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I'd like for it to be better, but children/work and other issues get in the way. It takes a lot for the wife to relax, and she doesn't really think of sex unless she's relaxed.
Honest, we are both busy...HORRIBLY busy professionals, with a kid and all kinds of other things going on....however, we learned long ago, that US time must be sacrosanct and a MUST. That means on Sunday morning, for instance. Breakfast CAN wait. We STAY in bed, no matter what. It is US time.
During the week, at least ONE day a week, we try to "retire" to the bedroom early, and usually it becomes "play time".
We WORK to make RELAXATION and sex time...but once we get into it, it flows.
You MUST realize what a priority your MARRIAGE is in all this.