Are you and your spouse fighters or lovers? Do you fight a lot, a little, or not at all?
Are you fighters or lovers?
04/15/2013
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My husband and I have been together for 14 years and married for 8 this september. We hardly ever fight. Maybe once every few months and its just a petty fight. However, we ALWAYS talk it out and never go to bed angry.
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
Are you and your spouse fighters or lovers? Do you fight a lot, a little, or not at all?
04/15/2013
We found the key to limiting fighting was to stop trying to win or prove the other person wrong. When your goal is to make the relationship better, the fighting seems to be less frequent and less intense.
04/15/2013
both haha
05/10/2013
We don't fight. We're both very non-confrontational people
05/10/2013
We don't fight very often. Over the years we have figured out how to settle disagreements without big blowups.
05/10/2013
Nope, been together almost a year we have disagreements but not fights, yet.... But we are really chill people.
05/10/2013
We've been together for over a decade. In all that time, we've had (I think) two disagreements that rose to the level of a fight, and the last one was about 7 years ago.
Almost always, we're able to express our disagreements and work through them in a positive way. It helps that we're both pretty good listeners.
Almost always, we're able to express our disagreements and work through them in a positive way. It helps that we're both pretty good listeners.
05/10/2013
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Very rare. We haven't had a real fight in years. With age comes wisdom I guess.
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
Are you and your spouse fighters or lovers? Do you fight a lot, a little, or not at all?
05/10/2013
We hardly ever fight anymore and if we do it's usually settled that same day or at the latest the next day. I know a lot of people say you should never go to bed angry, but for me, I usually need that time to cool off and then by morning I always feel much better and am able to talk things out.
05/10/2013
Fight, love, fight, love. Fight.
05/10/2013
We're in between. Love, hate, love!
05/11/2013
Lovers. We very rarely fight.
05/11/2013
We are lovers. We put up with our parents' fighting all the time, so we strive not to be like that.
05/11/2013
Mostly lovers. We both came from more verbally abusive homes, so we talk it out or give each other space to figure it out first before approaching the subject again.
05/18/2013
You can't be lovers that fight? Just because you fight doesn't mean that you aren't lovers as well. We're a mix right now, hopefully changing soon.
05/18/2013
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Same here with us.
Originally posted by
oneeyedoctopus
We don't fight. We're both very non-confrontational people
05/18/2013
Lovers.
05/18/2013
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