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Anal sex won't ever be pleasurable for you unless you WANT to have it! Your bum won't relax and allow easy, pleasurable penetration if your mind is saying no no no. Have him read some of the excellent guides and articles about anal play and tell him that forcing someone to perform a sex act against their will is rape...even if the person you are forcing is your spouse. You have the right to say no, no matter how much you may have liked anything in the past.
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DancerLove
Thank you. We are planning to go to a marriage counselor and that would help too. And the other thing is, he isn't a Christian. He's doing better at not doing anything I don't want to do. And it's actually not the spanking,
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Thank you. We are planning to go to a marriage counselor and that would help too. And the other thing is, he isn't a Christian. He's doing better at not doing anything I don't want to do. And it's actually not the spanking, it's anal. He sometimes tries to force it it seems like and I later talked to him about it. His complaint is "Well, you used to like it" type of thing, but I reeally didn't. I just did it because he wanted to do it so bad. We both agreed to not do anything like that again, but he still tries sometimes. I just don't understand. But thank you so much.
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