Gomorrah
Why don't you tell this to your wife as a concern of yours. As a matter of fact, don't say anything guys tend to say the wrong thing or say it with the wrong tone. You want sex from her then caress her, love her, massage her tenderly, give
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Why don't you tell this to your wife as a concern of yours. As a matter of fact, don't say anything guys tend to say the wrong thing or say it with the wrong tone. You want sex from her then caress her, love her, massage her tenderly, give her butterfly kisses. If you show love you'll get love. Don't do this either at a time of anger, just as a surprise and don't expect anything in return right away. After 16 years of marriage, and now that your getting older would you really want to take the chance of losing the love you once had. If you were struck with some awful disease tomorrow would someone else really be there for you? Men sometimes complain they get no action in bed, women complain they get no love shown. Get it, get it? Well, you aren't getting it if it's still sexless. Show her love dine her and wine her It's not too late.
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08/16/2012
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That is so sad. It seems like you need to reconnect with your wife.
Originally posted by
Istanbull
Been with my wife for 16 years and now in a sexless marriage. I'm at a point that I welcome any advance of someone else and if ever given the opportunity, I'll take it.
08/16/2012
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Please try with her. There has to be a reason you fell in love in the first place.
Originally posted by
Istanbull
Been with my wife for 16 years and now in a sexless marriage. I'm at a point that I welcome any advance of someone else and if ever given the opportunity, I'll take it.
08/16/2012
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second that
Originally posted by
Sodom and Gomorrah
Why don't you tell this to your wife as a concern of yours. As a matter of fact, don't say anything guys tend to say the wrong thing or say it with the wrong tone. You want sex from her then caress her, love her, massage her tenderly, give
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Why don't you tell this to your wife as a concern of yours. As a matter of fact, don't say anything guys tend to say the wrong thing or say it with the wrong tone. You want sex from her then caress her, love her, massage her tenderly, give her butterfly kisses. If you show love you'll get love. Don't do this either at a time of anger, just as a surprise and don't expect anything in return right away. After 16 years of marriage, and now that your getting older would you really want to take the chance of losing the love you once had. If you were struck with some awful disease tomorrow would someone else really be there for you? Men sometimes complain they get no action in bed, women complain they get no love shown. Get it, get it? Well, you aren't getting it if it's still sexless. Show her love dine her and wine her It's not too late.
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08/17/2012
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