we always just try to catch each other during a nap time or after she goes to be, there is no more anytime sex we have to wait til she is asleep but shes 8 months old right now
Do you have children living in your home with you? If so, does it make it difficult to find a time to have sex?
04/16/2013
Kids are light sleepers since we took their door off (punishment) and I am not exactly quiet.
We rarely get time to ourselves. :\
We rarely get time to ourselves. :\
04/19/2013
We've no kids, our guinea pig does sometimes get us out of bed with his food begging though
04/19/2013
We have two kids. And if they are awake and we want it we will turn cartoons on and when the youngest is napping we'll lock our bedroom door or go to the bathroom and have a quicky. We've even locked ourselves in a bathroom at his parents house to have sex while everyone was outside!
05/13/2013
we have two...but honestly now its not the kids its our BIZARRE sleeping (or lack thereof) schedules.
05/13/2013
No kids.
05/30/2013
We don't have kids, yet.
06/01/2013
My wife is very uncomfortable having sex with the kids home. We had an incident where our daughter came knocking on the door asking mom if she was ok because she heard her. Glad the door was locked.
09/17/2013
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Simply put; we have a 5 1/2 month old baby girl who is starting to teeth. First child at that. - C
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
are they always in bed on time and sound sleepers or do they share a bed with you and you never have alone time. what do you do?
09/17/2013
We have two kids, and it definitely impacts our sex life in many ways. When we get home from work we both focus on the kids from the time we get them home to when they go to bed. My wife isn't loud, but she's not quiet when we have sex, so I'm always a little concerned about them hearing us. There is no doubt that she let's loose more sexually when the kids aren't home.
09/18/2013
Definitely does. We do it more often and longer when nobody is home. Then we can keep volume up on toys, videos and etc. We still afraid if one of them saw our toys.
09/18/2013
She had plenty of reasons not to have sex with me before kids, having kids just completed the list.
10/07/2013
I hope it doesn't take too hard of a toll on me when I have little ones!
10/15/2013
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I agree with you, i have friends that struggle and fight to get their kids in bed and my daughter is 15 months old and since the day she could take a bath she has had a bath everynight before bed, then she gets to come in after her bath teeth and pj routine and she gets a small bottle and a little lap time, soon will be book time and then she goes to bed. even if she goes in and talks to herself for a whiile she still knows thats it and she is on her own. leaving my husband and i to do what we want the last few hours of the night.
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
I have three daughters; 6.5 years, 4 years, and 20 months. They always have the same bedtime routine, and are always in bed around the same time each night. If you make it a habit to always do the same thing 30 minutes to an hour before bed and
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I have three daughters; 6.5 years, 4 years, and 20 months. They always have the same bedtime routine, and are always in bed around the same time each night. If you make it a habit to always do the same thing 30 minutes to an hour before bed and start having a wind down plan, it makes things a lot easier. My girls know that they pick up, go potty/brush teeth, get on pj's, get into bed, Mommy reads a book, their music gets turned on, and hugs and kisses are given. Period. This is what happens EVERY night. If you start having a pattern, kids know what to expect and are less likely to break away from it. Once the pattern is established, it's a whole lot easier to find time for yourselves.
My kids are in bed BY 7:30pm, giving my husband and I time to watch a movie, play a game, take a shower together, or spend personal time in the bedroom together. We don't ever have an issue with getting that time in. less
My kids are in bed BY 7:30pm, giving my husband and I time to watch a movie, play a game, take a shower together, or spend personal time in the bedroom together. We don't ever have an issue with getting that time in. less
10/17/2013
no kids
10/28/2013
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yep same here 4 kids, bed time between 7-8pm as we have older an younger ages. we never have problems anymore took bit of time over yrs to get everyone into routine an us not to tired for each other took yrs to get right but 14 yrs 2gether we still have great sex life if not better as we open up so much more no there"s more time for us
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
I have three daughters; 6.5 years, 4 years, and 20 months. They always have the same bedtime routine, and are always in bed around the same time each night. If you make it a habit to always do the same thing 30 minutes to an hour before bed and
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more
I have three daughters; 6.5 years, 4 years, and 20 months. They always have the same bedtime routine, and are always in bed around the same time each night. If you make it a habit to always do the same thing 30 minutes to an hour before bed and start having a wind down plan, it makes things a lot easier. My girls know that they pick up, go potty/brush teeth, get on pj's, get into bed, Mommy reads a book, their music gets turned on, and hugs and kisses are given. Period. This is what happens EVERY night. If you start having a pattern, kids know what to expect and are less likely to break away from it. Once the pattern is established, it's a whole lot easier to find time for yourselves.
My kids are in bed BY 7:30pm, giving my husband and I time to watch a movie, play a game, take a shower together, or spend personal time in the bedroom together. We don't ever have an issue with getting that time in. less
My kids are in bed BY 7:30pm, giving my husband and I time to watch a movie, play a game, take a shower together, or spend personal time in the bedroom together. We don't ever have an issue with getting that time in. less
10/29/2013
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