Do you like anal penetration?

Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Really, just being honest about what you want is the best way to approach it.

When we first started with anal play, My Man just said, "I love your ass so much. I'd love to fuck your ass. Can we think of a way to make it work?" ... more
Often people say "put on a porn video about _____" when people ask about getting started. I'm not sure this is a good enough idea to get a blanket recommendation. Some people don't like porn, so it wouldn't be a good idea to spring it on them. For an activity like anal there has been much discussion over and over how they don't do it properly in porn, so that's another strike against it. You should be able to bring things up without relying on porn. Perhaps say "I've tried this by myself and like it, would you be willing to..."
01/02/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
I didn't like it personally. I find it very painful.
01/04/2011
Contributor: ReesaAndBrandon ReesaAndBrandon
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
It's good and all but there should be an I like it but not all the time option. It's good but dont wear it out. lol
01/11/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
One way exit xD
01/11/2011
Contributor: Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
I've been doing it since I was 13 and love it. It's the greatest sexual feeling ever.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I'm learning. I'm still too tense and it hurts, and I can't quite get over the whole poop fear, but I'm definitely trying to like it.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
I fall into the "Tried it and not for me" category, too. Every now and then if I'm in a really specific mood I might be down, but generally it just isn't my thing.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
People are so scared but seriously, I think that if you are safe and careful, it is the best ever!
01/12/2011
Contributor: Chevylady37 Chevylady37
i tell my husband that it is exit only, there for anal is a no no
01/13/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
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Originally posted by Beaners
I'm learning. I'm still too tense and it hurts, and I can't quite get over the whole poop fear, but I'm definitely trying to like it.
both the hubs and I like it, I dont know about LOVE it. See Im the same way. Im always afraid of somthing...yah the whole poop fear happens anytime we do, do it.
01/13/2011
Contributor: Inkblot Inkblot
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
You know, I like it a lot, but only as an occasional thing. I don't like more than a lubed finger or thumb--usually while hubby is inside me from behind--or a small plug, something like that.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Elliotstar Elliotstar
I haven't tried it, but kind of have a growing interest - so perhaps someday!
01/20/2011
Contributor: dbtracy dbtracy
Anal orgasms are the best. A lot more intense than vaginal
01/21/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by dbtracy
Anal orgasms are the best. A lot more intense than vaginal
dbtracy: How do I explain this to my wife? Any special anal sex techniques/positions that you prefer?
01/21/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by ScottA
Often people say "put on a porn video about _____" when people ask about getting started. I'm not sure this is a good enough idea to get a blanket recommendation. Some people don't like porn, so it wouldn't be a good idea to ... more
I see what you are saying Scott. Yeah, some anal in porn is not performed safely. But, in some cases, you can see your partner's reaction and also for some people, seeing something done will peak their curiosity.

It may not be the best way for everybody, but it worked well for us.
01/21/2011
Contributor: DancerLove DancerLove
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
Sometimes when I am comfortable with it, but I'm starting not to. It feels great sometimes, but my husband likes it when I don't, so if I'm in the mood and sure that I want it. But I've heard that its unhealthy
02/01/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I heart it.
02/01/2011
Contributor: SiNSaNiTy SiNSaNiTy
Too funny...there weren't enough choices for me to vote!I have tried it a few times because my partner occasionally wants it. And for him I will do it..but I don't really like it all that much!! A finger size or slightly bigger anal plug is just enough for me. Now his cock is 9 inches ling and quick wide as well, he wouldn't dare try to put the whole length in and hurt me but it is so wide that it does hurt some, but I'm getting good at easing up my muscles and taking it...ooh the things we do for each other eh...cuz I sure like that width and length in my other hole, lol!!!
02/06/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
what about *have tried it, doesnt really like it, will budge on occasion* boyfriends a big fan.
02/07/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by DancerLove
Sometimes when I am comfortable with it, but I'm starting not to. It feels great sometimes, but my husband likes it when I don't, so if I'm in the mood and sure that I want it. But I've heard that its unhealthy
If performed properly, with lube and relaxation, and proper cleaning before and after, it is not unhealthy at all.
02/07/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
I love it because its disgusting!
02/07/2011
Contributor: freshbananas freshbananas
hahah I love how EF can always make me feel like a total prude!
02/07/2011
Contributor: Blooddragon Blooddragon
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
If my wife does it to me its okay every once in a blue moon.
02/18/2011
Contributor: Eorwyn Eorwyn
I haven't tried it but I'd like to. I will admit that I'm nervous about it. Haven't been able to go further than a couple of fingers.
02/19/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
Yeah I have tried it a few times and never liked it.
02/19/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I like it a lot...even more than I thought I would, actually.
02/19/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Eorwyn
I haven't tried it but I'd like to. I will admit that I'm nervous about it. Haven't been able to go further than a couple of fingers.
Go slow then. Take your time and learn to relax and enjoy it.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Blue Babe Blue Babe
My husband really wants to try this, but we haven't yet. I am trying to be more open though, so soon enough I will hopefully be saying "love it."
02/21/2011
Contributor: lick123 lick123
Tried it and liked it. Is much better with lots of lube and if you are very aroused.
03/07/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
I love it
03/15/2011